So my daughter's boyfriend............

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Sorry to hear about this situation. All the best to your family.

Are you having to stay home from work until you are sure you are corona free?

Things like this can really do a number of healthcare workers and first responders being available to serve the community.
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This too shall pass. 99.9% chance she will be fine.
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This is certainly annoying and you want to protect your family, but teenagers will take this thing in stride.
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Must be super frustrating, Doc. Sorry to hear.
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Rachel 98 said:

Really sorry to hear this Marcus. Sounds like a frustrating and scary situation. Will pray for you and your family.

You contributions to this board are very valuable and frankly one of the main reasons that I read it. Thank you for everything that you do for both your patients and your TexAgs followers.


And reading the responses here, thanks for his patience with some TexAgs followers.
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Marcus Aurelius said:

Has a cough and fever of 103 deg. My daughter is 19, a fish in college and home for the semester like many. Coping. Against our wishes she spent several hours with him "close contact" (TMI I don't want to know) 2 days before his fever. He was swabbed. Results pending. She is asymptomatic. Have 3 teenagers quarantining here. Would be a disaster.
Sorry to hear about this. It's not just your daughter, though. My general opinion is that young people (under 35) don't have enough life experience to have much common sense. We had 4 teen age boys, of varying ages. All are grown now, all but one under 35. Wife and I have a small ranch in central Texas and they wanted to come up to spend the weekend, bringing grandkids, a couple weeks ago. My wife was highly PO'd when I nixed that idea. Week later they all had the flu, not covid. I've not said a word to her about that. You know why!

You already know this,too, I know, but odds are she will be fine. Praying for you and yours.

Hang in there, partner.
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O'Doyle Rules said:

This too shall pass. 99.9% chance she will be fine.

The concern isn't just the one daughter...it is also that she might have infected the other 3 kids, his wife and the OP, taking an experienced medical professional off the front line for an unknown length of time and endangering not only herself but also his patients and coworkers

Why is this so hard for people to understand? Due to how communicable this is WHILE not showing symptoms, you illness isnt your problem. It is the problem of everyone you are come in close contact with.

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1/2 Man 1/2 Amazing said:

I don't understand the people that didn't at least social distance for the 4 weeks we were told to.....
You don't understand how an 18-19 year old might not social distance? As Red would say, they are all



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No it wouldn't. 99.8% or 99.9% chance she would live even if she had the virus, and She would have antibodies that would protect her and others from getting a more severe case next time.
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rgag12 said:

No it wouldn't. 99.8% or 99.9% chance she would live even if she had the virus, and She would have antibodies that would protect her and others from getting a more severe case next time.


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Your head.
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rgag12 said:

No it wouldn't. 99.8% or 99.9% chance she would live even if she had the virus, and She would have antibodies that would protect her and others from getting a more severe case next time.

Please read two posts above yours, and try not to lecture a doctor on medical issues.
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Duncan Idaho said:

O'Doyle Rules said:

This too shall pass. 99.9% chance she will be fine.

The concern isn't just the one daughter...it is also that she might have infected the other 3 kids, his wife and the OP, taking an experienced medical professional off the front line for an unknown length of time and endangering not only herself but also his patients and coworkers

Why is this so hard for people to understand? Due to how communicable this is WHILE not showing symptoms, you illness isnt your problem. It is the problem of everyone you are come in close contact with.




Statically the non old people i come in contact with will be fine too.
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Duncan Idaho said:

O'Doyle Rules said:

This too shall pass. 99.9% chance she will be fine.

The concern isn't just the one daughter...it is also that she might have infected the other 3 kids, his wife and the OP, taking an experienced medical professional off the front line for an unknown length of time and endangering not only herself but also his patients and coworkers

Why is this so hard for people to understand? Due to how communicable this is WHILE not showing symptoms, you illness isnt your problem. It is the problem of everyone you are come in close contact with.


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Nevermind already addressed
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Moxley said:

Nevermind already addressed


The stay at home order ends Friday. How long was he planning on locking her up?
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Joe Exotic said:

Duncan Idaho said:

O'Doyle Rules said:

This too shall pass. 99.9% chance she will be fine.

The concern isn't just the one daughter...it is also that she might have infected the other 3 kids, his wife and the OP, taking an experienced medical professional off the front line for an unknown length of time and endangering not only herself but also his patients and coworkers

Why is this so hard for people to understand? Due to how communicable this is WHILE not showing symptoms, you illness isnt your problem. It is the problem of everyone you are come in close contact with.




Statically the non old people i come in contact with will be fine too.


Statistically most of the old people you come in contact with will also be fine.
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Exactly. A movie theater will have 75 occupants in it this weekend (300 seats at 25%). Yet a GF seeing her BF is a big issue? We overreact to everyone not adhering 100% like a week really mattered. Her seeing her boyfriend isn't an issue. Small change. Now, what all he was doing? That's debatable. We don't really know.

I've played golf about twice a week since this all began. Some think I'm being irresponsible and socializing like normal. Those same people will likely be in a crowd of 100+ in the near future risking it far more than me still outdoors at a golf course.
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Marcus Aurelius said:

Has a cough and fever of 103 deg. My daughter is 19, a fish in college and home for the semester like many. Coping. Against our wishes she spent several hours with him "close contact" (TMI I don't want to know) 2 days before his fever. He was swabbed. Results pending. She is asymptomatic. Have 3 teenagers quarantining here. Would be a disaster.
Good luck buddy. Keep positive thoughts.
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beerad12man said:

Exactly. A movie theater will have 75 occupants in it this weekend (300 seats at 25%). Yet a GF seeing her BF is a big issue? We overreact to everyone not adhering 100% like a week really mattered. Her seeing her boyfriend isn't an issue. Small change. Now, what all he was doing? That's debatable. We don't really know.

I've played golf about twice a week since this all began. Some think I'm being irresponsible and socializing like normal. Those same people will likely be in a crowd of 100+ in the near future risking it far more than me still outdoors at a golf course.
Great point here and one of the issues, out side of the tragedies going on around the world from Covid-19 obviously, is how this has set some against others for doing completely innocent, safe and allowable activities during all of this. I go to the gym each scheduled training day I have for my own workouts. I, like you, am alone and effecting no one or even coming into contact with anyone. But I am sure there'd be people that would be offended or angered.

It's created a lot of mistrust finger pointing when many really should mind their own business. I honestly also take that into the realm of those actually not socially distancing like the boy the OP mentioned. I wouldn't let my kid, but I wouldn't tell either if I witnessed a group together that "shouldn't be". But, that's just me. B/c I'm a little too libertarian I guess. But I personally think more harm is done telling on my neighbors than what could happen with them being together. Disclaimer here, I have yet to witness much of this as most here in McKinney TX that I have seen when I do go out are respecting the rules and the only things I've witnessed is a "drive by birthday" in the parking lot where we have our gym, and the teens pulling up in the same car to get food in the same parking lot that are obviously not related. But that is me. And I am intelligent enough and respectful enough to know that not everyone shares that view and that's fine. A doctor who has watched 100's of patients pass might not feel the same as I do. Someone who lost a loved one and couldn't be there to say goodbye may not either. Terrible things have happened during all of this no doubt.
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beerad12man said:

Exactly. A movie theater will have 75 occupants in it this weekend (300 seats at 25%). Yet a GF seeing her BF is a big issue? We overreact to everyone not adhering 100% like a week really mattered. Her seeing her boyfriend isn't an issue. Small change. Now, what all he was doing? That's debatable. We don't really know.

I've played golf about twice a week since this all began. Some think I'm being irresponsible and socializing like normal. Those same people will likely be in a crowd of 100+ in the near future risking it far more than me still outdoors at a golf course.
Did you miss the fact that he is sick? And likely infected her and therefore potentially the doc and family?
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Appreciate the concerns. His test still pending. No one in family with symptoms now. My fear is not for the kids, rather myself (HTN) and my wife (CVID, i.e. hypogammoglobulinemia).
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Marcus Aurelius said:

Appreciate the concerns. His test still pending. No one in family with symptoms now. My fear is not for the kids, rather myself (HTN) and my wife (CVID, i.e. hypogammoglobulinemia).
I will pray his test is negative and that everyone in your family stays safe and well.
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MilanoCowboy said:

Marcus Aurelius said:

Has a cough and fever of 103 deg. My daughter is 19, a fish in college and home for the semester like many. Coping. Against our wishes she spent several hours with him "close contact" (TMI I don't want to know) 2 days before his fever. He was swabbed. Results pending. She is asymptomatic. Have 3 teenagers quarantining here. Would be a disaster.
Week later they all had the flu, not covid. I've not said a word to her about that. You know why!



Because an "I told you so" feels really good in the moment, but isn't worth the aftermath that it causes, right? One thing I've learned from marriage!
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Marcus Aurelius said:

Appreciate the concerns. His test still pending. No one in family with symptoms now. My fear is not for the kids, rather myself (HTN) and my wife (CVID, i.e. hypogammoglobulinemia).
not really my business, but curious if you read your daughter and numb nuts the riot act. If so (or if not), any regret or do they still thing "no big deal."
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Haven't talked to him as he is quarantined. She feels terrible / guilty and is uspet so I haven't piled on. Plus she is freaked out. Hears dad talking about the bad ones in the hospital.
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Marcus Aurelius said:

Haven't talked to him as he is quarantined. She feels terrible / guilty and is uspet so I haven't piled on. Plus she is freaked out. Hears dad talking about the bad ones in the hospital.
hat tip to you in Alabama. I did grad school (Clinical Psychology) at Auburn '90-'97 and internship at UAB school of medicine.
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ttt for an update
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Trying to find out his test result. Should have resulted by now.
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The young man is Covid negative.
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God is good!
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Marcus Aurelius said:

The young man is Covid negative.


Good news. And it's taking everything inside me to not make a joke if he got tested for anything else. Happy for you, your family and your patients
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Yeah. I don't know the extent of their "encounter." TMI. Didn't ask.
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Marcus Aurelius said:

The young man is Covid negative.
Great to hear. Now slap him upside the head.
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Glad it was negative , do you have a professional opinion on the false negatives?

Anecdotally there seem to be lots of people with symptoms testing negative
Also do you have an opinion in the finger ***** antibodies test? Lots of speculation based on data that some people feel that the data is likely garbage.
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Many false negatives. I'd say up to 30%. In fact - have seen 3 new COVIDs today. 2/3 with several neg swabs but obvious disease clinically. So operator dependent.
 
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