aggiehawg said:
infinity ag said:
So my question is, where the hell are the parents?
If my kids were so dumb, I would kick their asses.... and probably go jump into a a raging river from the shame.
Parents are that dumb too.
I think the underlying reason is that parents want to be "friends" of their kids. I've heard many parents say this both in person and online... "we are not like parent-child.... we are actually more like friends!".
That makes me bristle up.
I've told both my kids (one adult, the other almost adult), that I am NOT your friend. I am your father. You can have thousands of friends over your lifetime but ONLY ONE father. Once this father is gone, he is gone forever and you will never have another one.
I really don't care if that makes me "uncool" or whatever. Some of my friends who yearn to be friends of their kids raise their eyebrows when I say this when the topic comes up.
Parenting is hard and it is not a popularity contest. It might be pretty thankless... or maybe the kids will thank you when they are much older, not when they are kids. No guarantees, and that should be okay. A parent has to put his/her personal interest on the side and their kid's interest ahead. No ifs or buts.