I grew up in El Paso and have never understood the negative sterotypes associated with it, especially with regards to crime. The fact is, its overall crime rate is low for a large city (much lower than Houston, Dallas, San Antonio, or even Austin or Fort Worth), and its murder rate is one of the lowest in the country among cities with populations over 250,000.
http://www.infoplease.com/ipa/A0004902.htmlhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_cities_by_crime_ratehttp://www.morganquitno.com/cit06pop.htm#500,000+As far as suggestions, you can enjoy hiking (the Franklin Mountains right in the middle of the city, Hueco Tanks and its petroglyphs, Guadalupe, Big Bend, Oliver Lee, the Sacramento Mountains), skiing (Cloudcroft, Ruidoso), exploring (Wyler Tramway, Ysleta, Socorro, and San Elizario Missions, downtown and the Plaza, the zoo, Old Fort Bliss, War Eagles Air Museum in Santa Teresa, Wilderness Park Museum, Border Patrol Museum, Carlsbad Caverns, White Sands, Old Mesilla, Elephant Butte Reservoir, the Mercado in Juarez, Copper Canyon), watching sports (UTEP football and basketball, Diablos baseball, Patriots soccer, the Sun Bowl, Sunland Park Racetrack), appreciating the arts (El Paso Museum of Art, Viva El Paso! in the McKelligon Canyon Amphitheater, the El Paso Symphony at the restored Plaza Theater or at Abraham Chavez Theater, "Music Under the Stars" at Chamizal, various productions at UTEP), eating great Mexican food (Forti's Mexican Elder, La Hacienda, Avila's, Leo's) or steak (Cattleman's Steakhouse) or Tex-Mex (Jaxson's Restaurant and Brewing Company), golfing (Painted Dunes), bar-hopping (Mesa Street Bar and Grill, King's X, Juarez Sports Book), shopping (Sunland Park Mall, Cielo Vista Mall, Bassett Center), playing (Ascarate Park, Western Playland, Wet 'n Wild, Tinseltown), and taking in the sunny, low-humidity weather.
Also, unless your job involves working with new immigrants (such as agdoc2001's at a hospital), you should have virtually no problem with people not speaking English.
I'm not saying it's heaven-on-earth at all (I don't live there now and don't plan to again), but it's not a bad place if you give it a chance.
Hope you enjoy your stay, moo and agdoc2001!
[This message has been edited by CS3 (edited 10/25/2006 8:06p).]