My wife is a 2nd grade teacher. Damn good one too. Your reason for pulling your kid is the exact same reason my wife is leaving teaching. Public schools even in Texas are absolutely hamstringing kids without "issues". Every day she has an example of at least one (usually multiple) kid that was being disruptive to the point of having counselors or sped called. I feel bad for the rest of the class because they are getting used to seeing that there are little to no consequences for poor or disruptive behavior. And my wife documents everything. To the point that some parents (the "not my child" type) tell their misbehaving kids that they hate my wife. And we live in one of the best school districts in the state.JDUB08AG said:
We moved to private school 2 years ago. The primary driver wasn't woke education or anything like that, it was the overt lack of discipline and growing accommodations for other kids. As an example, my daughter (first grade at the time) would have class in the hallway every couple weeks or so because some kid in her class was prone to tantrums and outbursts. Instead of removing the kid, the entire class went to the hallway so the school could accommodate their 504 requirements. Most ridiculous thing I have ever heard.
That's when my wife and I said we're done. We have generally enjoyed private school, but there is a lot of entitlement and discipline isn't what we were hoping. It is definitely better though and the environment is much more contained and managed. We have zero regrets.
It's been a long time since I was in school, but back in the day, the Catholic school kids were WAY wilder than those of us in public school.panhandlefarmer said:
The bad for them is that they had to meet a lot of new kids when they moved over to the public school. They were sheltered and we had to really work at parenting the first few years as they were exposed to more bad behavior than they had experience in private school.
HA!EclipseAg said:It's been a long time since I was in school, but back in the day, the Catholic school kids were WAY wilder than those of us in public school.panhandlefarmer said:
The bad for them is that they had to meet a lot of new kids when they moved over to the public school. They were sheltered and we had to really work at parenting the first few years as they were exposed to more bad behavior than they had experience in private school.
They had money and were used to a faster lifestyle, with all that entails. And parents that often traveled a lot for work or fun and left them at home.
From what I've been told and have seen with my cousin's kids, math is one of the weakest things about home schooling.TheEternalOptimist said:
Our son's math skills started to outstretch our ability to teach more to him- so we made the decision to pursue Christian education.
panhandlefarmer said:
TLDR: The answer isn't private, public or homeschooling. The answer is parents prioritizing their children's education, being involved to know when their child isn't reaching their potential, and advocating for their needs.
dermdoc said:
I have two grandkids ages 4 and almost 6. My daughter is the expert on this and did extensive research. We are paying for my grand kids to go to a private Montessori school. We have visited and love it.
Very low student to teacher ratio and constant interaction.
My daughter's both went to private Christian schools.
dermdoc said:
I have two grandkids ages 4 and almost 6. My daughter is the expert on this and did extensive research. We are paying for my grand kids to go to a private Montessori school. We have visited and love it.
Very low student to teacher ratio and constant interaction.
My daughter's both went to private Christian schools.
This is very true.Quote:
If you choose private school, note that there are plenty of fairly woke private christian schools, so do your research well.
MasonB said:
Homeschool dad here.
What do you want to know?
eric76 said:From what I've been told and have seen with my cousin's kids, math is one of the weakest things about home schooling.TheEternalOptimist said:
Our son's math skills started to outstretch our ability to teach more to him- so we made the decision to pursue Christian education.
An old friend of mine from A&M has done some math tutoring for home school kids for that reason.
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You're making the assumption that the majority of public school teachers are all wizards in their own respective fields.aglaohfour said:
Homeschool is not an option for us. I am not a good teacher, and she is substantially more intelligent than I am, truly. It would be a disservice for her education to be in my hands.
The DISD TAG program is very good. Granted they are not as rigorous as the private schools but they try to keep the smart kids loaded down with the work and out of trouble. My children survived and excelled in the inner-city public schools. The top 10% rule is achieved easily. Also, children in TAG and AP classes do not have to contend with as many troublemakers. My experience with the private schools is the 'rich' kids have $ and will use those resources to get into and stay in trouble. Many of those 'rich' kids underperform and do not gain acceptance into the top notch schools or excel later in life.Over_ed said:
I taught at TAG HS (Dallas) many years ago and thought it was a very good experience. But not nearly as good as the best private high schools - for example St. Mark's (Dallas). St. Mark's is perennially one of the top 2 or 3 high schools in the nation with facilites that rival many universities.
But St. Mark's and its ilk are not a good fit for many students - the academic competition can be very challenging. If a university is blindly looking at class ranking, then moderately talented students may get better acceptances from less top-heavy schools. And getting into a school like St. Marks can be very difficult.
mslags97 said:
We did a home school/Classical school. Partial home and partial in class through 6th grade. 7th through graduation, was a Classical education, but the school was a Biblically based education/foundation.
Our school was much more concerned with the ability for our kids to leave the school with the ability to discuss what they believe and to stand up for what they believe and defend it.
I have a Junior currently at A&M, doing very well; a second year student at the Naval Academy who is about to finish that second year with a 4.0….
My baby girl is graduating in 2 weeks and will be a freshman at A&M.
The big difference we have seen between the education our kids have received and the public system is parental involvement. It's work…. And hard at times, but it is so worth it.
agAngeldad said:mslags97 said:
We did a home school/Classical school. Partial home and partial in class through 6th grade. 7th through graduation, was a Classical education, but the school was a Biblically based education/foundation.
Our school was much more concerned with the ability for our kids to leave the school with the ability to discuss what they believe and to stand up for what they believe and defend it.
I have a Junior currently at A&M, doing very well; a second year student at the Naval Academy who is about to finish that second year with a 4.0….
My baby girl is graduating in 2 weeks and will be a freshman at A&M.
The big difference we have seen between the education our kids have received and the public system is parental involvement. It's work…. And hard at times, but it is so worth it.
What is "classical" school?
agAngeldad said:
It's interesting how no one says their kids are behind in homeschool; none have issues, and all are excelling.
Don't mean to be a downer on homeschools. I have several grandkids that are doing homeschool, and of course my daughter did "all the research," and those kids are the "best." However, my other grandkids are in public schools, and all are excelling as well. I hope the homeschool systems find a way to provide extracurricular programs that develop our young kids.
Time will tell how homeschooling works out, but not all public schools are a problem. I encourage my adult kids to buy homes in areas with top public schools where parents are involved.