one MEEN Ag said:
Ol_Ag_02 said:
Here the thing. If you sue, your HOA management company is gonna be like hell yeah, more fees for us to support this lawsuit, the actual attorneys costs are fronted by the HOA itself. Who's members don't really care if the HOA is sued because they're also not liable, but will support pushing forward with the lawsuit because they certainly aren't gonna give up the power to their fiefdom willingly.
The only person that wins when it comes to HOAs is John Carona, who while in the legislature worked to encode into law the rules and regulations that ensure HOAs / Associa remain in power.
Thats a little more cynical than most HOA's internally will run (but not by much).
They can run out of cash just like you can. And its not politically nice for them to have to explain they're raising rates because of a lawsuit that they could avoid. Or that other projects are delayed.
The rub will be how realistic are their lawyers versus the lawyer OP hires. If their lawyer can't find any reason to support 'discouraged' as a definitive legal action separate from 'denied' then I think OP would win in a game of chicken here and the HOA would settle right before the lawsuit. Most lawyers aren't stupid, its the clients that are emotionally invested.
The politics working against OP is that broad language denying casitas really cuts down on AirBnBs infiltrating neighborhoods. So for every family that appreciates you fighting to give your aging mother their own living quarters, there are 2-3 other families who think you're going to allow 23 year olds to throw ragers and play music too loud.
Fair enough. I wish nothing but evil and disdain on my HOA, this is the last house I'll ever live in that has one.
Mine is currently fighting a HUD complaint because they don't want to allow wooden tree swings in front yards because "they make our neighborhood look trashy and children should play in backyards".
They're gonna get their asses handed to them because they do not enforce all front yard requirements; i.e. all the old folks get to have bistro tables, Adirondackchairs and bird baths in their front yards without getting violations because they're on the ACC and or friends with ACC members. All of which are violations of our covenants.
So the fact they enforce the rules designed to limit the activities of children and not those for adults is problematic for HUD.
We've been through ACC reviews, we've petitioned the board, we've been over ruled several times. My personal favorite document I sent to HUD was a member of the ACC accidentally copied me on an email that said "go ahead let (my neighbor) sue the HOA we'll just counter sue her into oblivion when she asked for an appeal per the bylaws."
I hate HOAs. But I can live with equal and fair enforcement of the rules. I cannot stand NIMBY bitter losers that only enforce the rules they like and routinely amend the ACC rules and regs to fit what they want when they want.
Mostly I hate them because we owe an extra $2000 this year because they depleted our surplus in 2020 to spend $250,000 on a aesthetic stone wall for the front of neighborhood. It's a wall that is in sections, doesn't actually provide a barrier or any sound deafening, strictly done for looks. Expenditure was not voted on by the community.