Traditional gender roles and a happy marriage.

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This youtube video has a woman explaining how "rules" in her home create a great marriage.

I disagree with her about risqu photos, but almost everything else is spot on.

"My husband makes the money, i multiply the value"

Wow, great wife and contradictory to many spend crazy wives.

"He protects me physically and I protect him emotionally "

I've never looked at it that way before, but she is spot on. I've known many men who were very tough, but emotionally wrecked. A good wife helps create an environment where the man can heal emotionally and get into a balance because his home life is a sanctuary.


"Sex is not a bargaining chip"

Preach it sister. I've always said, if a woman doesn't want or like sex, something is wrong. If they try to withhold sex, something is terribly wrong.
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I have been watching this woman's videos for some time, she is amazing.

I don't agree with everything but I do with most and it is good material to think and consider.

She used to be fat some time ago (from her pictures she posts) and now looks amazing.

Watch more

https://www.youtube.com/@FlourishwithLaurin
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She should do one about women seeking attention on social media like youtube which will wreck her marriage having to constantly create new content and the likes & subscribes dry up.
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jeremy said:

If they try to withhold sex, something is terribly wrong.
true story. I couldn't help overhear two women chatting it up at an informal get together one time. One was completely serious about withholding the 'nanny unless her husband didn't do what she wanted when she wanted. She boasted about leaving the house and going to a hotel to wait it out until whatever whim was appeased.

And just so we're clear:

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I like most of it but a big L-O-f'ing-L at her rule 6. So she doesn't let her husband go meet one of his buddies at a bar to watch a college football or an NFL game without her? Yeah, no thanks. I'm not married yet, but 0 of my buddies would be married if their wife had that as one of their rules. Males and females get hit on literally everywhere - grocery store, the gym, the airport, a sporting event, etc. If you don't trust your spouse to be out at a bar watching a game with a buddy, then you shouldn't be married.
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Martin Q. Blank said:

She should do one about women seeking attention on social media like youtube which will wreck her marriage having to constantly create new content and the likes & subscribes dry up.


No kidding
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Mega Lops said:

jeremy said:

If they try to withhold sex, something is terribly wrong.

true story. I couldn't help overhear two women chatting it up at an informal get together one time. One was completely serious about withholding the 'nanny unless her husband didn't do what she wanted when she wanted. She boasted about leaving the house and going to a hotel to wait it out until whatever whim was appeased.

And just so we're clear:




At some point the husband gets sick of the games and takes on a side-chick. Then the wife goes crying to her friends and posts on social media about how men are dogs and where have all the good men gone.
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2/10 wnb /TEXAGS
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David_Puddy said:

I like most of it but a big L-O-f'ing-L at her rule 6. So she doesn't let her husband go meet one of his buddies at a bar to watch a college football or an NFL game without her? Yeah, no thanks. I'm not married yet, but 0 of my buddies would be married if their wife had that as one of their rules. Males and females get hit on literally everywhere - grocery store, the gym, the airport, a sporting event, etc. If you don't trust your spouse to be out at a bar watching a game with a buddy, then you shouldn't be married.


Yeah, that's stupid. My wife loves it when I do this because that means I'm out of her hair.
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infinity ag said:

Mega Lops said:

jeremy said:

If they try to withhold sex, something is terribly wrong.

true story. I couldn't help overhear two women chatting it up at an informal get together one time. One was completely serious about withholding the 'nanny unless her husband didn't do what she wanted when she wanted. She boasted about leaving the house and going to a hotel to wait it out until whatever whim was appeased.

And just so we're clear:




At some point the husband gets sick of the games and takes on a side-chick. Then the wife goes crying to her friends and posts on social media about how men are dogs and where have all the good men gone.


Your post seems like you are very angry and hurt. I'm sorry you've been hurt.

Most dudes aren't good looking enough or rich enough to have a side chick.

Many will cheat (probably get caught/told on when it goes sideways). Having a side chick you can afford is called a mistress.

Your wife can EASILY **** around on you all day with better looking guys and no body is saying a word.

If you are a good husband you are equally worried about whether your wife is sick of your games too.

I'm sorry someone hurt you.

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David_Puddy said:

I like most of it but a big L-O-f'ing-L at her rule 6. So she doesn't let her husband go meet one of his buddies at a bar to watch a college football or an NFL game without her? Yeah, no thanks. I'm not married yet, but 0 of my buddies would be married if their wife had that as one of their rules. Males and females get hit on literally everywhere - grocery store, the gym, the airport, a sporting event, etc. If you don't trust your spouse to be out at a bar watching a game with a buddy, then you shouldn't be married.


I interpreted it differently. She said clubbing, not a beer with the guys to watch a football game. I think there's a huge difference.
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Martin Q. Blank said:

She should do one about women seeking attention on social media like youtube which will wreck her marriage having to constantly create new content and the likes & subscribes dry up.

its usually their man that writes the script or provides the IP for their content too. Billy Rae Brandt used this formula to great success. Also looks like she might have a couple non traditional enhancements, but i dunno.
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Elections are when people find out what politicians stand for, and politicians find out what people will fall for.
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Esteban du Plantier said:

David_Puddy said:

I like most of it but a big L-O-f'ing-L at her rule 6. So she doesn't let her husband go meet one of his buddies at a bar to watch a college football or an NFL game without her? Yeah, no thanks. I'm not married yet, but 0 of my buddies would be married if their wife had that as one of their rules. Males and females get hit on literally everywhere - grocery store, the gym, the airport, a sporting event, etc. If you don't trust your spouse to be out at a bar watching a game with a buddy, then you shouldn't be married.


I interpreted it differently. She said clubbing, not a beer with the guys to watch a football game. I think there's a huge difference.


That is a little different. I can't imagine a grown man above 35 or so that would actually want to go clubbing, anyway. One of the levels of hell for me is a loud dance club.
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CrackerJackAg said:

infinity ag said:

Mega Lops said:

jeremy said:

If they try to withhold sex, something is terribly wrong.

true story. I couldn't help overhear two women chatting it up at an informal get together one time. One was completely serious about withholding the 'nanny unless her husband didn't do what she wanted when she wanted. She boasted about leaving the house and going to a hotel to wait it out until whatever whim was appeased.

And just so we're clear:




At some point the husband gets sick of the games and takes on a side-chick. Then the wife goes crying to her friends and posts on social media about how men are dogs and where have all the good men gone.


Your post seems like you are very angry and hurt. I'm sorry you've been hurt.

Most dudes aren't good looking enough or rich enough to have a side chick.

Many will cheat (probably get caught/told on when it goes sideways). Having a side chick you can afford is called a mistress.

Your wife can EASILY **** around on you all day with better looking guys and no body is saying a word.

If you are a good husband you are equally worried about whether your wife is sick of your games too.

I'm sorry someone hurt you.




What's wrong with you? Haven't you posted on internet forums before?
How old are you?

Don't get personal.

Go make some tiktoks or something if you can't handle opposing viewpoints.
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David_Puddy said:

I like most of it but a big L-O-f'ing-L at her rule 6. So she doesn't let her husband go meet one of his buddies at a bar to watch a college football or an NFL game without her? Yeah, no thanks. I'm not married yet, but 0 of my buddies would be married if their wife had that as one of their rules. Males and females get hit on literally everywhere - grocery store, the gym, the airport, a sporting event, etc. If you don't trust your spouse to be out at a bar watching a game with a buddy, then you shouldn't be married.

Yep, that's kind of psycho to be honest. I get if she doesn't want her husband coming home completely sloshed on a semi regular basis...pretty much all women hate seeing their grown up husband in this state.

No one would want that one guy around either if he was like "can my wife come?" Male get togethers are very healthy...same with females.
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infinity ag said:

CrackerJackAg said:

infinity ag said:

Mega Lops said:

jeremy said:

If they try to withhold sex, something is terribly wrong.

true story. I couldn't help overhear two women chatting it up at an informal get together one time. One was completely serious about withholding the 'nanny unless her husband didn't do what she wanted when she wanted. She boasted about leaving the house and going to a hotel to wait it out until whatever whim was appeased.

And just so we're clear:




At some point the husband gets sick of the games and takes on a side-chick. Then the wife goes crying to her friends and posts on social media about how men are dogs and where have all the good men gone.


Your post seems like you are very angry and hurt. I'm sorry you've been hurt.

Most dudes aren't good looking enough or rich enough to have a side chick.

Many will cheat (probably get caught/told on when it goes sideways). Having a side chick you can afford is called a mistress.

Your wife can EASILY **** around on you all day with better looking guys and no body is saying a word.

If you are a good husband you are equally worried about whether your wife is sick of your games too.

I'm sorry someone hurt you.




What's wrong with you? Haven't you posted on internet forums before?
How old are you?

Don't get personal.

Go make some tiktoks or something if you can't handle opposing viewpoints.


I'm sorry you're hurt. Your dropping weird anti marriage, anti woman sleazy behavior type post and you expect no one to respond or have a view that opposes yours

How old are you? Do you not know how Internet forums work? People may not agree with you.

If you took that personal, I think it's just personal to you. I wasn't talking about you directly at all.

Personally, I'm 45 & I've been very happily married for 23 years to my brilliant Aggie wife smoke show. I don't have a bad attitude or hateful attitude towards women so it's worked out well.
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Esteban du Plantier said:

David_Puddy said:

I like most of it but a big L-O-f'ing-L at her rule 6. So she doesn't let her husband go meet one of his buddies at a bar to watch a college football or an NFL game without her? Yeah, no thanks. I'm not married yet, but 0 of my buddies would be married if their wife had that as one of their rules. Males and females get hit on literally everywhere - grocery store, the gym, the airport, a sporting event, etc. If you don't trust your spouse to be out at a bar watching a game with a buddy, then you shouldn't be married.


I interpreted it differently. She said clubbing, not a beer with the guys to watch a football game. I think there's a huge difference.


Listen to it again. She said no clubbing (which I totally get) or bar scenes without each other. A sports bar would be considered a bar scene.
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CrackerJackAg said:

infinity ag said:

Mega Lops said:

jeremy said:

If they try to withhold sex, something is terribly wrong.

true story. I couldn't help overhear two women chatting it up at an informal get together one time. One was completely serious about withholding the 'nanny unless her husband didn't do what she wanted when she wanted. She boasted about leaving the house and going to a hotel to wait it out until whatever whim was appeased.

And just so we're clear:




At some point the husband gets sick of the games and takes on a side-chick. Then the wife goes crying to her friends and posts on social media about how men are dogs and where have all the good men gone.


Your post seems like you are very angry and hurt. I'm sorry you've been hurt.

Most dudes aren't good looking enough or rich enough to have a side chick.

Many will cheat (probably get caught/told on when it goes sideways). Having a side chick you can afford is called a mistress.

Your wife can EASILY **** around on you all day with better looking guys and no body is saying a word.

If you are a good husband you are equally worried about whether your wife is sick of your games too.

I'm sorry someone hurt you.




You think that a dude has to be rich or good looking to have a side chick? Did you never see an episode of Cheaters back in the day? Some absolute creatures on that show (both male and female) were out having side conquests. Also when someone is cheating, the person they're cheating with is usually a lot less attractive than their husband or wife.
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David_Puddy said:

CrackerJackAg said:

infinity ag said:

Mega Lops said:

jeremy said:

If they try to withhold sex, something is terribly wrong.

true story. I couldn't help overhear two women chatting it up at an informal get together one time. One was completely serious about withholding the 'nanny unless her husband didn't do what she wanted when she wanted. She boasted about leaving the house and going to a hotel to wait it out until whatever whim was appeased.

And just so we're clear:




At some point the husband gets sick of the games and takes on a side-chick. Then the wife goes crying to her friends and posts on social media about how men are dogs and where have all the good men gone.


Your post seems like you are very angry and hurt. I'm sorry you've been hurt.

Most dudes aren't good looking enough or rich enough to have a side chick.

Many will cheat (probably get caught/told on when it goes sideways). Having a side chick you can afford is called a mistress.

Your wife can EASILY **** around on you all day with better looking guys and no body is saying a word.

If you are a good husband you are equally worried about whether your wife is sick of your games too.

I'm sorry someone hurt you.




You think that a dude has to be rich or good looking to have a side chick? Did you never see an episode of Cheaters back in the day? Some absolute creatures on that show (both male and female) were out having side conquests. Also when someone is cheating, the person they're cheating with is usually a lot less attractive than their husband or wife.

Exhibit A:

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David_Puddy said:

CrackerJackAg said:

infinity ag said:

Mega Lops said:

jeremy said:

If they try to withhold sex, something is terribly wrong.

true story. I couldn't help overhear two women chatting it up at an informal get together one time. One was completely serious about withholding the 'nanny unless her husband didn't do what she wanted when she wanted. She boasted about leaving the house and going to a hotel to wait it out until whatever whim was appeased.

And just so we're clear:




At some point the husband gets sick of the games and takes on a side-chick. Then the wife goes crying to her friends and posts on social media about how men are dogs and where have all the good men gone.


Your post seems like you are very angry and hurt. I'm sorry you've been hurt.

Most dudes aren't good looking enough or rich enough to have a side chick.

Many will cheat (probably get caught/told on when it goes sideways). Having a side chick you can afford is called a mistress.

Your wife can EASILY **** around on you all day with better looking guys and no body is saying a word.

If you are a good husband you are equally worried about whether your wife is sick of your games too.

I'm sorry someone hurt you.




You think that a dude has to be rich or good looking to have a side chick? Did you never see an episode of Cheaters back in the day? Some absolute creatures on that show (both male and female) were out having side conquests. Also when someone is cheating, the person they're cheating with is usually a lot less attractive than their husband or wife.


That's not a side chick. That's easy. No limit to one and dones out there.

The guy said a side chick when he gets tired of the old girl at home. Implying the chick he hangs with when the wife grates in him. Steady kind of thing.
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Coincidentally today is my 36th wedding anniversary. Her rules are fine, and I think Benny added my 11th rule. Marriage is like a triangle, prior to marriage the man and woman are at the bottom of the triangle in opposite corners. God is at the top corner. When they marry and worship according to Scriptures, they each move up the line of the triangle, and the closer they get to God, the closer they get to each other.
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CampSkunk said:

Coincidentally today is my 36th wedding anniversary. Her rules are fine, and I think Benny added my 11th rule. Marriage is like a triangle, prior to marriage the man and woman are at the bottom of the triangle in opposite corners. God is at the top corner. When they marry and worship according to Scriptures, they each move up the line of the triangle, and the closer they get to God, the closer they get to each other.


I am not stunned you are married 36 years.

Notice how some have good attitudes towards their spouses and successful marriages.
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Note to men and women: Choose wisely.
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CrackerJackAg said:

David_Puddy said:

CrackerJackAg said:

infinity ag said:

Mega Lops said:

jeremy said:

If they try to withhold sex, something is terribly wrong.

true story. I couldn't help overhear two women chatting it up at an informal get together one time. One was completely serious about withholding the 'nanny unless her husband didn't do what she wanted when she wanted. She boasted about leaving the house and going to a hotel to wait it out until whatever whim was appeased.

And just so we're clear:




At some point the husband gets sick of the games and takes on a side-chick. Then the wife goes crying to her friends and posts on social media about how men are dogs and where have all the good men gone.


Your post seems like you are very angry and hurt. I'm sorry you've been hurt.

Most dudes aren't good looking enough or rich enough to have a side chick.

Many will cheat (probably get caught/told on when it goes sideways). Having a side chick you can afford is called a mistress.

Your wife can EASILY **** around on you all day with better looking guys and no body is saying a word.

If you are a good husband you are equally worried about whether your wife is sick of your games too.

I'm sorry someone hurt you.




You think that a dude has to be rich or good looking to have a side chick? Did you never see an episode of Cheaters back in the day? Some absolute creatures on that show (both male and female) were out having side conquests. Also when someone is cheating, the person they're cheating with is usually a lot less attractive than their husband or wife.


That's not a side chick. That's easy. No limit to one and dones out there.

The guy said a side chick when he gets tired of the old girl at home. Implying the chick he hangs with when the wife grates in him. Steady kind of thing.

While I generally disagree with infinity on most things, he said nothing in his initial statement that wasn't true.

You are literally arguing over semantics because you think the definition of "side chick" is X while the resto fthe world understands it is a current catch all term for "chick that is not the wife that the husband is banging because his wife won't throw him the dirty leg anymore".

Mistress, side chick, side piece.....whatever. All the same thing.
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schmellba99 said:

CrackerJackAg said:

David_Puddy said:

CrackerJackAg said:

infinity ag said:

Mega Lops said:

jeremy said:

If they try to withhold sex, something is terribly wrong.

true story. I couldn't help overhear two women chatting it up at an informal get together one time. One was completely serious about withholding the 'nanny unless her husband didn't do what she wanted when she wanted. She boasted about leaving the house and going to a hotel to wait it out until whatever whim was appeased.

And just so we're clear:




At some point the husband gets sick of the games and takes on a side-chick. Then the wife goes crying to her friends and posts on social media about how men are dogs and where have all the good men gone.


Your post seems like you are very angry and hurt. I'm sorry you've been hurt.

Most dudes aren't good looking enough or rich enough to have a side chick.

Many will cheat (probably get caught/told on when it goes sideways). Having a side chick you can afford is called a mistress.

Your wife can EASILY **** around on you all day with better looking guys and no body is saying a word.

If you are a good husband you are equally worried about whether your wife is sick of your games too.

I'm sorry someone hurt you.




You think that a dude has to be rich or good looking to have a side chick? Did you never see an episode of Cheaters back in the day? Some absolute creatures on that show (both male and female) were out having side conquests. Also when someone is cheating, the person they're cheating with is usually a lot less attractive than their husband or wife.


That's not a side chick. That's easy. No limit to one and dones out there.

The guy said a side chick when he gets tired of the old girl at home. Implying the chick he hangs with when the wife grates in him. Steady kind of thing.

While I generally disagree with infinity on most things, he said nothing in his initial statement that wasn't true.

You are literally arguing over semantics because you think the definition of "side chick" is X while the resto fthe world understands it is a current catch all term for "chick that is not the wife that the husband is banging because his wife won't throw him the dirty leg anymore".

Mistress, side chick, side piece.....whatever. All the same thing.


I get that. I was just clarifying and actually attempting to say I agree more than disagree.

You know…quick written word. Internet forum and lack of context and all.
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Squadron7 said:

Note to men and women: Choose wisely.


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Bunch of rookies.

I have 22 years of marriage across TWO different wives.

In your faces!
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CrackerJackAg said:

infinity ag said:

Mega Lops said:

jeremy said:

If they try to withhold sex, something is terribly wrong.

true story. I couldn't help overhear two women chatting it up at an informal get together one time. One was completely serious about withholding the 'nanny unless her husband didn't do what she wanted when she wanted. She boasted about leaving the house and going to a hotel to wait it out until whatever whim was appeased.

And just so we're clear:




At some point the husband gets sick of the games and takes on a side-chick. Then the wife goes crying to her friends and posts on social media about how men are dogs and where have all the good men gone.


Your post seems like you are very angry and hurt. I'm sorry you've been hurt.

Most dudes aren't good looking enough or rich enough to have a side chick.

Many will cheat (probably get caught/told on when it goes sideways). Having a side chick you can afford is called a mistress.

Your wife can EASILY **** around on you all day with better looking guys and no body is saying a word.

If you are a good husband you are equally worried about whether your wife is sick of your games too.

I'm sorry someone hurt you.




You sound way more hurt than the other guy lol. He was just pointing out reality
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It's amazing how that type of committed, well-defined relationship has worked for thousands of years...but it's not good enough these days.

She does a really good job of explaining the 'why' and not just preaching the 'what'.


Quote:

I disagree with her about risqu photos, but almost everything else is spot on.

She said she doesn't post any risqu'e photos online. Curious what your disagreement is with that...
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David_Puddy said:

I like most of it but a big L-O-f'ing-L at her rule 6. So she doesn't let her husband go meet one of his buddies at a bar to watch a college football or an NFL game without her? Yeah, no thanks. I'm not married yet, but 0 of my buddies would be married if their wife had that as one of their rules. Males and females get hit on literally everywhere - grocery store, the gym, the airport, a sporting event, etc. If you don't trust your spouse to be out at a bar watching a game with a buddy, then you shouldn't be married.


What she SAID was "no clubbing or bar scenes without each other." That's not what you're talking about here. I've been married 30+ years and every time I go meet "the guys" (1 or more) to watch a game or even just to hang out, we don't go to a somewhere that's thought of as a traditional pickup place. Sure, I (and others) get flirted with on occasion, but again, I don't think that's what she's talking about. We go to either hang out and talk among ourselves, watch the game, or celebrate someone's b-day, etc., not horse around with women there.

She's talking about breast-raunt type places as well as what others might call singles bars. You can watch the game at a ton of places that have very little interaction between patrons.
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CrackerJackAg said:

schmellba99 said:

CrackerJackAg said:

David_Puddy said:

CrackerJackAg said:

infinity ag said:

Mega Lops said:

jeremy said:

If they try to withhold sex, something is terribly wrong.

true story. I couldn't help overhear two women chatting it up at an informal get together one time. One was completely serious about withholding the 'nanny unless her husband didn't do what she wanted when she wanted. She boasted about leaving the house and going to a hotel to wait it out until whatever whim was appeased.

And just so we're clear:




At some point the husband gets sick of the games and takes on a side-chick. Then the wife goes crying to her friends and posts on social media about how men are dogs and where have all the good men gone.


Your post seems like you are very angry and hurt. I'm sorry you've been hurt.

Most dudes aren't good looking enough or rich enough to have a side chick.

Many will cheat (probably get caught/told on when it goes sideways). Having a side chick you can afford is called a mistress.

Your wife can EASILY **** around on you all day with better looking guys and no body is saying a word.

If you are a good husband you are equally worried about whether your wife is sick of your games too.

I'm sorry someone hurt you.




You think that a dude has to be rich or good looking to have a side chick? Did you never see an episode of Cheaters back in the day? Some absolute creatures on that show (both male and female) were out having side conquests. Also when someone is cheating, the person they're cheating with is usually a lot less attractive than their husband or wife.


That's not a side chick. That's easy. No limit to one and dones out there.

The guy said a side chick when he gets tired of the old girl at home. Implying the chick he hangs with when the wife grates in him. Steady kind of thing.

While I generally disagree with infinity on most things, he said nothing in his initial statement that wasn't true.

You are literally arguing over semantics because you think the definition of "side chick" is X while the resto fthe world understands it is a current catch all term for "chick that is not the wife that the husband is banging because his wife won't throw him the dirty leg anymore".

Mistress, side chick, side piece.....whatever. All the same thing.


I get that. I was just clarifying and actually attempting to say I agree more than disagree.

You know…quick written word. Internet forum and lack of context and all.

You did a really shtty job at conveying that point.
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Muktheduck said:

CrackerJackAg said:

infinity ag said:

Mega Lops said:

jeremy said:

If they try to withhold sex, something is terribly wrong.

true story. I couldn't help overhear two women chatting it up at an informal get together one time. One was completely serious about withholding the 'nanny unless her husband didn't do what she wanted when she wanted. She boasted about leaving the house and going to a hotel to wait it out until whatever whim was appeased.

And just so we're clear:




At some point the husband gets sick of the games and takes on a side-chick. Then the wife goes crying to her friends and posts on social media about how men are dogs and where have all the good men gone.


Your post seems like you are very angry and hurt. I'm sorry you've been hurt.

Most dudes aren't good looking enough or rich enough to have a side chick.

Many will cheat (probably get caught/told on when it goes sideways). Having a side chick you can afford is called a mistress.

Your wife can EASILY **** around on you all day with better looking guys and no body is saying a word.

If you are a good husband you are equally worried about whether your wife is sick of your games too.

I'm sorry someone hurt you.




You sound way more hurt than the other guy lol. He was just pointing out reality


Ok. I think we live different realities. If that's reality for some people I am sorry for you.
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