In no way would I ever want you, the reader, to take your focus off the tragic effects of the flood, but I want to share what my daughter-in-law has written about our family's personal experience and how our experience might help others. I have changed the names but those names are not what is most important - it is the heart that shares a very personal story. It is the heart of a young mother who has lost a child.
"July is heavy. 4 years ago our happy, healthy 'John' woke up sick and would only live another 10 days. I generally try to stay pretty positive but this time of year some hard, dark memories start to creep back in.
This year was feeling heavier as my heart was aching for friends around me dealing with loss, sickness, etc. And then, the flood.
Heart broken. Pit in stomach. Hard to breath. The girls…the parents…gosh, it hurts.
I don't have anything to share to hasn't already been said. But it doesn't feel right not to acknowledge it.
I think of my 'Joan'. The same age as the girls. Begging to go to overnight camp. Already planning for her stay next summer.
And the parents. I know the wait of wondering if my child will survive. I know the pain of losing them. And the worst part, I know what comes next - living without them Earthside. I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
But, a friend reached out and mentioned 'John' meeting all the girls in Heaven. Can you imagine the welcome? 'John' telling them, "My big sister is your age! Do you know 'Joan'? She's 9, too!"
"Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances…" (1 Thes 5:16-18) HOW? Some days it feels impossible. But, God. He is in control. And He is good. And His word is true. So we take it one "thank you" at a time:
Thank you God for hope - "an anchor for the soul, firm and secure" (Hebrews 6:19). Thank you God that, because of this hope, we can grieve differently (1 Thes 4:13). Thank you God for your promise that the excruciating separation is temporary and we will see them again someday.
Thank you, God."