Bob Kelso said:
Literally watch my families future be completely altered because of car notes. That money can go to more wealth generating vehicles.
I've learned that the wishing and wanting is the thing you enjoy. And when you finally get it, it wasn't the shining thing you thought it was going to be.
This is true for most, but not all.
I have plenty of savings. I have zero debt. I paid cash for my last Raptor. I've driven Raptors for 8 years (as of February 9) and each time I get in one, I smile. I'm currently looking to upgrade to a Raptor R.
I never figured that I'd live as long as I have, I've had T1 diabetes for 41 years. My sister died from it after 25 years, 25 years is about what most T1's last with the disease. I also have outlived the other 3 members of my extended family diagnosed with the same cancer that I was, my dad lived 5 weeks, my cousin lived 17 months, and another cousin lived 5 months. I'm at over 8 years. That side of the family also has many other cancers.
At some point, diabetes may win. Multiple doctors have told me it's when, not if the cancer returns. I am trying to spend some of my money on things I enjoy while I still can, but balance that with saving for tough times that likely likely accompany then end stage.