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10:09a, 1/7/25
This split screen technique works wonderfully. In separate locations they each have their own therapist and they are asked how often they have sex.

They completely agree on the frequency. 3 times a week, but listen to the difference in how a male reacts to that number compared to the woman.

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8:49a, 1/9/25
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Three times a week would be an upgrade for most long time married folks.
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In reply to aggieforester05 • 8:56a, 1/9/25
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Three times a week month would be an upgrade for most long time married folks.
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9:00a, 1/9/25
These are not the videos or photos I was looking for. Do better.
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9:01a, 1/9/25
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Sorry your marred sex life sucks. Mine doesn't! My wife throws it at me multiple times a day. She can get enough of my wiener! I feel like I'm living in the Playboy Mansion!!! /typical texager men
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9:06a, 1/9/25
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Sex is hindered by many outside influences in a marriage.

Work, kids, financial stress, etc.

Best advice I can give is that you never want to turn into roommates. Always be courting your spouse and it will help keep the flame alive! Remember why you guys fell in love before the kids and work stress.

Find new hobbies to do together. Sometimes my wife and I play board games, games on the switch where we have to work as a team, etc. usually that leads to more intimacy.

Both people have to want to work on their relationship.
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In reply to fc2112 • 9:07a, 1/9/25
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fc2112 said:
aggieforester05 said:
Three times a week month would be an upgrade for most long time married folks.


No doubt!
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In reply to Aggie Therapist • 10:07a, 1/9/25
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Aggie Therapist said:
Find new hobbies to do together. Sometimes my wife and I play board games, games on the switch where we have to work as a team, etc. usually that leads to more intimacy.

Especially if you play naked.
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In reply to Ginormus Ag • 11:01a, 1/9/25
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Sorry your marred sex life sucks. Mine doesn't! My wife throws it at me multiple times a day. She can get enough of my wiener! I feel like I'm living in the Playboy Mansion!!! /typical texager men
Sounds like some of y'all married the wrong gal.
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In reply to Slicer97 • 11:05a, 1/9/25
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Nah. I married the right one.
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11:23a, 1/9/25
Why is this NSFW?
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11:31a, 1/9/25
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I still can't believe that piece of **** movie won Best Picture over star wars.
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In reply to Slicer97 • 2:50p, 1/9/25
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Slicer97 said:
Ginormus Ag said:
Sorry your marred sex life sucks. Mine doesn't! My wife throws it at me multiple times a day. She can get enough of my wiener! I feel like I'm living in the Playboy Mansion!!! /typical texager men
Sounds like some of y'all married the wrong gal.
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3:12p, 1/9/25
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Quote:
Both people have to want to work on their relationship.
I am constantly telling my wife ways she could improve & some things she could do that would help our relationship; have been disappointed with the results.
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10:15p, 1/9/25
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Maybe you married the wrong woman? Lol
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In reply to Apache • 10:18p, 1/9/25
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Both people have to want to work on their relationship.
I am constantly telling my wife ways she could improve & some things she could do that would help our relationship; have been disappointed with the results.


Don't know you or any history...but do you...look for ways to improve and do things to help?
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In reply to deer corn • 10:47p, 1/9/25
Women always say this:

"If you would help more I would be less stressed and would put out more." As if the guy isn't stressed and overworked as well.

When women use their stress level as an excuse for failing their duty to take care of their partner's emotional and sexual well being it's disengenuous and manipulative.

Is it okay for a guy to tell his partner- I am just so stressed with work and household chores....I can't take the time to communicate and take care of you emotional needs....I had to put in extra overtime this week, so we can't go have our date night I am just too tired....women would not let that fly at all...because communication, dating each other, being supportive are all needs she has in the relationship.

Well sex is a need in the relationship as well. For the guy and the woman.

But let's say in your hypotheitcal the guy pitches in more after that convo.... then he is expecting to be rewarded with sex. I have heard this a million times and experienced it myself...The woman rarely follows through and as a result the guy legitimately feels lied to and gets resentful.

The Way a relationship should work:

He should help as much as he can because he wants to reduce her stress. The woman should set expectations and communicate BEFORE she is feeling so overwhelmed she is too stressed to be intimate. And when he offers to help let him help without micromanagement or expecting him to do it exactly the way you do.

SHE should put out because she doesn't want him to **** another woman, because for most men it is their love language, and because regular sex helps maintain emotional connection. It's good for the relationship....for the man and the woman. She should want to have sex not just to "keep her man happy" but because good sex helps keep the relationship strong.

Want to have a good relationship, have good sex.
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In reply to Ags4DaWin • 11:20p, 1/9/25
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Nine edits?

Good lord!

Honestly, it just depends on the couple. Communication is everything though, which you mentioned.
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In reply to deer corn • 5:42a, 1/10/25
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It was a joke
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7:08a, 1/10/25
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Here's to empty nester former widows! We take nothing for granted.
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In reply to B-1 83 • 7:11a, 1/10/25
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Endless sex!!!!
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12:08p, 1/10/25
I would give up so much sex if my wife would stop spending so much money on stupid stuff.

I guess you could say my wife is buy sexual.
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In reply to Richierich2323 • 12:36p, 1/10/25
Username doesn't check out
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In reply to fc2112 • 12:54p, 1/10/25
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fc2112 said:
aggieforester05 said:
Three times a week month would be an upgrade for most long time married folks.


Sad but true. 99.9% of the time it's the woman's fault too as nearly every husband would gladly like to have more sex.
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In reply to Ginormus Ag • 1:06p, 1/10/25
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Ginormus Ag said:
Sorry your marred sex life sucks. Mine doesn't! My wife throws it at me multiple times a day. She can get enough of my wiener! I feel like I'm living in the Playboy Mansion!!! /typical texager men
Congrats on your marredge!
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In reply to Ags4DaWin • 3:18p, 1/10/25
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Ags4DaWin said:
SHE should put out because she doesn't want him to **** another woman, because for most men it is their love language, and because regular sex helps maintain emotional connection. It's good for the relationship....for the man and the woman. She should want to have sex not just to "keep her man happy" but because good sex helps keep the relationship strong.

Want to have a good relationship, have good sex.
What if the other woman is Rosie, is that okay?

Asking for a friend.
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8:43p, 1/10/25
I had sex with my mother in law .
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In reply to City Dumme • 9:16p, 1/10/25
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City Dumme said:
I had sex with my mother in law .


Who was better?
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11:24p, 1/10/25
Wow you are a disgusting pervert huh? Jesus
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In reply to Ginormus Ag • 6:12p, 1/11/25
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Ginormus Ag said:
Aggie Therapist said:
Find new hobbies to do together. Sometimes my wife and I play board games, games on the switch where we have to work as a team, etc. usually that leads to more intimacy.

Especially if you play naked.


I don't think that is an option in Animal Crossing.
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In reply to City Dumme • 9:03p, 1/11/25
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Pot calling kettle black...
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In reply to Ags4DaWin • 11:27p, 1/11/25
Ags4DaWin said:
Women always say this:

"If you would help more I would be less stressed and would put out more." As if the guy isn't stressed and overworked as well.

When women use their stress level as an excuse for failing their duty to take care of their partner's emotional and sexual well being it's disengenuous and manipulative.

Is it okay for a guy to tell his partner- I am just so stressed with work and household chores....I can't take the time to communicate and take care of you emotional needs....I had to put in extra overtime this week, so we can't go have our date night I am just too tired....women would not let that fly at all...because communication, dating each other, being supportive are all needs she has in the relationship.

Well sex is a need in the relationship as well. For the guy and the woman.

But let's say in your hypotheitcal the guy pitches in more after that convo.... then he is expecting to be rewarded with sex. I have heard this a million times and experienced it myself...The woman rarely follows through and as a result the guy legitimately feels lied to and gets resentful.

The Way a relationship should work:

He should help as much as he can because he wants to reduce her stress. The woman should set expectations and communicate BEFORE she is feeling so overwhelmed she is too stressed to be intimate. And when he offers to help let him help without micromanagement or expecting him to do it exactly the way you do.

SHE should put out because she doesn't want him to **** another woman, because for most men it is their love language, and because regular sex helps maintain emotional connection. It's good for the relationship....for the man and the woman. She should want to have sex not just to "keep her man happy" but because good sex helps keep the relationship strong.

Want to have a good relationship, have good sex.

Good post.

One of the things I have learned in life is almost everything follows a simple rule. Demand & supply. And Leverage. Now think about it in case of a married man. He is married to her. Which means he cannot morally just leave and sleep with some other woman. Most men I believe are moral/ethical and stop themselves even if the opportunity presented itself. But a woman does not look at it the same way. She thinks that he is stuck and has no options. Combine this with the fact that most women don't want to have sex after their quota of popping out babies is done. After that for most women sex is a chore.

So when you put these 2 things together, you get a woman who gets what she wants (no sex) and also gets to keep her husband (he won't stray as he wants to be moral).

Marriage is a construct where only the woman benefits. She gets to keep a man around to do stuff, and he does not get to phack around. It's a bad deal for the men.

Now let's look at a situation where you remove the moral angle to not straying. So men can now sleep with any woman he feels without any moral problem. I will bet my last dollar, the wife will put out every night to keep her man. The man is now in demand (from other females), and so she supplies him with sex to keep him happy at home. This is universal among all races. I have noticed that my wife gives me more attention when at parties some other women come and talk to me. They are not looking to sleep with me as they are family friends but somewhere deep down there is some jealous and the "he's my man" feeling is evoked.
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In reply to City Dumme • 11:28p, 1/11/25
City Dumme said:
I had sex with my mother in law .

WTF, seriously??
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City Dumme said:
I had sex with my mother in law .
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In reply to infinity ag • 10:24a, 1/14/25
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infinity ag said:
Ags4DaWin said:
Women always say this:

"If you would help more I would be less stressed and would put out more." As if the guy isn't stressed and overworked as well.

When women use their stress level as an excuse for failing their duty to take care of their partner's emotional and sexual well being it's disengenuous and manipulative.

Is it okay for a guy to tell his partner- I am just so stressed with work and household chores....I can't take the time to communicate and take care of you emotional needs....I had to put in extra overtime this week, so we can't go have our date night I am just too tired....women would not let that fly at all...because communication, dating each other, being supportive are all needs she has in the relationship.

Well sex is a need in the relationship as well. For the guy and the woman.

But let's say in your hypotheitcal the guy pitches in more after that convo.... then he is expecting to be rewarded with sex. I have heard this a million times and experienced it myself...The woman rarely follows through and as a result the guy legitimately feels lied to and gets resentful.

The Way a relationship should work:

He should help as much as he can because he wants to reduce her stress. The woman should set expectations and communicate BEFORE she is feeling so overwhelmed she is too stressed to be intimate. And when he offers to help let him help without micromanagement or expecting him to do it exactly the way you do.

SHE should put out because she doesn't want him to **** another woman, because for most men it is their love language, and because regular sex helps maintain emotional connection. It's good for the relationship....for the man and the woman. She should want to have sex not just to "keep her man happy" but because good sex helps keep the relationship strong.

Want to have a good relationship, have good sex.

Good post.

One of the things I have learned in life is almost everything follows a simple rule. Demand & supply. And Leverage. Now think about it in case of a married man. He is married to her. Which means he cannot morally just leave and sleep with some other woman. Most men I believe are moral/ethical and stop themselves even if the opportunity presented itself. But a woman does not look at it the same way. She thinks that he is stuck and has no options. Combine this with the fact that most women don't want to have sex after their quota of popping out babies is done. After that for most women sex is a chore.

So when you put these 2 things together, you get a woman who gets what she wants (no sex) and also gets to keep her husband (he won't stray as he wants to be moral).

Marriage is a construct where only the woman benefits. She gets to keep a man around to do stuff, and he does not get to phack around. It's a bad deal for the men.

Now let's look at a situation where you remove the moral angle to not straying. So men can now sleep with any woman he feels without any moral problem. I will bet my last dollar, the wife will put out every night to keep her man. The man is now in demand (from other females), and so she supplies him with sex to keep him happy at home. This is universal among all races. I have noticed that my wife gives me more attention when at parties some other women come and talk to me. They are not looking to sleep with me as they are family friends but somewhere deep down there is some jealous and the "he's my man" feeling is evoked.


I've seen this described as married dread. Basically increasing your market value to other women activates her competitive instincts. Makes sense to me.
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