you started by listing what the giver
should have done
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The giver should have mailed a check to the mortgage company and credited his account directly.
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You are assuming this completely strung out person who apparently has no ability to manage money is given a gift and somehow all the sudden has new revelation on how to live his life?
but then you say
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The generous man is not to blame. The recipient is.
this is objectively false. if (as you say) the recipient is incapable, then the
responsibility is entirely on the generous man. you say even a truly good gift is not good if the recipient is incapable of receiving it - the gift giver should do more until the gift is received.
but this puts the responsibility on the generous man, and no responsibility on the troubled man.
even more! it shows clearly that the generous man is not only responsible for the troubled man he gave a gift too, but
even more responsible for the ones who he did not give anything to.
This makes God sole cause of salvation, and damnation. A person who has no agency can have no responsibility.