The pain of having an adult woke far left child.....

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TheEternalOptimist
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......who calls you 'Nazi' and says 'You are not my parents'. Who rejects the precepts of God and morality.

I can not be alone. But it is a very lonely feeling at times.

Thankful for my other two children who encourage me to be faithful and stand true.

What we are dealing with personally has made me loathe the whole woke nonsense even more. It is a mind virus and it harms families deeply. I righteously resent it.
jpb1999
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Just curious, how do you think this happened? Friends? School... if so, what school?
Im Gipper
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Wow.

Very sorry to hear that! I can't even imagine something like that!

I'm Gipper
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Sorry to hear it. And your username must be hard to live up to when facing things like this, my friend.
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jpb1999 said:

Just curious, how do you think this happened? Friends? School... if so, what school?
Hard to say -- culture at school was part of it. Internet activity was a huge part of it that we were ignorant of until her mid teens.

We also trusted public schools........ way too much. I still have one at home - and he is in Catholic School and quite based.
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What age?
TheEternalOptimist
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TheCurl84 said:

Sorry to hear it. And your username must be hard to live up to when facing things like this, my friend.
Somehow God is using this for my good..... but ultimately ..... for HIS GLORY.

At the foot of the Cross there is Hope. Always.

akm91
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Be careful even with Catholic schools as my kids had some pretty woke high school teachers at their Catholic school.
"And liberals, being liberals, will double down on failure." - dedgod
TheEternalOptimist
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aTmAg said:

What age?
22
gabehcoud
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I can't imagine choosing politics and/or religion over family. You don't have to agree. Just try not talking politics
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akm91 said:

Be careful even with Catholic schools as my kids had some pretty woke high school teachers at their Catholic school.
Those are hard to find in semi-rural Coastal Alabama .
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TheEternalOptimist said:

jpb1999 said:

Just curious, how do you think this happened? Friends? School... if so, what school?
Hard to say -- culture at school was part of it. Internet activity was a huge part of it that we were ignorant of until her mid teens.

We also trusted public schools........ way too much. I still have one at home - and he is in Catholic School and quite based.
How old and what school district. Perhaps she will grow out of it.

Might need to cut her off if she's a dependent. Surely she doesn't want money and support from mean conservatives.
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TheEternalOptimist said:

......who calls you 'Nazi' and says 'You are not my parents'. Who rejects the precepts of God and morality.

I can not be alone. But it is a very lonely feeling at times.

Thankful for my other two children who encourage me to be faithful and stand true.

What we are dealing with personally has made me loathe the whole woke nonsense even more. It is a mind virus and it harms families deeply. I righteously resent it.
Never stop praying that they will come back...even though it may make things more painful, always remember how much you loved them when they were going through those early stages of life, and how they were your entire world.

If you haven't tried, maybe write them a "love letter" of sorts explaining the type of love a parent has for a child.

This is honestly one of my biggest fears...I have an almost-4 year old who is just completely obsessed with me and sees me as her number one protector. I figured, if I am lucky, I have maybe 8-10 more years of her thinking I'm pretty cool. She is an only child, so I don't know how I would handle her rejecting me. At least you have the two other offspring.

Never give up on the wayward one though...you never know. The woke mind virus is NOT incurable. And many kids dabble ini all forms of rebellion at that age...goth sh**, drugs, drinking, bad behavior, taking up stupid cause etc etc.
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Going through similar experience, not child, but close friend.

Social media is the the primary driver here with my case. Limited to no discussion on other ideas, constant reaffirming of beliefs through algorithms on the platform, and a degradation of the other side (dehumanizing anyone not left).
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gabehcoud said:

I can't imagine choosing politics over family. You don't have to agree. Just try not talking politics
"I can not call anyone who supports Elon Musk my parents. He is a Nazi and he gave a Nazi salute'.

Yep. She said that.

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TheEternalOptimist said:

akm91 said:

Be careful even with Catholic schools as my kids had some pretty woke high school teachers at their Catholic school.
Those are hard to find in semi-rural Coastal Alabama .

Good point. I guess being in big city does have its disadvantages in that. My kids have never attended public school because my wife is a public school teacher. She knew that's not the environment for my kids from the start of their education and we're lucky we have found good catholic/private schools (for the most part) across three states (CA, FL and TX).
"And liberals, being liberals, will double down on failure." - dedgod
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My 58 year old sister is exactly the same. Calls me fascist, Nazi, and says we will "lose our democracy, or at least there will be a lot of bloodshed" because I support President Trump and now Elon. She's lived off of our parent's money her entire life, had a large number of kids and then divorced, and spends all of her time on social media. It's truly like a mental illness.
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TheEternalOptimist said:

jpb1999 said:

Just curious, how do you think this happened? Friends? School... if so, what school?
Hard to say -- culture at school was part of it. Internet activity was a huge part of it that we were ignorant of until her mid teens.

We also trusted public schools........ way too much. I still have one at home - and he is in Catholic School and quite based.
I don't know where you are at but College Station ISD is a liberal hell hole. Biggest mistake I made was public schools.

I ended up with one liberal and one that will end up back on the Republican side.

Still holding out hope that both will gain understanding as they mature. 24 and 26 year olds. Guess that you don't really know anything until you are 30.

Good luck and give it time.
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Scary stuff. I got lucky. My middle daughter is very into theater and was a frequent participant in a local theater group. She has been surrounded by LGBT for most of her formative teen years and on into early adult life including her time at A&M given her pursuits and the people that generally are found in that activity. She took an internship in the belly of the beast at Disney.

However, despite that environment, she is decidedly un-woke and is well on her way to being a staunch conservative. One of my proud moments was a recent photo she sent me of her at her first gun show in Florida. Last year, she asked me for a handgun for her birthday.

You just never know how it will turn out, but all you can do is be steadfast and loving when it comes to kids.
The best way to keep evil men from wielding great power is to not create great power in the first place.
akm91
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Anyone seen Tanya lately? Haven't seen her posting recently. Hope she's ok!
"And liberals, being liberals, will double down on failure." - dedgod
akm91
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Sounds like she's in the Disney Intern program at WDW. Good for her!
"And liberals, being liberals, will double down on failure." - dedgod
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TheEternalOptimist said:

aTmAg said:

What age?
22
She will likely grow out of it
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TheEternalOptimist said:

aTmAg said:

What age?
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It is possible that they realize the way of things on their own after they leave college.
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akm91 said:

Be careful even with Catholic schools as my kids had some pretty woke high school teachers at their Catholic school.
True, there are no guarantees. But even if you don't know anything about the faculty, you can play the odds and likely do better at a Catholic School.
The best way to keep evil men from wielding great power is to not create great power in the first place.
akm91
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That is very true.
"And liberals, being liberals, will double down on failure." - dedgod
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Very sorry to hear this.
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Tumble Weed said:

TheEternalOptimist said:

jpb1999 said:

Just curious, how do you think this happened? Friends? School... if so, what school?
Hard to say -- culture at school was part of it. Internet activity was a huge part of it that we were ignorant of until her mid teens.

We also trusted public schools........ way too much. I still have one at home - and he is in Catholic School and quite based.
I don't know where you are at but College Station ISD is a liberal hell hole. Biggest mistake I made was public schools.

I ended up with one liberal and one that will end up back on the Republican side.

Still holding out hope that both will gain understanding as they mature. 24 and 26 year olds. Guess that you don't really know anything until you are 30.

Good luck and give it time.
MN is far worse. We were in schools there when everything came to a head......
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TheEternalOptimist said:

aTmAg said:

What age?
22
Just keep in mind that her brain isn't even finished developing. Stay the course and she'll at least calm down, if not convert.
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TheEternalOptimist said:

TheCurl84 said:

Sorry to hear it. And your username must be hard to live up to when facing things like this, my friend.
Somehow God is using this for my good..... but ultimately ..... for HIS GLORY.

At the foot of the Cross there is Hope. Always.


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TheEternalOptimist said:

gabehcoud said:

I can't imagine choosing politics over family. You don't have to agree. Just try not talking politics
"I can not call anyone who supports Elon Musk my parents. He is a Nazi and he gave a Nazi salute'.

Yep. She said that.




Good grief. That's terrible

Is she still in your will?
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El Gallo Blanco said:

TheEternalOptimist said:

......who calls you 'Nazi' and says 'You are not my parents'. Who rejects the precepts of God and morality.

I can not be alone. But it is a very lonely feeling at times.

Thankful for my other two children who encourage me to be faithful and stand true.

What we are dealing with personally has made me loathe the whole woke nonsense even more. It is a mind virus and it harms families deeply. I righteously resent it.
Never stop praying that they will come back...even though it may make things more painful, always remember how much you loved them when they were going through those early stages of life, and how they were your entire world.

If you haven't tried, maybe write them a "love letter" of sorts explaining the type of love a parent has for a child.

This is honestly one of my biggest fears...I have an almost-4 year old who is just completely obsessed with me and sees me as her number one protector. I figured, if I am lucky, I have maybe 8-10 more years of her thinking I'm pretty cool. She is an only child, so I don't know how I would handle her rejecting me. At least you have the two other offspring.

Never give up on the wayward one though...you never know. The woke mind virus is NOT incurable. And many kids dabble ini all forms of rebellion at that age...goth sh**, drugs, drinking, bad behavior, taking up stupid cause etc etc.
Writing is an excellent way to communicate. A hand-written letter, not an email. Give your child things to think about without overtly rejecting what they believe. Rush Limbaugh was very much correct, the best way to sway someone is let them come to their own conclusions, but you can lead them there by the way you ask questions.
The best way to keep evil men from wielding great power is to not create great power in the first place.
TheEternalOptimist
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American Hardwood said:

Scary stuff. I got lucky. My middle daughter is very into theater and was a frequent participant in a local theater group. She has been surrounded by LGBT for most of her formative teen years and on into early adult life including her time at A&M given her pursuits and the people that generally are found in that activity. She took an internship in the belly of the beast at Disney.

However, despite that environment, she is decidedly un-woke and is well on her way to being a staunch conservative. One of my proud moments was a recent photo she sent me of her at her first gun show in Florida. Last year, she asked me for a handgun for her birthday.

You just never know how it will turn out, but all you can do is be steadfast and loving when it comes to kids.
Mine is living a Lesbian lifestyle.

And we won't acquiesece to her demands that we will support it.

We accept she has chosen this path. But we will not be bullied into abandoning the truth of the Gospel.

Luke 14:26:
"If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple."

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My only advice is to never cease to pray for her. She will always be your daughter no matter how hateful she may be, now or in the future. But our Lord works in His way and His timing. Give her time and I believe she'll return to you.
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TheEternalOptimist said:

Tumble Weed said:

TheEternalOptimist said:

jpb1999 said:

Just curious, how do you think this happened? Friends? School... if so, what school?
Hard to say -- culture at school was part of it. Internet activity was a huge part of it that we were ignorant of until her mid teens.

We also trusted public schools........ way too much. I still have one at home - and he is in Catholic School and quite based.
I don't know where you are at but College Station ISD is a liberal hell hole. Biggest mistake I made was public schools.

I ended up with one liberal and one that will end up back on the Republican side.

Still holding out hope that both will gain understanding as they mature. 24 and 26 year olds. Guess that you don't really know anything until you are 30.

Good luck and give it time.
MN is far worse. We were in schools there when everything came to a head......

We were in Austin ISD, and that school district went mental when Trump won. They've stopped teaching. Their aim is to create ignorant democrat voting bots. My son's history teacher spent 2 weeks on Maoism never once mentioning the millions he killed, until he brought it up. Multiple girls in my sons class complained to the teacher that my son shouldn't be reading the Bible during his breaks.
They are mental.
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I'm estranged from my family so I understand that dynamic. But instead of them putting politics between themselves and family, they chose their addictions.
 
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