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Why Millennials Don't Own Homes

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All this pissing and moaning about not having enough money to buy a house... wait till the snowflakes find out how much it costs to maintain, decorate, landscape, remodel and all the other costs of being a homeowner.

Life is hard, congratulations, nobody cares, work harder
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    Not hard to understand what many can not afford a home. Higher interest rates increase the monthly payment but the larger issue is that property tax is out of control. Texas Association of Realtors needs to work with our friends in Austin to get that under control. We are seeing increase of property tax of over 50% annually.
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    Property taxes are certainly a big component of housing unaffordability but they aren't the only cause. States without property taxes altogether are actually the most unaffordable in the US (NY, CA, HI, etc).

    And yes, the Realtor lobby is probably the biggest thing standing in between the average American and some pretty large real estate tax changes. For instance, the Biden administration has tossed around the idea of taxing unrealized capital gains.

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    The real estate lobby wants homes to turnover. They are going to discourage anything that disincentives changing homes.
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    dallasiteinsa02 said:

    The real estate lobby wants home PRICES TO STAY HIGH. They are going to discourage anything that disincentives HIGHER PRICES.
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    Red Pear Realty said:

    Property taxes are certainly a big component of housing unaffordability but they aren't the only cause. States without property taxes altogether are actually the most unaffordable in the US (NY, CA, HI, etc).

    And yes, the Realtor lobby is probably the biggest thing standing in between the average American and some pretty large real estate tax changes. For instance, the Biden administration has tossed around the idea of taxing unrealized capital gains.

    And finally, I want to congratulate Breanne on this thread idea and implementation. Across the various boards, I'm told this is the most viewed and commented sponsor post of all time on TexAgs. Well done.
    all about the solid headline!
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    https://www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/homes-for-sale-affordable-housing-prices/

    "Homes "unaffordable" in 99% of nation for average American"

    From a different article: "Common lending standards call for a 28% debt-to-income ratio. The 35% figure marks the "highest level since 2007 and stands well above the 21% figure from early in 2021, right before home-mortgage rates began shooting up from historic lows," Attom reported."
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    Red Pear Realty said:

    Property taxes are certainly a big component of housing unaffordability but they aren't the only cause. States without property taxes altogether are actually the most unaffordable in the US (NY, CA, HI, etc).

    I don't think a state exists with zero property taxes and pretty sure NY is one of the highest property tax bases in the country.
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    Red Pear Jack said:

    https://www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/homes-for-sale-affordable-housing-prices/

    "Homes "unaffordable" in 99% of nation for average American"

    From a different article: "Common lending standards call for a 28% debt-to-income ratio. The 35% figure marks the "highest level since 2007 and stands well above the 21% figure from early in 2021, right before home-mortgage rates began shooting up from historic lows," Attom reported."


    The good news is you might see Values decrease, but the bad news is rates going even higher continues to add to the cost burden/affordability for home buyers.
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    Win At Life said:

    As a graduate engineer in 1989, I made the average starting salary of $30,000 and bought a new 4B 2200SF house for $90,000; or 3x my salary.

    Today, my graduate engineering son is making the average starting salary of $65,000 and is looking at new 4B 2100SF houses costing $350,000; or 5.4x his salary.

    That's the difference right there.
    You're right. Someone making $65k/yr and looking at a $350k house is the difference. Tons of starter home communities in the low-200's. Issue is they all want the house they had when they grew up. My first place in '08 was a foreclosed townhouse in an OK part of a Houston suburb. Got it for <$100k. That couple of years in my 20's of living there vs. down in Midtown like my friends paid off when I sold it and built another house, and paid off even more when my wife and I bought our current house in '18.
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    Medaggie said:

    Yeah they can get a starter in the boonies but you only get to enjoy the best years of your life one.

    Sacrifice enjoying your 20's or a decent home. Tough choice.
    Aaaand there's the true issue and the mindset behind all of this. Be close to nightlife and partying in your 20's (which means higher rent and tons of bar tabs and eating out) or live further away and be able to buy something to start with to use as a tool for your next home and drive into town and grab a room to bar hop with your buddies once a month?

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    If Gen Z gets no help from their parents, they are looking at a minimum 100K debt leaving a decent college. Get out, make 70K/yr which is 60K take home or 5K/mo. Decent Apt 1500/mo, car payment 500/mo, utilities/gas $500/mo, Food/entertainment $700/mo, student loans $1000/mo. That leaves less than 1k/mo.

    Saving for a down payment is a distant dream unless you get some big raises quickly.
    I'm closer to 42 than I want to admit, and I have NEVER had a $500/mo car payment, including buying a new one earlier this year. Why? Because I drive cars for 10+ years and save money so I can pretty much pay for a new car. Now, I'm also looking at the Honda/Toyota vehicles and not the German variety or $70k+ trucks to use on the city streets.

    And $700 for food and entertainment? I'm married with 3 kids and that is close to our monthly budget for food and fun is. HTF is a single 20-something spending that much? Oh yeah...$100 bar tabs each weekend.
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    $60,000 vehicle? Yes- 5 years ago a $60,000 vehicle was a luxury vehicle. Today, 60k doesn't even get you all of the new vehicles in the middle class friendly brands (GMC, Ford, Chevy, etc). Don't have cash to cover a new or used vehicle? Enjoy a high interest rate.
    Bullchit! Bought a brand new Honda Accord in January for $29k drive out. Is it a top of the line model? No. It's a Sport SE. Has leather, heated seats, Apple CarPlay, etc, which is all I really needed. Do you know what it's not? A $60k Tahoe because I can only drive SUVs, or a F-150 because I'm a man and need to drive a truck. Do you know what it is? Reliable transportation that has some bells and whistles that costs $30k.

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    You talk about $800 phones- is there somewhere to get a cheaper phone that meets the requirements most employers expect their employees to have? The ability to immediately access email, servers, and the internet has become an expectation of employers, meaning you HAVE to have a smart phone (which many employers don't cover for you). With that, you get a pretty hefty monthly bill (certainly not the $10/month per line bill that was around when I was a teen
    If they expect you to be available outside of work hours, they will give you a phone or a phone allowance. I've had jobs where I needed to be available 24/7. They gave me $120/mo for phone expense. My current job has more responsibility, but they don't expect me to be available when I leave, so they don't pay. Some positions that have that expectation are given an iPhone from the company.
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    I wouldn't say "tons". Looking at homes in Houston under $225K does not show many remotely desirable areas, even out in the suburbs.

    You admit that your first purchase was in '08, where you could pick up homes on the cheap pretty easily.

    How much would that house trade for now? I'm guessing closer to $300K than $200K.
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    My first place in '08 was a 2 year old foreclosed townhouse that I got for ~$80k. Sold it for about $150k in 2011. Just looked at the HCAD value, and it's $203k.

    You talked about "desirable areas." If you're familiar with Houston, the place was in Humble over by IAH and zoned to Aldine ISD. Not a desirable area by any means. But financially, it was a great decision. I looked at the exact same floorplan townhouse in Eagle Springs, but I couldn't justify the cost difference for the neighborhood. IIRC, that one was ~$100k.

    Looking at that neighborhood now, there are quite a few houses around $200k currently on the market. I currently live in Kingwood, and there are a couple of neighborhoods that have sold homes that were priced around $200k, and the same can be said for Porter. Again, these aren't going to be forever homes. Live in them until your situation (and the market) changes and move up and into something better.
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    I stand corrected...you could still likely find a house in Aldine for $200K if that's your jam.

    devil's advocate here, might it have been a better decision to go for the $100K home in the better area at that time? Appreciation in Aldine certainly has a ceiling.
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    I also do find it a little comical when people argue that affordability isn't an issue for younger generations, it's just they choose different lifestyles, then immediately tell a story about buying a house and selling it for 2x 3 years later.....
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    Diggity said:

    I stand corrected...you could still likely find a house in Aldine for $200K if that's your jam.

    devil's advocate here, might it have been a better decision to go for the $100K home in the better area at that time? Appreciation in Aldine certainly has a ceiling.
    Yeah, wasn't the best of areas, but I also knew I wasn't going to be there long term. But I think that goes to my point. If you want to live in a desirable area, you're going to pay for it. I would say I live in a desirable neighborhood now that is certainly past starter home buy in. But it took me 10 years and 2 houses to get here, and the equity I made from the previous 2 houses made it a lot easier. If I had the expectation that my first home be my current home, I'd be beetching too.
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    htxag09 said:

    I also do find it a little comical when people argue that affordability isn't an issue for younger generations, it's just they choose different lifestyles, then immediately tell a story about buying a house and selling it for 2x 3 years later.....
    I also do find it a little comical when people ignore that past generations had their own hardships that they overcame.

    Do you know why I sold it for almost double 3 years later? Go back and read what I bought. Here's a hint...it wasn't a full brick custom home in a popular part of town. Foreclosures that need some work haven't gone away. What has is the understanding that your first place most likely won't be like what your parents have.

    That equity got parlayed into my 2nd house, which was a nice new build (was married by that time) with a rate in the 5s. In 2013, rates dropped and we refinanced at 3.5% 15 year. Sold it in '18 for and went house hunting with close to $200k in equity to roll over. The rate we got in 2018 was in the 5s, but refinanced in 2019 for 2.8% on a 15 year. I now live in a neighborhood where houses are selling at $500k+ but only have a $200k mortgage. That's how it works.

    Yeah, paying off a mortgage at that rate is insane, but my wife and I value very little debt vs. trying to grow the difference.
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    aTm2004 said:

    htxag09 said:

    I also do find it a little comical when people argue that affordability isn't an issue for younger generations, it's just they choose different lifestyles, then immediately tell a story about buying a house and selling it for 2x 3 years later.....
    I also do find it a little comical when people ignore that past generations had their own hardships that they overcame.

    Do you know why I sold it for almost double 3 years later? Go back and read what I bought. Here's a hint...it wasn't a full brick custom home in a popular part of town. Foreclosures that need some work haven't gone away. What has is the understanding that your first place most likely won't be like what your parents have.
    I 100% agree on what is acceptable these days as a home vs. 20 years ago. We never had granite, stainless, hardwood floors, etc. growing up.

    But.....if you can't admit that a decent part of the success you've had in upgrading homes 3 times to get to your current home isn't partially do to luck, I don't know what to tell you. And guess what, you still sold a home that "wasn't a full brick custom home in a popular part of town" for 2x after 3 years. Almost worth 3x now. Sure, you bought a foreclosure and put some work in it, how much, though? Doubt it was substantial of that equity, that equity was mainly from the market. And the point still stands. Someone would now need to spend $200k to buy a home you bought for $80k 15 years ago. And that home is now 17 years old so will likely need more work than when you bought it, even though it was a foreclosure, in the near future.

    We are in a similar boat. Bought a home well within our means and not the most desirable part of Houston, not rough by any means, but not the heights. We lived there for 11+ years and just bought in a more desirable area. I can admit that the amount of equity in that home has way more to do with luck than with me being smart. Mainly just luck on when I graduated and entered the housing market.
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    aTm2004 said:

    htxag09 said:

    I also do find it a little comical when people argue that affordability isn't an issue for younger generations, it's just they choose different lifestyles, then immediately tell a story about buying a house and selling it for 2x 3 years later.....
    I also do find it a little comical when people ignore that past generations had their own hardships that they overcame.

    Do you know why I sold it for almost double 3 years later? Go back and read what I bought. Here's a hint...it wasn't a full brick custom home in a popular part of town. Foreclosures that need some work haven't gone away. What has is the understanding that your first place most likely won't be like what your parents have.
    let's be real here, the availability of foreclosure/short sales is nothing close to what it was back in 2008.

    there were ~3,200 sold from 7/1/08-10/1/08 vs 132 over the past 3 months.


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    htxag09 said:

    aTm2004 said:

    htxag09 said:

    I also do find it a little comical when people argue that affordability isn't an issue for younger generations, it's just they choose different lifestyles, then immediately tell a story about buying a house and selling it for 2x 3 years later.....
    I also do find it a little comical when people ignore that past generations had their own hardships that they overcame.

    Do you know why I sold it for almost double 3 years later? Go back and read what I bought. Here's a hint...it wasn't a full brick custom home in a popular part of town. Foreclosures that need some work haven't gone away. What has is the understanding that your first place most likely won't be like what your parents have.
    I 100% agree on what is acceptable these days as a home vs. 20 years ago. We never had granite, stainless, hardwood floors, etc. growing up.

    But.....if you can't admit that a decent part of the success you've had in upgrading homes 3 times to get to your current home isn't partially do to luck, I don't know what to tell you. And guess what, you still sold a home that "wasn't a full brick custom home in a popular part of town" for 2x after 3 years. Almost worth 3x now. Sure, you bought a foreclosure and put some work in it, how much, though? Doubt it was substantial of that equity, that equity was mainly from the market. And the point still stands. Someone would now need to spend $200k to buy a home you bought for $80k 15 years ago. And that home is now 17 years old so will likely need more work than when you bought it, even though it was a foreclosure, in the near future.

    We are in a similar boat. Bought a home well within our means and not the most desirable part of Houston, not rough by any means, but not the heights. We lived there for 11+ years and just bought in a more desirable area. I can admit that the amount of equity in that home has way more to do with luck than with me being smart. Mainly just luck on when I graduated and entered the housing market.
    What luck? Being single and taking a chance to buy a house during a recession when companies were laying people off? That luck? Yeah, a downturn in the market happened then, so I took a chance. Guess what...downturns will happen again in the future and have happened since.

    Work I put into it:
    - Painted the inside (did this myself vs hiring it out). Had some friends help some since I helped move their heavy ass furniture to another 3rd floor apartment
    - Ripped out the old stained carpet and put laminate down (did it myself)
    - Repainted cabinets (again...myself)
    - New garage opener (my pops did that one for me)

    Was it a total gut job? No. But it needed work. The biggest thing was it wasn't in a popular area of town and prices were more reasonable.

    All when to chit about a year or so later when the plastic piece that connects that little hose from the wall to the toilet tank broke while I was at work and flooded the place, so I got to also deal with insurance claims and deductibles. Only changes I did when I rebuilt it was recessed lighting and pre-wire for surround. Even put back in laminate countertops.

    And no, someone wouldn't need $200k to buy what I bought for $80k 15 years ago unless they want move-in ready.
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    I'll agree with that, but they're still out there. One thing I did face due to the number of foreclosures at the time was cash buyers coming in and scooping them up to rent out. Lost a couple of places that way. I guess Californians are doing the same today though.

    Even houses that aren't foreclosures that need work can be had much cheaper if someone is willing to do the work.
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    I dont really care to get in to your little pissing match, but your last statement is absolutely correct, at least in the market I was watching over the last few years. People would pay a wild premium for simple updates in those areas that honestly would not have taken all thst much work. Failure to delay gratification is a mofo.
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    Reading comprehension not your strong suit? I didn't say you couldn't get a newbcar fir under 60k. I said you can't even get all of the vehicles from the middle class type brands for under 60k (and yes, not that long ago, suburbans, Tahoe, and trucks were pretty much all under 60k).

    I have had plenty of jobs (as has my husband) that expects the ability to check email at home without giving an allowance. It's almost like you have never encountered a blue collar worker...

    Hell, my job at TAMU, while on maternity leave, I was getting texts and emails from my boss about stuff at work.

    Just because your experience has been different does not mean it is wrong. What I have said is absolutely the experience if many people. And in regards to the vehicle part- actually reading what I wrote and not what you wanted me to write will help you out there.
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    histag10 said:

    Reading comprehension not your strong suit? I didn't say you couldn't get a newbcar fir under 60k. I said you can't even get all of the vehicles from the middle class type brands for under 60k (and yes, not that long ago, suburbans, Tahoe, and trucks were pretty much all under 60k).
    How is it any different today than say 20 years ago? Chevy, GM, Ford, Chrysler, etc have always had vehicles that were high priced just along side vehicles that were much cheaper. The difference was usually the higher priced vehicles had options that most expect today...leather, premium audio, etc. Cheaper vehicles are out there, but people's expectations of what they need in a vehicle have changed. That, coupled with people able to get 7+ year loans now and they are happy to carry that $600+ monthly note on a continuous basis. The manufactures know this and continue to offer more and more, which drives the prices up. People keep paying and taking on that debt.

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    I have had plenty of jobs (as has my husband) that expects the ability to check email at home without giving an allowance. It's almost like you have never encountered a blue collar worker...
    I only grew up in a small hick town surrounded by them, and raised by a father that worked swing shift and a oil services plant that had to strip in the laundry room and run directly to the shower the moment he got home so he didn't get the house dirty. And a mom, that while my dad faced the realities of the oil industry, worked jobs at Walmart and Kroger until he was able to get back to work. Do you know what he drove? A cheap Chevy W/T...vinyl seats and floor, manual windows and locks, etc.

    If a company's expectation is you're available outside of work hours, they should provide you with the tools to be reached. I worked in a position once where I had to drive into the office EVERY Sunday to do something that took me 5-10 minutes, all because they refused to give me a laptop so I could take care of it at the house. I'm not there any longer because they were a chitty company.

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    Hell, my job at TAMU, while on maternity leave, I was getting texts and emails from my boss about stuff at work.
    Sounds like your boss wasn't respectful of your time.

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    Just because your experience has been different does not mean it is wrong. What I have said is absolutely the experience if many people. And in regards to the vehicle part- actually reading what I wrote and not what you wanted me to write will help you out there.
    I never said I was right or you were wrong, and I read what you wrote. What you're not seeing is how silly what you wrote is. You make it seem as if the only option available to people are $60k+ vehicles. There are great options available to people (both new and used) for half of that. Do you need a $60k Tahoe? Very few do. A $40k Explorer or Traverse would fill the needs of majority of people who buy Tahoes (majority, not all...so don't go with the "well, by BIL pulls a 24' boat with his wife's). Have a lot of kids? A minivan would serve the purpose you're looking for for much cheaper than a $70k+ Suburban or Navigator, but pride gets in the way all too often. But hey, it's their money and they can drive what they want. Just don't complain about how hard life is and how hard it is to buy a house while blowing what they have on unnecessary things. Again...the instant gratification generation.

    And interest rates on vehicles have typically been high unless you buy from a dealership and they're offering something insanely low, which you're usually paying for anyway.
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    It is amazing how much people are willing to pay to not have to do anything.
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    Some of you guys need to get over making yourselves the hero's of your own story. Reminds me of that kind of sibling where if you tell one they did a good job their immediate reaction is 'so I did a bad job?' You can be proud of what you've put together for yourself and also acknowledge it's a quite a bit harder to do it now.

    Leading indicator of future earnings? Education. That's gone up by multiples vs mean wages in the last 20 years.

    Largest expense for most people? Rent and mortgage. Also at all time highs relative to wages

    Interest rates? Highest in 20 years

    Foreclosures on the market? Fraction of what it was 10-15 years ago.

    All major macro indicators of significantly less flexibility for those just starting their careers.
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    Heroes of our own story? WTF does that mean? Its like people refuse to acknowledge that late-Gen Xers and Millennials faced issues as well. We just didn't cry about them on the internet.

    Here are 2 different charts that show where average home prices were/are:
    https://dqydj.com/historical-home-prices/
    https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/ASPUS

    What can you take from that? From 2007-2020 (pre-COVID), home prices didn't go up all that much. If you're wondering what those gray lines are...those are recessions.

    Not even 3 years out of college and the US hits a recession, unemployment hits double digits, and the banks too big to fail, failed. None of it driven by a virus. No government checks and no student loan payment deferral. Yeah, student loans existed then as well...we just didn't ask someone to pay them for us. Wanted to actually buy a house during that time? They went full roto rooter on you to make sure they didn't make the same mistake that caused the recession.

    Rent and homes have gone up more than wages, but starting wages today are up from where they were 20 years ago as well. People's luxury expenses are also up vs where they were 20 years ago. But buying a house can be done today if they really wanted to and could manage their expectations of their first house. If they make it important, they will find a way. The issue is, for many, it's not important enough to give up the lifestyle they have to achieve that goal, nor are they willing to live in an area that would involve a commute to work. There are millions of us where it was important enough and we worked and sacrificed to get there, and we're tired of the crying about how hard it is from the late-Millennials and Gen Z that wants everything given to them. STFU already. If you put as much effort into achieving your goal as you do into complaining, you'd get there.

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    All major macro indicators of significantly less flexibility for those just starting their careers.
    Doesn't seem to stop them from buying new vehicles or traveling around the world for pictures to fill their IG.
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    aTm2004 said:

    Heroes of our own story? WTF does that mean? Its like people refuse to acknowledge that late-Gen Xers and Millennials faced issues as well. We just didn't cry about them on the internet.

    Here are 2 different charts that show where average home prices were/are:
    https://dqydj.com/historical-home-prices/
    https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/ASPUS

    What can you take from that? From 2007-2020 (pre-COVID), home prices didn't go up all that much. If you're wondering what those gray lines are...those are recessions.

    Not even 3 years out of college and the US hits a recession, unemployment hits double digits, and the banks too big to fail, failed. None of it driven by a virus. No government checks and no student loan payment deferral. Yeah, student loans existed then as well...we just didn't ask someone to pay them for us. Wanted to actually buy a house during that time? They went full roto rooter on you to make sure they didn't make the same mistake that caused the recession.

    Rent and homes have gone up more than wages, but starting wages today are up from where they were 20 years ago as well. People's luxury expenses are also up vs where they were 20 years ago. But buying a house can be done today if they really wanted to and could manage their expectations of their first house. If they make it important, they will find a way. The issue is, for many, it's not important enough to give up the lifestyle they have to achieve that goal, nor are they willing to live in an area that would involve a commute to work. There are millions of us where it was important enough and we worked and sacrificed to get there, and we're tired of the crying about how hard it is from the late-Millennials and Gen Z that wants everything given to them. STFU already. If you put as much effort into achieving your goal as you do into complaining, you'd get there.

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    All major macro indicators of significantly less flexibility for those just starting their careers.
    Doesn't seem to stop them from buying new vehicles or traveling around the world for pictures to fill their IG.

    Recession, unemployment, and all the paperwork you had to do to get your loans. No mention of the long term quantitative easing that more or less spurred free money for a decade creating a low risk environment for you personally to flip homes multiple times and not be that worried about the potential for job loss, etc. Thats wtf heroes of your own story means.

    I'm big enough to admit we've had it pretty good since leaving school. Yeah there was the credit crisis on 2008 but really… the near term economy that sets lending environments and housing markets recovered really quickly from that mostly due to the QE and such that we all benefited from… including me.

    I'm proud that I was opportunistic about it like you were and have made the most of it. Doesn't change the fact that the opportunity window has closed significantly now though on those exactly where we were 10-15 years ago.

    Encourage you to do the math on it as a thought exercise but do it objectively. I've done it on what my starting salary probably would be today, likely expenses, likely student debt vs. earnings I'd make today in school vs. what I made then and interest rate environment today. It's not a pretty picture. There's a reason a lot of kids today are choosing to live at home for a few years vs. getting their own place out of school. The economic starting point they are dealing with is nearly night and day to what it was 20 years ago.
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    Buyer of modest incomes can afford homes. The main issue is that they want most of what their parents worked 40 years to get. First time home buyers don't need a separate bedroom for every boy and girl child. The don't need workout rooms and offices. Don't need an kitchen with a large island and separate dining room. Don't even need a dedicated laundry room, nor an outdoor kitchen.

    Get a modest 3/2 with a two car garage.
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    woodiewood1 said:

    Buyer of modest incomes can afford homes. The main issue is that they want most of what their parents worked 40 years to get. First time home buyers don't need a separate bedroom for every boy and girl child. The don't need workout rooms and offices. Don't need an kitchen with a large island and separate dining room. Don't even need a dedicated laundry room, nor an outdoor kitchen.

    Get a modest 3/2 with a two car garage.
    WFH is way more common now and isn't going anywhere. So a dedicated office space is certainly a must for a lot of families. Unless the boy/girl are less than say 10, they'll each need their own room.

    Buying a "modest home" in a desirable or even decent metro area in TX just isn't a thing right now.
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    What are the stats on home builds the last 10 years? Last 5, last 25, etc.? I wonder just how common a 3/2 home is.

    Is there a way to see homes sold in the last few years and filter that data by room/bathroom count?
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    _lefraud_ said:

    woodiewood1 said:

    Buyer of modest incomes can afford homes. The main issue is that they want most of what their parents worked 40 years to get. First time home buyers don't need a separate bedroom for every boy and girl child. The don't need workout rooms and offices. Don't need an kitchen with a large island and separate dining room. Don't even need a dedicated laundry room, nor an outdoor kitchen.

    Get a modest 3/2 with a two car garage.
    WFH is way more common now and isn't going anywhere. So a dedicated office space is certainly a must for a lot of families. Unless the boy/girl are less than say 10, they'll each need their own room.

    Buying a "modest home" in a desirable or even decent metro area in TX just isn't a thing right now.
    I'm firmly in the costs are getting out of control camp and it's rough for new entrants into the market.....

    But your post kind of goes exactly into what the other side is saying....

    Why do two boys need their own rooms? Growing up we shared rooms until someone graduated and that room became available. That meant my 2 younger brothers shared until they were 12 and 14. (I may be misunderstanding this part, if saying a boy and girl shouldn't share, I generally agree. But don't think there is any reason two boys or two girls can't share rooms, in which case 3 bedrooms would be sufficient).

    Get a portable monitor and use your dining room as an office, etc. That's what I do (I work hybrid, 2 days home / week).

    This is all exactly what people mean when they say they think they have to have now what their parents worked 40 years to get....
     
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