General Jack D. Ripper said:
akm91 said:
PA24 said:
Tough crowd..TexAgs tough, hardened by lousy football.
We have empathy but not sympathy for the OP and his family as most of us have been through same situation multiple times through our careers.
I'm not sure anyone rejoices in this. It's just astounding that a man would come to an anonymous Internet forum to whine about losing his job and trying to blame others.
I dont read it that way. The dude is spooked and concerned for his family if you cant get that you are either a would be internet bad ass or just broken.
Most of us have been there. My case 1995, 33 years old- mom dies, I lose my job, 2 small kids at home with a mortgage and 2 car payments typical of my age and demographic.
When you are in that spot there are no alternatives but fight your way out of it. Started an IT business in Austin as a well thought out but desperate play. Didn't make a dime first 2 months back against the wall. Then boom that planning and hard work begins to hit home. Ended up being the best thing ever for my career and financial well being.
Point is dont give up hope, come up with a plan and dont panic. Work your butt off. Put your faith in the Lord, then literally take the attitude that there are wolves at the door and you have to kill them to save your kids. That will give you all the motivation you need.