If you or your children started college in last 10 years, then you lived it. This is my 3rd time since 2017. My daughter's college and Law school and this year my son's college application process. Some random info:
We taught our daughter to be well rounded. Sports, music, theater etc. She graduated top 10% of her class in 2017 with 1480 (800 reading) SAT. She received acceptance from one school, UC Davis and rejected from the rest 15 schools that included most UCs except Merced, Riverside and Santa Cruz. I blamed myself that perhaps we didn't stress enough on GPA and SAT. She majored in English (3.85 GPA) at Davis and aced the LSAT and admitted to Cornell. During the law school admission process, I saw many URM applicants get admitted to better law schools with much lower GPA and LSAT. Nonetheless, she's graduating in a month and has a job in Big Law.
Son graduates HS in 2 months. #1 in his class, 4.85/4.0 GPA, 1570 SAT. Excellent essay reviewed by Cornell Law Students ; ) & enough EC to not get penalized but not enough to make him different. And this is where I believe he could've used help.
He got accepted to engineering schools at UC: Davis, Irvine, Santa Barbara, Santa Cruz and LA, but rejected from San Diego and Berkeley. Waitlisted at Cal Poly SLO and Washington & Lee. Also accepted to College of William and Mary and several small liberal arts colleges with full ride to decent merit based scholarships. Rejected from Harvard (only Ivy applied), MIT, Cal-Tech, Northwestern, UVA, Williams, Swarthmore and all Pomona Colleges he applied to. Waiting on Stanford but it's a super reach.
Overall he did well and most likely commit to UCLA (I'm a Trojan). Imagine UCLA had the most freshmen applications @ 146,000 with 8% admission rate. Which means there were more rejections sent out from UCLA than any other schools in the US in addition to them being the #1 public u in the country tied with Berkeley per USNWR.
What did we learn and what does my son think of all this? He said, "Dad...this is a silly game." It used to be, good GPA and Test Scores and some EC were enough for a middle class applicant to get a few acceptances from top institutions. Today, the process and criteria are unclear and seem severely subjective based on scorned and abandoned progressive minded admission committee on a vengeance for being bullied. No parents like to see rejections get doled out to their children. But you better be ready because your kids will get rejected somewhere. Without a clear explanation why. My son will go through this again in 3 years for grad/professional school application. Hopefully he'll be better prepared to apply and provide what the committee likes. I believe my son will switch to Astro-Physics with a minor in music and then apply to either Business, Law, or Med School.
A good student will get a good education in the US, liberal at most places albeit. And that's the truth. But if you want your kid to get admitted to top 20 or so schools, then I recommend you start the process early at 8th grade and hire an admission advisor and build a platform. Good academic foundation is a must. It starts with reading early. Both kids were voracious readers and my daughter set all kinds of AR records in Dallas when she was in elementary school. I never advocated for my kids to pursue happiness, passion or do what they love. I stressed them to pursue excellence and in that, they'll find happiness and love. And no, they were not going to major in a useless field. But do note that progressive liberal focused ECs are definitely valued by admission committees. Whatever that may be, your kids should do it.
My daughter asked my son...hey bro, how many schools did you get into....and with his response of 9, she said, heh, that's 9X more than me. I said..one is enough, easier decision.
I don't really have a point. Just wanted to share our journey that's not over yet. And I owed y'all an update from another thread pertaining to college admissions. I'm looking forward to some UCLA football games in the Big10 with son and my golf gear/hat will have UCLA logo. USC-UCLA will be heckuva lot more interesting going forward though my sons first love was Aggie Football.
- Not Under Represented Minority (URM)
- CA resident
- Middle class - zero qualification for need based financial aid
- HS class ~ 400 primarily white in isolated suburban area of Northern Cal
- My kids didn't cure cancer or invent Google.
- No paid instruction for SAT prep
- 529 fully funded to cover in state undergrad
We taught our daughter to be well rounded. Sports, music, theater etc. She graduated top 10% of her class in 2017 with 1480 (800 reading) SAT. She received acceptance from one school, UC Davis and rejected from the rest 15 schools that included most UCs except Merced, Riverside and Santa Cruz. I blamed myself that perhaps we didn't stress enough on GPA and SAT. She majored in English (3.85 GPA) at Davis and aced the LSAT and admitted to Cornell. During the law school admission process, I saw many URM applicants get admitted to better law schools with much lower GPA and LSAT. Nonetheless, she's graduating in a month and has a job in Big Law.
Son graduates HS in 2 months. #1 in his class, 4.85/4.0 GPA, 1570 SAT. Excellent essay reviewed by Cornell Law Students ; ) & enough EC to not get penalized but not enough to make him different. And this is where I believe he could've used help.
He got accepted to engineering schools at UC: Davis, Irvine, Santa Barbara, Santa Cruz and LA, but rejected from San Diego and Berkeley. Waitlisted at Cal Poly SLO and Washington & Lee. Also accepted to College of William and Mary and several small liberal arts colleges with full ride to decent merit based scholarships. Rejected from Harvard (only Ivy applied), MIT, Cal-Tech, Northwestern, UVA, Williams, Swarthmore and all Pomona Colleges he applied to. Waiting on Stanford but it's a super reach.
Overall he did well and most likely commit to UCLA (I'm a Trojan). Imagine UCLA had the most freshmen applications @ 146,000 with 8% admission rate. Which means there were more rejections sent out from UCLA than any other schools in the US in addition to them being the #1 public u in the country tied with Berkeley per USNWR.
What did we learn and what does my son think of all this? He said, "Dad...this is a silly game." It used to be, good GPA and Test Scores and some EC were enough for a middle class applicant to get a few acceptances from top institutions. Today, the process and criteria are unclear and seem severely subjective based on scorned and abandoned progressive minded admission committee on a vengeance for being bullied. No parents like to see rejections get doled out to their children. But you better be ready because your kids will get rejected somewhere. Without a clear explanation why. My son will go through this again in 3 years for grad/professional school application. Hopefully he'll be better prepared to apply and provide what the committee likes. I believe my son will switch to Astro-Physics with a minor in music and then apply to either Business, Law, or Med School.
A good student will get a good education in the US, liberal at most places albeit. And that's the truth. But if you want your kid to get admitted to top 20 or so schools, then I recommend you start the process early at 8th grade and hire an admission advisor and build a platform. Good academic foundation is a must. It starts with reading early. Both kids were voracious readers and my daughter set all kinds of AR records in Dallas when she was in elementary school. I never advocated for my kids to pursue happiness, passion or do what they love. I stressed them to pursue excellence and in that, they'll find happiness and love. And no, they were not going to major in a useless field. But do note that progressive liberal focused ECs are definitely valued by admission committees. Whatever that may be, your kids should do it.
My daughter asked my son...hey bro, how many schools did you get into....and with his response of 9, she said, heh, that's 9X more than me. I said..one is enough, easier decision.
I don't really have a point. Just wanted to share our journey that's not over yet. And I owed y'all an update from another thread pertaining to college admissions. I'm looking forward to some UCLA football games in the Big10 with son and my golf gear/hat will have UCLA logo. USC-UCLA will be heckuva lot more interesting going forward though my sons first love was Aggie Football.