jamey said:
jamey said:
As far as the helicopter parents. I shared why I think they exist, the news is basically any horror story they can dig up making people think its everywhere
I'm 55 with an 8 year old though, so I'm a generation or two off from the parents of my kids friends.
I've been trying to get the parents 2 houses down to just let the kids go knock on each other's door. Nope, we gotta text...can your kid come out and play. Com'on!
It's a miracle, the kid next door walked 2 houses down and knocked on the door to see if our kid could play!
My Dad (Class of '48) was just a Big Kid. That was even his CB handle back in the day. So the neighborhood kids (when I was in HS) would come to the door to ask if my Dad, "could come out to play?" He always did.
I remember when he turned 50. His birthday was in the summer and we were at my Grandad's lakehouse. (I was in college by that point.) Day before his 50th, he was out waterskiing and goofing around with us. (and goofing around with my older brother, my older sister and her husband involved Honda 100s and playing chase at night through the woods. Yeah, we were dumb.)
On his birthday, after breakfast, we were saying, "Dad? You coming with us down to the lake?" He replied, "No, I'm too old." (Now in his defense, I was on the back of minibike when we wiped out in the sand the night before and I was thrown clear over his back and splayed out in front of the bike, so his ribs might have been hurt because he went into the handlebars, but at that moment, my brother, who had an Eddie Murphy type distinctive laugh, did so. Dad's head whipped around from the sound, looked bac at me, I said, "Go GET HIM!" And Dad took off after my brother at top speed. Remember, Honda 100s, basically minibikes.)
So back to the day of his 50th and he pronounced himself as "too old." My brother and I looked at each, bro gestured to me so I asked, "Wait did your warranty just expire or something?" I was the only (youngest of three) that could joke with my Dad like that.) Dad looked at me over his glasses, one of those you-just-irritated-me looks. Then he looked to my brother, smiled at me, looked back at my brother and said, "Get the boat in, fill it up. I'll be down directly."