Why is dating after 35 such a beating?

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maroon barchetta
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That article was stupid.
Stat Monitor Repairman
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Writer is projecting.
maroon barchetta
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Young women want guys who are feminists.

Ok.

Good luck with that.
VP at Pierce and Pierce
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Aren't most Gen Z women fat and progtards while most Gen Z men are in shape and conservative? Of course those land whales are going to try to date older incels who have been rejected for decades.
Tanya 93
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The hate a poster has for women is scary
Hopefully that hatred isn't presented as normal for their kids.
Sea Speed
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No one here hates women you just don't like his the truth he gleans from observation.
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Sea Speed said:

No one here hates women you just don't like his the truth he gleans from observation.


When you talk reality to women their first instinct is to scream misogyny
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Sea Speed said:

No one here hates women you just don't like his the truth he gleans from observation.

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A_Train said:

Sea Speed said:

No one here hates women you just don't like his the truth he gleans from observation.


When you talk reality to women their first instinct is to scream misogyny

That's because your reality IS misogyny.
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The end result for a woman that can pay her own bills and hire out labor for what she cannot physically do, is that her peace>>>>marriage, taking care of a man who in her experience is just a big toddler, or worrying about cheating/STDs/and doing WTF she wants w her money.

It's the truth in this day and age. Sometimes it just isn't worth the time, games, and dating.

To each his/her own. Shocking fact: women aren't here to please you, be aesthetically pleasing to you, or **** you.

Happy hunting!
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Its HISTORY, not herSTORY. Never forget.

A_Train
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713nervy said:

A_Train said:

Sea Speed said:

No one here hates women you just don't like his the truth he gleans from observation.


When you talk reality to women their first instinct is to scream misogyny

That's because your reality IS misogyny.


And there it is shame, insults need to be right
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deer corn said:

The end result for a woman that can pay her own bills and hire out labor for what she cannot physically do, is that her peace>>>>marriage, taking care of a man who in her experience is just a big toddler, or worrying about cheating/STDs/and doing WTF she wants w her money.

It's the truth in this day and age. Sometimes it just isn't worth the time, games, and dating.

To each his/her own. Shocking fact: women aren't here to please you, be aesthetically pleasing to you, or **** you.

Happy hunting!



Interesting ever heard of the billion dollar beauty industry they ain't looking good for women, and biologically yes they are here to bang men.
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deer corn said:

The end result for a woman that can pay her own bills and hire out labor for what she cannot physically do, is that her peace>>>>marriage, taking care of a man who in her experience is just a big toddler, or worrying about cheating/STDs/and doing WTF she wants w her money.

It's the truth in this day and age. Sometimes it just isn't worth the time, games, and dating.

To each his/her own. Shocking fact: women aren't here to please you, be aesthetically pleasing to you, or **** you.

Happy hunting!

I've dated plenty of independent women including multiple single moms and many of them don't "pay their way" entirely. They are either getting help from family or their ex-spouse (via child support or other means), whoever they're dating, and are certainly not reaching for their purse when the bill comes.

Shocking fact: men aren't here to subsidize the material wants and lifestyle choices of women.
deer corn
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Lol. So bc you only date gold diggers, there can't be a true independent woman that doesn't want your money?
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deer corn said:

Lol. So bc you only date gold diggers, there can't be a true independent woman that doesn't want your money?
He ain't saying they were gold diggers...
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Girl boss has entered the chat
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Claude! said:

deer corn said:

Lol. So bc you only date gold diggers, there can't be a true independent woman that doesn't want your money?
He ain't saying they were gold diggers...
…but were they messing with brethren of limited means??
Tanya 93
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AggieArchitect04 said:

deer corn said:

The end result for a woman that can pay her own bills and hire out labor for what she cannot physically do, is that her peace>>>>marriage, taking care of a man who in her experience is just a big toddler, or worrying about cheating/STDs/and doing WTF she wants w her money.

It's the truth in this day and age. Sometimes it just isn't worth the time, games, and dating.

To each his/her own. Shocking fact: women aren't here to please you, be aesthetically pleasing to you, or **** you.

Happy hunting!

I've dated plenty of independent women including multiple single moms and many of them don't "pay their way" entirely. They are either getting help from family or their ex-spouse (via child support or other means), whoever they're dating, and are certainly not reaching for their purse when the bill comes.

Shocking fact: men aren't here to subsidize the material wants and lifestyle choices of women.


Are you saying that the custodial parent shouldn't get child support?
maroon barchetta
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Nobody is saying that.
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The current culture appear to be to want to have cake and eat it also. It's going yo be an unsatisfying search for companionship if that remains the expected standard. I pity those who have been conditioned to expect and demand without providing and accommodating. Some people can do well alone, but most would do better as a reciprocal and complementary union.
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I love a thread that brings out all the absolute dorks on this website to tell us how much they know about women
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Stat Monitor Repairman said:



Oh my!
Younger women are interested in older, established men instead of broke immature losers their own age? Im shocked!!
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javajaws
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Here's the truth about relationships: every one is different! Some women want X, some want Y. Same for the men. The trick is always finding a complementary set of 2 people who can offer each other what they are looking for in a relationship.

And as both men and women get older they have more lifestyle choices to make than ever before. And finding someone gets harder the more variables you add to that equation. On top of that the older someone gets, the more inflexible they become in the compromises they are willing to make.

So the longer you wait, the pickier you get, and the more unlikely it is that you will find someone that meets all of your criteria.
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I've found dating to be easier now that we can leave the kids at home by themselves and don't have to find a babysitter.
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javajaws said:

Here's the truth about relationships: every one is different! Some women want X, some want Y. Same for the men. The trick is always finding a complementary set of 2 people who can offer each other what they are looking for in a relationship.

And as both men and women get older they have more lifestyle choices to make than ever before. And finding someone gets harder the more variables you add to that equation. On top of that the older someone gets, the more inflexible they become in the compromises they are willing to make.

So the longer you wait, the pickier you get, and the more unlikely it is that you will find someone that meets all of your criteria.

All of this is spot on especially the last sentence. When I was younger, I was pretty flexible with who I dated, I just cared if they were attractive and that was pretty much it. Now that Im older and have more to offer someone, Im pretty darn picky, Im also more stuck in my ways lol.

Just wanted to add that the older you get, the smaller your pool of available singles that meet your criteria gets. Every year that pool just gets smaller and smaller. A person who is husband/wife material probably wont be on the market for very long because someone will snatch them up, or there is too much competition for them.
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PSA; staying safe with body glitter.
King of the Dairy Queen
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It honestly seems like 90% of the posters on this thread could not articulate why marriage is good and worthwhile
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A_Train said:

Sea Speed said:

No one here hates women you just don't like his the truth he gleans from observation.


When you talk reality to women their first instinct is to scream misogyny

Have you ever heard the old adage that if you think everyone you meet is an a**hole, then maybe you are the problem?

No reason, just curious.
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Quote:

Have you ever heard the old adage that if you think everyone you meet in an a**hole, then maybe you are the problem?
If I meet anyone in an a**hole, I'd be the first to admit I have a problem.
swimmerbabe11
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gosh darn it.
a perfectly good zinger ruined by a typo.
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The stability, meaning, and purpose brought to my life by my wife and my children provides immeasurable value to me and has completely turned my life around and made me into a man I would have NEVER been able to become without them.

They have improved my life in every single way I can think of. Without my wife, I would not have my kids and the loving home that she helps me provide to them.

I am equally yoked and am blessed beyond measure that God saw fit to place a woman such as her into my life.

Could I have a good life without all of that? I don't know, maybe. But what I know for certain is that every year I am married to my wife I feel more fulfilled than I did the year before.
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CC09LawAg said:

The stability, meaning, and purpose brought to my life by my wife and my children provides immeasurable value to me and has completely turned my life around and made me into a man I would have NEVER been able to become without them.

They have improved my life in every single way I can think of. Without my wife, I would not have my kids and the loving home that she helps me provide to them.

I am equally yoked and am blessed beyond measure that God saw fit to place a woman such as her into my life.

Could I have a good life without all of that? I don't know, maybe. But what I know for certain is that every year I am married to my wife I feel more fulfilled than I did the year before.


My sentiments exactly, but let's truncate that year a little bit. Every day I have my wife and kids is better than the previous. Truly the best thing that's ever happened to me.
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CC09LawAg said:

They have improved my life in every single way I can think of.
Oh yeah? How's your golf game?
 
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