I was sitting in an Ear,Nose and Throat doctors office with my daughter and was handed a thick stack to fill out "for the new year." I obediently sat down with the other lemmings in that waiting room, answering some of the same questions on each page.
And elderly man walked in. Had to be pushing 90 if not over it. Fake-eye-lashed, half-awake receptionist handed him the same packet to complete with her nasally, wrote spiel about the forms. He took it with his non cane bearing hand, held it with strength, regarded it for a long moment, and said "no, I'm not filling it out", and unceremoniously dropped it in front of her. He turned and found the nearest chair in which to perch.
She stared dumbfounded. "But sir, you must fill it out to see the doctor."
"No, I don't, I haven't yet, and I see the doctor every visit."
She stormed off into the bowles of the clinic, only to return and sat down, defeated, staring at him as if he negated the very purpose of her.
We also sat and stared, admiring this man. He didn't play their stupid game. One young man in the corner uttered "…..cool."
I still think about that man.