Thunderstruck xx said:
I feel like I am a good enough Christian and person to not need to spend time at church every week. I think it's been over 20 years since I've been to a church for just the weekly service.
The idea of being a "good enough Christian" to not need church isn't something the Bible supports.
Scripture is really clear that following Christ isn't meant to be done alone. Hebrews 10:25 says not to neglect meeting together, and not just occasionally, but as a regular pattern of life. That's not a suggestion, it's a command.
Also, the Bible describes believers as one body (1 Corinthians 12:12-27). A body part doesn't function on its own. If you disconnect from the body, you're not operating the way God designed you to.
Ephesians 4:11-12 says God gave pastors and teachers to equip believers. If you remove yourself from that, you're choosing to go without something God specifically provided for your growth.
The "I'm good enough" mindset is the opposite of the gospel. The gospel says we're never self-sufficient, we always need grace, truth, and correction.
This isn't about earning anything or checking a box. It's about obedience and design. God didn't just save individuals, He placed them into a church.
Not saying this to come at you, just pointing to what Scripture says.