Get Off My Lawn said:Ok boomer.Kenneth_2003 said:
Group and I were chatting about housing the other day. It's a spending and saving problem.
Take a young couple... Even if they're actively trying to have kids... Concerns about schools are 5 years away, you don't have to chase the good school areas to start. Plus in 5-8 years where the good schools are can change.
Yes it's $10 Starbucks. It's Netflix, Hulu, Disney+, and Paramount. It's going out to lunch everyday. It's happy hour after work 2-3 times a week. It's the newest iphone or Android when your current isn't even paid off. It's an 8 year car loan on a car that costs more than your parents first house.
It's not any one of those things I've listed above (ok maybe the car) but in aggregate they all add up.
There ARE affordable homes. They may not be in the hottest or trendiest areas. So what? So you want a home or do you want to keep chasing vibes in the trendy part of town where rents are almost equal to the mortgage?
Do you want to buy a home? Or do you want to ***** about not being able to afford it? Just pick one.
(Only half tongue in cheek)
Due to cultural degradation the "good" neighborhoods keep getting worse. Yes, life is full of compromise, but you even admit the "starter home" has a shelf life that previous generations didn't need to account for. That worse deal home will require a massive down payment in proportion to that young couple's income.
Go look into the numbers. It's simply harder now. We do nobody any favors by lying that it's ALL within the frivolous spending. Kids need to out-earn their peers by 2-fold to have a chance at building up a down payment on a house with adequate proximity and neighbors.
We should all be able to objectively agree on this but there are still some holdouts on here that scoff at it. My wife and I bought our first home in Dallas near downtown in 2007 for $400K. That was actually a little uncomfortable for me at the time but wife was gung-ho about it and our careers were on an upward trajectory so we pulled the trigger.
The only reason we found that house at that price is because it was in a historically designated neighborhood, which at the time, had the effect of keeping prices down simply because the homes were way older (1930 - 1950) and relatively smaller (probably a median sq ft of 1800). It was still adjacent to higher crime areas and we actually had a low income apartment complex smack dab in the middle of the neighborhood which was a damn odd sight to see. We had higher crime all around us and any crime we had in the hood came out of that apartment complex, but the neighborhood itself was/is HIGHLY unusual and rare with extremely involved neighbors. It was a fantastic oasis near downtown Dallas.
We moved away in 2015 and sold the house for $500. That same house is now >$1M ten years later. So, that little pocket is out of reach now for starting out. Single family homes in the urban core with low crime that are affordable were rare then and are unicorns now.