aggiespartan, I take offense to you saying the 160 days of rain in Portland compares to Denver! We have way more sunshine (according to wiki, 1,000 more hours a year), even throughout the winter. Many days in Jan and Feb are still sunny and pleasant to be outside. Denver is one of the few northern cities where the winter isn't harsh. I see it time and time again though, most people's opinion who don't live here is that the winters are cold and snowy. Because they came a few times, and that's what it was like. Until you live a winter here, I guess it's tough to convince. But here's the facts; the snowiest months in order are March, November, December, then Jan/April, then Feb/Oct. Those top 2 snow months are warm with highs averaging mid 50s, and account for almost 40% of the yearly snow. Add in april and a typically mild december, and that's 70% of your snow. A snow day in these months often turns to 50 deg. sunshine the next day, or even the same day. Having snow for 3+ days in a row does not seem common in my experience, in fact maybe it's happened once in my 3 winters here.
Anyway our winter is totally worth not having rain every other day IMO.
But Portland is definitely on my bucket list to visit one day. It looks like a cool city.
And OP, you'd love the summer temps in CO. I am working on a shed the last month or so in my backyard, I can work 7 until noon, be in the shade, and it's actually cool. Then again by 7 pm, it's really nice outside even on the hottest days. We've hit 90 deg+ only a handful of times this summer.
I was in your boat 5 years ago. Wife and I wanted to leave Houston. We got out a map. Denver didn't take long to be high on the list. I have several relatives here. We decided we wanted to do it in fall of 2011. Put house on market in spring 2012, sold in June, so we moved. Neither had jobs lined up here. (no kids at that time).
Both found jobs quickly, and never looked back. I'm in O&G, she's a H.S. counselor. Just do it.
COL I think is very similar to Houston. Where you pay a little in income tax, you save a ton in property tax. It's less than 1%. so a $400K house sets you back maybe $3200/yr. Gasoline is usually maybe a dime or two higher per gal. Utilities are cheap, our 3900 sqft house averages $100 a month for gas and electric. Our 1700 sqft house in Houston had the same average, which of course was killed from May-Sept.