People only claim whataboutism when trying to distract from clear hypocrisy.
It's completely legitimate to notice in a hypothetical that a black guy gets beat up and 10 years in jail for littering, and a white guy gets community service for doing $500k in property damage. You're not trying to "distract from the fact that the black guy did in fact litter".
It's the same in the church. Traditionalists are rejected for their very well reasoned and respectful disagreements with Rome, the Germans thumb their nose and say "lol we're going to bless gay couples deal with it". One is in schism and the other is…….Synodal?
It's completely legitimate to notice in a hypothetical that a black guy gets beat up and 10 years in jail for littering, and a white guy gets community service for doing $500k in property damage. You're not trying to "distract from the fact that the black guy did in fact litter".
It's the same in the church. Traditionalists are rejected for their very well reasoned and respectful disagreements with Rome, the Germans thumb their nose and say "lol we're going to bless gay couples deal with it". One is in schism and the other is…….Synodal?