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Putting Down Our Dog Tomorrow, Pretty Unexpected

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XpressAg09
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This damn dog, y'all. Made it 12 years and it was the first dog I raised from puppy-dom. All in all, helluva ride and I'm over the initial shock from the vet call today, so I'm hoping I can ride this out without breaking down...again.

Long story short, we got Abbie from Brazos County Animal Shelter in Spring of 2007 and my then girlfriend, now wife and mother of two kids, and I basically built our lives around the three of us. We had trouble getting pregnant and so we got a second dog to give Abbie some company, but Abbie always knew she was the top of the totem pole. This dog went from being an only child to being surrounded by another dog and two kids all in the span 25 months...so she's definitely run the gamut.

After two weeks of not eating much and being pretty lethargic I decided to take her in to the vet. The lethargy is not unusual since she's 12, but the not eating is what tipped me off something was wrong. Turns out, it's lung cancer (*****Cancer) and our run comes to an end tomorrow at 3pm. Was not expecting that call from the vet, not today...

If y'all would, hug them dogs and think of me and Abbie Friday at 3pm. She'll do fine and seems ready. But it's so sad seeing her on steroids right now and acting like a not-quite-puppy-but-still-younger dog. She's had fajitas and a lunchable (she always gets the leftovers from my kids, but got her own, Oreo and all, today) and tomorrow we'll send her off with a Whataburger in her stomach. Makes me want to eke it out just a little longer, but that wouldn't be fair to her.

I love this dog.





ThunderCougarFalconBird
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You gave her the best life she could ever have had. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family as you say goodbye to a beloved companion.
BCStalk
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Very sorry to hear that. It's hard to lose a best friend.
Krautag81
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Sorry to here that brother, losing part of the family is tough. Hang in there.
SanAntoneAg
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That sucks, putting down a dog is a tough experience. We lost one to cancer a few years ago and have had to go through the old age thing with others. Pretty depressing deal for quite a while and the adjustment of not having your long time family member around.

Hang in there.
Alte Schule
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When my Dylan the Wonder Dog passed a few years ago I saw this here on Tex Ags and it gave me comfort.
I'm almost 70 now and want to believe this is true. God bless.

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
Author unknown...
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XPress.......sorry to hear of this my friend. Our family will be sayin a prayer for your family and Abbie tomorrow. I am sure she loves you as much as you here. I have experienced this 8 times in my old life and it never gets easier.
It is just damn hard to loose your friend. Dog is God spelled backwards and he is feeling your pain as well.
Hang in there...it will get better.
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BuddysBud
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Sorry to hear about your pal.
Rest assured that you are doing the right thing.
Emotional Support Cobra
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I am so sorry! We will be there soon with our old lady. Sounds like you gave her an awesome long life.
BenderRodriguez
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You're willing to accept the pain of loss, so Abbie doesn't have to carry the burden of pain.

There's no greater gift you could give your friend.
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Thank you for rescuing a pup from a shelter

My thoughts and prayers are with y'all
MouthBQ98
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Sorry, I know how it feels. It's a tough decision and it will be hard, but you will know it is the right thing to do, and in time you will have good memories to think on.
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Sorry, my friend. It's never easy losing your pet and part of the family.
JYDog90
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Oh man. Really sorry to hear this. God has been kind to give you the blessing of a dog like this.
Formerly Willy Wonka
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aggiepublius
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Sorry to hear. I went though this last year and it is hard.
XpressAg09
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Ugh this was the worst, best thing I could've seen.

I'm not sleeping much tonight, but she's already asleep on her bed, just like normal. We had a great run.
FCBlitz
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The dog has had a good life and known love. It never ceases to amaze me how short a dogs life can be. Love em while you gave them.


Going to be taking my dog to Needville Vet Clinic tomorrow to have her liver looked at via an ultrasonic scan. Penny has been barely moving so I took her in today to get blood work. Liver numbers are very high. Anywhere from to 2x to 5x high. Something is up just got to get it figured out.

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Well you just made me cry before bed. Had to go give our pups some extra love. I know they don't get enough (or at least near as much as they would want) with our busy schedules and the kiddo. But they got some extra ear scratches tonight.
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Just a Dog



You were just a dog. But a good dog. Right from the start. Your loyalty was never in question. And what you didn't know, you didn't know because I never took the time to teach you.

When you were young I was harder on you. I expected you to understand the basics...and you learned them. A "bad dog" was like a whip on your back.

But when uncontrollable instinct got you in trouble, I didn't hold it against you. I doctored you up, changed your bed and remembered that reason gets left behind in the heat of passion. Be it skunks, gyps or cloven hooves.

You were patient with the young, pups or kids. They pulled your hair, barked around you in circles and rode on your back. I never had to worry. They were safe with you.

You suffered the indignities of veterinary examinations, injections, probings and overnight incarcerations, refusing always to lift you leg under anyone's roof.

You posed for pictures, rode on loads like an acrobat and endured spring clippings yet never lost your dignity.

A fierce guardian of your territory, you did your best to protect us. I knew better than to shout you down at two in the morning. I always figured you were barking for a purpose.

Old age was not unkind to you. Despite the hearing loss, cataracts and stiff joints, you carried on. Sure, I had to help you in the pickup, but you were part of the crew. I noticed you ate less, slept later and turned gray but you never lost your enthusiasm for being part of our outfit.

People debate if dogs have a heaven. I'm not sure that matters. What is heaven to a dog? Enough to eat, something to chase, shade in the summer, someone to scratch your ears and pay you a little attention now and then.

All I know is you added to our life. Companion, listener, guardian and connection to a part of nature we tend to overlook because we're too busy worrying about the minutiae of life.

You reminded us to appreciate a sunny day, a bone to chew and a kind word. You'll be missed around here.

You were just a dog. But you'll be in my heaven. Rest in peace, old friend.

by Baxter Black
76Ag
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This is the reason we will not get another dog.
SWCBonfire
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Had to put my Bentley down yesterday. He was surrendered by his prior owners at 10 yrs old. We only got a few years with him, and his quirky old-man ways.

I now consider myself fortunate that all my prior dogs got to go out on their own way. That was tough. Rest in peace, B-dog.
JDubyaAg01
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Sorry to hear this. It's always tough even when it is the right thing to do. I will give my pup some extra love today too.
OhAggie98
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Reading your story made my eyes water, as I just dealt with similar last May. You're a good dog owner to be making the right decision and not being selfish.
ironmanag
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I hate hearing this. Brings back one of the saddest days of my life so far. Will be thinking of y'all.
Aggie Class of '97 and '16, Proud father of Aggie classes of '25 and '29
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XpressAg09 said:

Ugh this was the worst, best thing I could've seen.

I'm not sleeping much tonight, but she's already asleep on her bed, just like normal. We had a great run.

Someone shared this with me last year when I went through what you're going through. It's sad, but I hope it gives you at least a little comfort like it did me.
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Duckhook said:


F***... Slicing a sack of onions, over here...

Had to put my dog down a couple days before Thanksgiving. Totally unexpected. At most, he had reached half his expected life span. Went to the vet thinking worst case is pneumonia...it was heart failure. Went in that morning expecting to have him for several years. By that evening, he was gone.

Sounds like OP had a full life with him and had time/expectations to prepare for this event. Guess that's about all you can ask for.
Gunny456
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Just wanted to say we are all still thinking of you this afternoon. Prayers going up for sure.
agrams
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looks like our pup who was a black mouth cur. Great dog. Same story for the wife and I. Got the pup when we were just married, had her for several years, then had a kid. One day the dog jumps off the bed, yelps a little, then loses appetite. Take her in for tests and kidney cancer. In 10 days from first issue we had her put down. I wasn't going to let her sit around the house and wither away for a week to a horrible state. Was only about 5 years old, but a helluva dog. Very friendly and obedient.
BurnetAggie99
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Dang that's terrible. Sorry for your loss
NW80
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Damnit!
I hate this for y'all!
T&P for you and your family!!

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Beckdiesel03
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It sucks and I'm very sorry. **** cancer. I lost my 11 yo lab to colon cancer then 2 months later my 15 yo Golden to cancer/old age. It was a lot easier with the Golden bc I had time. I freaking did everything I could for the lab and in the end I prolonged his life and it wasn't worth it. Love your dogs while they are here and then let them RIP when it's time. It's the only thing that makes me feel okay
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So sorry for your loss.

We lost our "walk up" pit bull farm dog Spot last week. He walked up on our farm along with another mixed breed over 3 years ago and we took them both in. He was very afraid of men at first but took to my wife very quickly. He was abused by someone. I still remember Spot and Dot walking up our road the week before Thanksgiving 2015. I was drinking a cup of coffee in our kitchen and saw them walking down the road. He had a torn blue harness dangling around his neck.... I'll never forget him as long as I live. He was a great dog and I miss him very much.
XpressAg09
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Thanks for the words, guys. Everything went really well today; smooth and gentle. We had fajitas last night and my dad was able to come into town for a few hours today which really made Abbie do well...she's my dog but she was my dad's first 'grand-child,' so she was spoiled out the wazoo by that man. It was great having him here to help, and they got to go on one final walk, eat lots of jerky, and he came to the vet with my wife and I.

Dr. Oliva (Tomball) is a fantastic vet and Ag and came in on her off day just for us. She walked us through what was going to happen and let us take our time in the few minutes before. We took her bed, tennis ball, and her leash with us, and left all of those with her and the vet. We managed to get her to lie down on the bed with some peanut butter that the vet gave us and we said our good-byes right before Dr. Oliva pushed the first plunger in. 20 seconds later, she was asleep with all the "love you's" and "good girls" we could fit in in that time. I couldn't stay in the room for the final plunger, so again, thankfully my dad has done this before and chose to stay with her when her heart stopped beating.

My last memory of this dog is me rubbing her floppy ear between my thumb and middle finger, which was our thing, and her literally snoring as I kissed her, which is exactly how I want it to be.

I'm not sad, not right now. Kyle (our other dog) is currently seemingly unaware of everything, but I'm worried he'll start to miss her since he was the quintessential little brother. Y'all, it was terrible last night, watching him try to 'pick a fight' with Abbie and she just wouldn't do it...but, fear not! Our neighbor fosters dogs and is more than willing to let us test one out when we're ready.

No sadness for us tonight. We toasted Abbie this evening and shared great memories of a great dog. But seriously, hug them dogs for us.

Gig 'em and God Bless,
XpressAg and Abbie
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