I'm afraid you're dealing mainly with a bunch of guys, who wouldn't know a cute shopping town if it bit us on our cyber-butts.
The only thing that quickly comes to mind is Post, Texas. They have a trade day the first weekend of every month in an old textile mill, and a B&B in the old Hotel Garza.
http://www.hotelgarza.com/Two hours north, Amarillo has some B&Bs and even a spa (I think). I'd just do an Internet search for what you're after. Beyond the usual chain store shopping at the mall, there are a wad of antique stores along old Route 66 in an area known as Sixth Street. Supposedly there are over 100 antique and specialty stores.