I'll give you a clean, U.S.-focused overview so you have a solid framework going into your estate attorney meeting. This is general education, not individualized tax advicebut it should help you ask the right questions.
First: a key reality check
If you sell appreciated property, capital gains tax is usually unavoidable unless you:
defer it (timing strategies), or
offset it (exclusions, losses, charitable planning), or
eliminate it (step-up at death)
A 1031 exchange is only one deferral toolnot the only planning lever.
Option 1: Sell and pay the tax (but possibly reduce it)
Before looking at complex structures, confirm whether any of these apply:
A. Primary residence exclusion (if applicable)
If this is/was your primary home:
$250,000 gain excluded (single)
$500,000 excluded (married filing jointly)
Must meet the 2-of-5-year ownership and use test
This does not apply to pure investment property.
B. Capital gains + surtax reality
For investment real estate:
Long-term capital gains: 15% or 20% federal
Net Investment Income Tax: +3.8%
Plus state tax, if applicable
Your CPA can model whether you're closer to ~19% or ~30% all-in.
Option 2: Installment sale (often overlooked)
Instead of selling all at once:
You receive payments over time
Capital gains are recognized gradually
May keep you in a lower tax bracket
Helpful if you're transitioning toward retirement income
You still pay the taxbut later and potentially at lower rates.
Ask your attorney/CPA:
"Can an installment sale meaningfully smooth or reduce my tax burden?"
Option 3: Opportunity Zone (non-1031 deferral)
This can still work in limited situations:
Capital gains can be deferred until the end of 2026
Must reinvest gains into a Qualified Opportunity Fund within 180 days
The original gain is still taxable in 2026
Future appreciation inside the QOF may be tax-free if held long enough
This is complex and risk-dependent, but it does avoid 1031.
Option 4: Charitable planning (powerful if you're inclined)
Charitable Remainder Trust (CRT)
You sell the property inside the trust
No immediate capital gains tax
You receive income for life (or a term)
Remainder goes to charity
Often paired with life insurance to "replace" value for kids
This is highly effective for:
Large gains
Retirement income planning
Reducing taxes without reinvesting in real estate
But it's not reversible and has legal/admin costs.
Option 5: Sell and gift the proceeds to your kids
This is where many people get tripped uphere's the clean answer:
A. Capital gains come first
You pay capital gains tax when you sell
Gifting afterward does not erase that tax
B. Gift tax rules (federal)
Annual exclusion: ~$1819k per child per year (changes periodically)
Anything above that uses your lifetime exemption
Lifetime exemption is currently very high ($1314M per person)
Scheduled to drop roughly in half after 2025 unless Congress acts
Most people:
Owe no gift tax
Just file a gift tax return (Form 709) to track the exemption
So yesgifting generally falls under the lifetime allowance, not an immediate tax bill.
Option 6 (often best for families): Don't sell
If your long-term plan is wealth transfer:
Property held until death gets a full step-up in basis
Capital gains tax is effectively eliminated
Heirs can sell shortly after with little/no tax
This is often the lowest-tax outcome, but it doesn't provide liquidity now.
How this usually gets optimized
Many people combine strategies, for example:
Partial sale + installment
Sale + CRT
Sell, pay tax, gift strategically over time
Hold until death for step-up
There is no single "magic" solutionjust tradeoffs between:
taxes, liquidity, control, and simplicity.
Smart questions to bring to your estate attorney
1. "What strategies reduce capital gains without a 1031?"
2. "Would an installment sale materially help my tax picture?"
3. "Does a CRT make sense given my retirement goals?"
4. "How does the 2026 estate tax exemption sunset affect gifting now?"
5. "Should I be coordinating this with a CPA before closing?"