The women absolutely will not host. The only reason a top-16 team wouldn't host is either if they didn't have a suitable facility or if every team happened to be from one region. Looking at the women's top-16 it is a pretty decent geographical spread and all seem like schools that would have an adequate facility...plus if one of those schools doesn't qualify, they go to the next viable candidate. If we were 17 or 18 we might have a shot, but we're 39 - not a prayer. We'll definitely be a 3-seed somewhere and play a 17-32 team. Tulsa or LSU is who I think our first round opponent will be.
The only reason I can think that the men wouldn't host is that Baylor and t.u. will be hosting and they might not want 3 that close together...but then if you look at other teams in the vicinity that will be IN the tournament...OSU, Rice, TCU, LSU, Tulsa, Tx Tech, maybe OU...even New Mexico is closer to us than to any other host site...so that's 9 teams. It makes sense to let us host, as they have said that they are making a big effort to save money and have teams travel as little as possible.
From what I know of the way they do the tournament, they like to have a high 1 seed host a low 2-seed and so on...so they would try to pair the highest 1 seeds (#1-4 overall) with a low 2-seed (29-32 overall). They can't do it this way exactly because they really consider geography strongly, but as a "high" 3 seed, the women will probably play a "low" 2 seed and as a "low" 1 seed the men will probably get a "high" 2 seed. That's the basis for my guesses.