Unexpected Blessings

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Fitch
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A little different take in all of this business has been an unexpected "silver linings" I thought might be worth acknowledging for future posterity.

I certainly don't want to make light of the fact that many here and nationwide are focused on friends or family dying. There is tremendous personal tragedy and grief going on. Personally, I worry daily about my grandparents in Fannin Co, and my dad who is recovering from colon cancer and multiple PE since last fall. We are taking ever precaution to keep them from exposure...the risk is not worth gambling.

But I've unexpectedly really enjoyed reconnecting with college friends on "Zoom Happy Hours", teaching my grandmother how to FaceTime with distant family, seeing the clear air in Houston and meeting all my neighbors out walking in the streets/neighborhood park in the evening. I don't know why it took all this to just have a few phone calls.

Anyways, most conversations have ended with "hopefully we can do this after 'all this' is over".

Anyone else have silver linings to share, and maybe hope to continue post-COVID?
Newoldarmy
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Time with kids.

Not doing some bull**** social-charity-political-whatever event every night.
Saltgap
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Well said. This too shall pass.
Mordred
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Fitch said:

But I've unexpectedly really enjoyed reconnecting with college friends on "Zoom Happy Hours", teaching my grandmother how to FaceTime with distant family, seeing the clear air in Houston and meeting all my neighbors out walking in the streets/neighborhood park in the evening. I don't know why it took all this to just have a few phone calls.
I started a weekly Zoom happy hour with my group from A&M who haven't all gotten together in almost 10 years. Turn out has been phenomenal and it's been great to reconnect after all this time. Crazy how much I miss those people right now.

We're even gonna do an in person get together in Austin once we're allowed to see people again.
Seven Costanza
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Reminds me a little of the gigantic power outage in 2002 or 2003. Everyone was outside throwing the football or frisbee around. Good times. "Why don't we do this more?"

Then power comes back and everyone goes back to their holes.
One-Eyed Fat Man
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We've scheduled a Zoom Happy hour with our Peace Corps Volunteer friends, past, and those called home unexpectedly, from Zambia last month. Like all of us, they're trying to adapt to this new normal, but they came home leaving their projects unfinished, 24 hours or less to say goodbye to their villages and friends, and little support from the Peace Corps once they returned. I'm hopeful the time together will be good for them
ccag02
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For me it is having more time with my kids, not just at baseball and soccer practice but enjoying them at our house. Having family meals every night and not take out.

Teaching my 8 year old how to power wash the drive way and mow the yard.

My daughter has learned how to sew and has been making mask for family members.

I feel we can teach our kids some values that we have forgotten about. As much as I dislike homeschool, I feel some of these core values are more important than what they might have learned in school over this short period of time.
Tumble Weed
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Walking to the park and reading a chapter a night from Rick Warren's Purpose Driven Life.

I used to read to my kids every night. Now my 20 year old is reading to me. I know that these days will end soon, but I am enjoying it while I can.
tamc93
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My list would include:

  • Eating healthier
  • More exercise
  • Having my kids back home for our anniversary and Easter
  • Not having to pay Q2/Q3 estimated taxes.
bay fan
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The slow pace I suspect has added years to my life. I have never had the time to breath and enjoy the life I've created. I will go back to work with the realization I have what I need.

I have most enjoyed cooking with my 26 year old son, or him cooking gourmet dinners while I watch, sitting outside having a drink together, followed by enjoying leisurely meals and playing games afterwards, really talking.

We've always been close but it's a new dynamic when you're spending time together at home as opposed to doing things. It's a real appreciation of just being companionable.

I have also relished hikes in the hills for hours where I seem to watch the trees bud and turn green in front of my eyes and the wild flowers turn into stunning displays of nature. I have hiked for 20+ years but usually just marching through the trails trying to get to the end and get ready for work. This has been indescribably different and the mental benefit of this pause for me feels healing, though I never knew I needed it.

On the flip side, this has made me miss my daughter more then ever before. I feel bad she isn't part of it.
planoaggie123
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For me its what has been said and hopefully is true for a lot of people....reconnecting with the family.

I have enjoyed being around my kids 24/7. Family dinners every night. Lots of card games (even though usually we have one or two blow ups as my son is a sore loser lol). Evenings on the patio when its not raining / freezing.

Early on in this i was eager to get back....now i think it might be tougher...
Tailgate88
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We have Zoom Family Happy Hour Sundays at 5:00, and plan to continue doing so after all of this.

TXTransplant
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I may be one of the few people who actually isn't upset or stressed out or "not ok" with having to stay home.

Initially, I was most anxious about working from home. I thought I would absolutely HATE it (never done it before), but it's actually not so bad. And I'm trying to enjoy it, because I know it's not going to last forever.

I'm home with my 15 year old son. He sits at the kitchen counter doing his school work while I work. He usually finishes his work in a couple of hours and is old enough to entertain himself for the rest of the day.

I like sleeping in, not having to get up at 5:15 am and rush to get out the door, my short "commute" from my bed to the kitchen, and being able to work out at lunch.

I'm totally enjoying not having to go to Boy Scouts and religion class and whatever school/band event that is scheduled. He's doing some of those activities via Zoom conference call, which completely takes me out of the equation (yay!).

We rarely ate out before this (maybe 2-3 times a month), so I don't miss that. And it's easy to get take out from our favorite places, if we really want it.

I would say I miss my workout classes, but one studio I belong to has been doing Facebook live classes twice a day since this first started. I wish the YMCA would open up more Les Mills online content, but that's a minor complaint.

The one hard thing has been the uncertainty around our travel plans. We have a big trip planned for this summer. I moved it from late May/early June to mid-July, and I'm optimistic we will be able to go.

I think part of the reason I'm not bothered by "isolating" is that I've been working hard the last year on setting boundaries with people who aren't good for my mental health. So, I'm not looking at this experience as "isolating" but as a training exercise for establishing and maintaining healthy boundaries going forward.

I also know, though, that I have to be careful not to use "boundaries" as an excuse to become a recluse when this is all over. I have a feeling it might be easy to keep self-isolating.
Doctor Rosenrosen
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I have a 15-year old with autism who is completely non-verbal. What is a mundane daily routine for the rest of the family works really well for him.
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It's nice to see people out on their front porch and kids playing outside in their yards.
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Everyone has seen the introvert memes by now, though that's largely where I am and have always been.

The world can't go on this way, but if I never went to another crowded bar, concert, party, or sporting event in my life, it would be a minor let down, but not a big deal.
74OA
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My brother "hosted" a family Zoom video reunion that brought us together coast-to-coast. We plan to do it on a regular basis.
dermdoc
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It is good to see all of us realize the most important things in life and emphasizing those. For my family, it is God, family, country, and Aggie sports.

As a Christian, it is wonderful to see all the interest in online services which is dwarfing regular church attendance. And I believe all things work for good and to glorify God. Romans 8:28

As a family, we are enjoying the time together, especially with our new grandson.

As an American, I see more unity even with the political partisanship. And there have been no riots, etc.

I do miss Aggie sports.
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evestor1
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I have enjoyed watching more netflix at night rather than the sports i usually watch. Its help me connect with friends that enjoy TV shows.

AggieOO
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Wife being on furlough = multiple walks per day for the dogs.

Result, way less dog crap in the back yard to deal with.
Fat Bib Fortuna
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My wife found this wonderful place called Agape Farms in Montgomery County that is owned and run by a couple and their 3 kids. During the virus, they allow 2 families to come out per day and spend up to 2-1/2 hours feeding and learning about the animals. My wife got us in for yesterday afternoon and the place is just amazing for a virus break. My girls got to pet and feed horses, sheep, donkeys, pigs, chickens, turkeys, and more. They had brand new chicks and 8 baby piglets as well. And the couple provided workbooks for the kids, a picnic table to sit at, gave us a dozen fresh eggs to take home, and lots of pets on their dog, cat and prairie dog.

Total cost: Free.
TefIon Don
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I've taken this time to self-diagnose what is causing my stomach/GI issues. Apparently I'm lactose introlerant.
The Fife
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I've been able to get rid of a couple trash bins worth of unneeded stuff in the garage and have a lot ready to go one I can donate things. Otherwise I'm at home alone every day with 2 kids under 4 since I'm a single parent and day care is closed. WFH would be ideal if it wasn't for that little detail.
UTExan
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Air pollution over the city-gone
Traffic noise- gone
No door to door solicitors
Telemarketers- gone
“If you’re going to have crime it should at least be organized crime”
-Havelock Vetinari
ElephantRider
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Spending more time with my son (17 months old), especially since I'm working from home. His little sister will be here in August so it's nice to get this extra time with him.
Fitch
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Not related to the thread, but my cousin just had a baby girl. Really worried about her level of care a month ago, but the professionals in Houston got the kiddo here safely!

She is beautiful!
Boo Weekley
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I love working from home and no Houston traffic. Golf courses are pretty empty (they have covid proofed em very well). And wife and I have had a surprising amount of sexy time (we'll see how long that lasts). My neighborhood is more alive than ever in the evenings too. I do miss certain things like being able to go to the gym, seeing parents/family/friends in person, and just feeling free. Exercise and getting outside is vital.
Baacma02
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The Jehovah's Witness folks have quit knocking on doors.
Capitol Ag
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Enjoying this family time as we won't probably see something like this again.
Your Mom And Them
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I'm getting to enjoy spending time with my family in a time of the year that I barely even see them due to my job. Also, with a kid that is a senior heading to A&M in the fall (hopefully this mess will be over by then) I'm enjoying these last few months that they will be home with us. I know once they move in at Aggieland, it will never be the same. So, I'm soaking it up while I can.
Aust Ag
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UTExan said:

Air pollution over the city-gone
Traffic noise- gone
No door to door solicitors
Telemarketers- gone
Weirdly, I miss seeing or hearing planes fly over.
planoaggie123
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My daughter struggles with this lol. Her new room she was able to watch airplanes fly by consistently as she started to fall asleep. Now the sky is empty and she is not happy about it.
Aust Ag
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Yeah, I live near the lake and it seems every other evening there's some 2-seaters flying over, sightseeing. Don't see that anymore, need to get those guys back in the air! It will be another step for things feeling normal.
VegasAg98
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Yep, my 2 year old misses the airplanes. My 10 year old is having the time of his life.

My 4 month old thinks it's all good.
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