TL;DR my 70 year old mother is caught in a seemingly never ending cycle of specialist referrals and delays that are causing her to live in absolute misery. Do we have any recourse at all to expedite her care?
Forgive me in advance for the length of this, I'm not totally sure what is relevant and also I'm emotional so some of this is just a vent.
Last year, my mother (70 years old) experienced a CSF leak in her skull and had a cranioplasty to repair it in December. At that time, all of her symptoms were immediately alleviated.
In April of this year, she began suffering from headaches and neck pain. Over time, her symptoms have worsened to include dizziness, pressure, vision problems, brain fog, memory loss, and difficulty with keeping her balance.
She first saw her original neurologist at Lone Star Neurology in May and he ordered complete skull and brain MRI, suspecting another CSF leak.
At that time, she had to have surgery to remove her Inspire implant (for sleep apnea) in order to complete the MRIs ordered. This of course resulted in a delay.
After waiting nearly 6 weeks after the MRI to see her neurologist again, he informed her that he was not able to locate the leak and he referred her to a neurointerventional radiologist at Radiology Associates of North Texas. Initially, he referred her to the wrong person. This resulted in another lengthy delay.
When she eventually saw the correct radiologist, he informed her that he couldn't treat her either and stated that her problem is so complex that she will likely "need a team of neuro specialists" to diagnose and treat her.
At that time, he referred her to UTSW. When we contacted UTSW, they stated that they first need her to have a myelogram without contrast before they can schedule her to see a physician. They also informed her that once they have the myelogram in hand, their wait list is 3 months long. They kicked her back to her original neurologist at Lone Star to order the myelogram.
Since then, the neurologist has twice sent incomplete orders to the lab, which has resulted in her not being able to schedule the test. At this point, we have been waiting for over a week for them to send the correct orders.
Mom's symptoms are so severe that she is barely functioning. She is the most intelligent person I know, and she struggles to form complete sentences. She had to resign from her adjunct faculty position teaching undergrad math because she literally cannot communicate lessons that she's been teaching for decades. Her quality of life, frankly, is *****
I should add in case it's relevant, that occipital nerve block injections do give her relief from the pain for about 3-5 days, but they do not alleviate her other symptoms. She's been getting the injections weekly from a Nurse Practitioner for a few weeks now.
I have been handling all communication with doctors due to her cognitive impairments, but it's become a full time job. I finally set up an advocate through Solace Health, so that at least has taken the endless phone calls begging people to do their jobs off my plate.
My point/questions: what else can we do to speed this along? Is there any possible way besides begging and pleading to get her neurologist's office to handle their end correctly? Is there something totally outside the box that I should be doing? I'm honestly open to taking her out of state for care if we have to; just not even sure how to go about doing that.
It was suggested to us by multiple people that we go to the ER at UTSW, explain her symptoms and hope that they admit her. The thought process being if she's in the hospital, it kind of puts her in front of the line to see their specialists. I'm not even sure if that's true? Any insight into if that's a good strategy or not? My fear is that we'd spend a miserable day there only for them to decline to admit because she's not actually in danger of dying (that we know of).
If you've read this far, I'm really grateful. Very happy to hear absolutely any suggestions or feedback. I've never felt so helpless in my life.
Forgive me in advance for the length of this, I'm not totally sure what is relevant and also I'm emotional so some of this is just a vent.
Last year, my mother (70 years old) experienced a CSF leak in her skull and had a cranioplasty to repair it in December. At that time, all of her symptoms were immediately alleviated.
In April of this year, she began suffering from headaches and neck pain. Over time, her symptoms have worsened to include dizziness, pressure, vision problems, brain fog, memory loss, and difficulty with keeping her balance.
She first saw her original neurologist at Lone Star Neurology in May and he ordered complete skull and brain MRI, suspecting another CSF leak.
At that time, she had to have surgery to remove her Inspire implant (for sleep apnea) in order to complete the MRIs ordered. This of course resulted in a delay.
After waiting nearly 6 weeks after the MRI to see her neurologist again, he informed her that he was not able to locate the leak and he referred her to a neurointerventional radiologist at Radiology Associates of North Texas. Initially, he referred her to the wrong person. This resulted in another lengthy delay.
When she eventually saw the correct radiologist, he informed her that he couldn't treat her either and stated that her problem is so complex that she will likely "need a team of neuro specialists" to diagnose and treat her.
At that time, he referred her to UTSW. When we contacted UTSW, they stated that they first need her to have a myelogram without contrast before they can schedule her to see a physician. They also informed her that once they have the myelogram in hand, their wait list is 3 months long. They kicked her back to her original neurologist at Lone Star to order the myelogram.
Since then, the neurologist has twice sent incomplete orders to the lab, which has resulted in her not being able to schedule the test. At this point, we have been waiting for over a week for them to send the correct orders.
Mom's symptoms are so severe that she is barely functioning. She is the most intelligent person I know, and she struggles to form complete sentences. She had to resign from her adjunct faculty position teaching undergrad math because she literally cannot communicate lessons that she's been teaching for decades. Her quality of life, frankly, is *****
I should add in case it's relevant, that occipital nerve block injections do give her relief from the pain for about 3-5 days, but they do not alleviate her other symptoms. She's been getting the injections weekly from a Nurse Practitioner for a few weeks now.
I have been handling all communication with doctors due to her cognitive impairments, but it's become a full time job. I finally set up an advocate through Solace Health, so that at least has taken the endless phone calls begging people to do their jobs off my plate.
My point/questions: what else can we do to speed this along? Is there any possible way besides begging and pleading to get her neurologist's office to handle their end correctly? Is there something totally outside the box that I should be doing? I'm honestly open to taking her out of state for care if we have to; just not even sure how to go about doing that.
It was suggested to us by multiple people that we go to the ER at UTSW, explain her symptoms and hope that they admit her. The thought process being if she's in the hospital, it kind of puts her in front of the line to see their specialists. I'm not even sure if that's true? Any insight into if that's a good strategy or not? My fear is that we'd spend a miserable day there only for them to decline to admit because she's not actually in danger of dying (that we know of).
If you've read this far, I'm really grateful. Very happy to hear absolutely any suggestions or feedback. I've never felt so helpless in my life.