aTmAg said:
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This is not what I am saying at all. I am saying that people who are subjected to rape AND other forms of sexual assault should be duty bound to report it to the police immediately. Because if they wait for months or years there is ZERO chance of the person being convicted, and that person will be free to abuse others. While a victim bears NO blame at all for the assault, the mere fact that they are a victim does not immunize them from blame for every future deed.
Nassar's youngest victim was 6. So it is her fault for not understanding what is happening to her, and not reporting it immediately? And she bears responsibility for all future victims? Are you brain damaged?
No, I SPECIFICALLY said otherwise. I was the guy who first bought up Nassar to point out that those victims do not deserve blame:
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Sorta like the Larry Nassar gymnastics thing. When the gymnasts were young they didn't understand that what was going on (the parents and other adults should have had a freaking clue sooner, however). But as they grew up, they started speaking out because they understood better. I applaud them for that.
Clearly neither you, nor the idiots who star you are reading the thread.
You are now backpedaling so hard, you are out of the back of the end zone and halfway out of the stadium.
You have now said:
1) it is important that victims report the assault immediately so the perpetrator can be brought to justice
2) if a victim does not report an assault, they bear some responsibility for any future assaults committed by the perpetrator
3) victims can be too young to understand what is happening to them, but they have to report it when they're older
4) reporting an assault years later is worthless because we can't take those accusations seriously because they might be fake
You can't even keep your own arguments straight, and watching you attempt it is sad.
I don't care when a sexual assault is reported as long as it is reported at some point. One report years later may encourage other victims to come forward, and as more and more victims come forward, you begin to see the truth come out because the consistency of methodology comes out. Lot of reports means you see the pattern. I can tell you how Jerry Sandusky groomed and attacked his victims, I can tell you how Bill Cosby attacked his victims, and I can tell you how Larry Nassar attacked his victims. Why? Because once they refined their techniques, they did the same thing over and over again.
Tons of reports, many of them years later, are exactly how we catch serial predators.
A one-off report years later (see Brett Kavanaugh) is when no one believes the 'victim', which refutes your breathless claims that innocent people will be falsely accused and put in jail.
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(the parents and other adults should have had a freaking clue sooner, however)
The parents and other adults were also victims of Nassar, they just weren't assaulted. They fell for his con because they believed he was a doctor and they trusted him when he claimed it was a medical procedure. His grooming of the parents and coaches and other administrators allowed him to continue to assault the same victims again and again.
Even when you're not trying to blame the victims here, you're engaging in victim-blaming.