sorry for the late reply - most of what I gathered from those with school age children is that it all depends on where you live - some areas will be fine, while some might have your kids feeling out of place. I get that the further you get from the city, the worse it gets, but can get specific areas for you to consider later if you decide to move. Sugarhouse, and Cottonwood Heights are good neighborhoods that aren't right downtown but I don't know about schools.
If you haven't finished your two week trip yet - there are definitely some good places to check out. The brew pubs are great (Squatters, Red Rock) for traveling alone bc you can just sit at the bar. The Bayou is a good place to eat with a great beer selection. The Red Iguana is actually pretty good Mexican. Go check out Sugarhouse and hit Fiddlers Elbow or Este Pizzeria. Piper down, The Beer Hive, and the Green Pig are some cool bars to hang out in. Gracie's is a nice gastropub, just stay away on Friday/Saturday nights - people think they are in a club or something...
I would say ski or snowboard if you get the chance, but even if you don't, at least drive up one of the Cottonwood Canyons (if the roads are clear) - you can even take the tram up at Snowbird just for a nice view. The Porcupine is another fun place to eat at the mouth of Big Cottonwood Canyon.
If you have time, drive over to Park City just to check it out - there is a cute Main Street and some good food.
I know that was a lot of info - but I hope you have a good time while you are here! As someone who was dreading living in SLC, I can tell you that it really is a nice place, and we have a decent Aggie group here to watch games with and such.