So we have been putting a few thousand every year into a pre-tax fsa account for childcare expenses. Going back to 2020 I guess we just completely forgot (childcare was disrupted by Covid) about it and haven't submitted any expenses so it's just sitting there. We will submit a small about this year and stop the deductions at open-enrollment. This is through my wife's employer (NISD) and they have not been very helpful yet. They say we cannot file any claims for 2020 or 2021 at this point. Surely we can get this money back after paying back taxes on it, right?