Hogties said:
Whatever happened to finding a woman in the real world? Church, the gym, a bar?
Deerdude said:Hogties said:
Whatever happened to finding a woman in the real world? Church, the gym, a bar?
There are no more good English singing dancing bars in America.
cecil77 said:Quote:
More people need to realize that it doesn't matter how "hot" your spouse is, if they suck they suck
Well, that's certainly a valid point.
Rapier108 said:
In his tweet, he says this.Quote:
Third, I've said this many times, but the first time I expressed my feelings to my wife, I was rejected. So while rejection means that you should stop pursuing for now, it doesn't mean it's over. It may not be over for this guy she's talking about.
Maybe at one time that is how it was, but today, the guy better back off and fast. Women have all the power to ruin a man's life if he keeps pursuing her after she turned him down. Besides, women generally tell men in no uncertain terms to **** off. It is almost never, "no thanks" anymore.
Rapier108 said:Hogties said:
Whatever happened to finding a woman in the real world? Church, the gym, a bar?
Church is the absolute worst.
The girls and women would only look for the "perfect" men because they have been raised under the delusion that God had already selected their husband and he will be "perfect for her." Often they'll use the stupid phrase "waiting for my Boaz" which really meant waiting for a rich guy. If I had a $ for every time I heard that, I'd be Boaz.
Also, if you ask a woman out at church, and she turns you down, you're done at that church when it comes to meeting someone. They all talk, and they all know you asked her out. Ask out another one a year later, and she'll remember and take offense to it because it means you see her as "second best."
javajaws said:
All of us married guys over 45 that have never used dating apps should take a challenge. With our wives permission, we should have a contest to see who can get the most dates on one of these apps and check out the **** show for ourselves.
IDaggie06 said:Hogties said:
Whatever happened to finding a woman in the real world? Church, the gym, a bar?
The gym? Maybe 20 plus yeas ago. Women at gyms now are not there to talk to random guys. And I've seen so many creepy gym bros try to talk to women at the gym, it's a train wreck and I feel bad for the lady as you can tell they just want to be left alone. .
Rapier108 said:Hogties said:
Whatever happened to finding a woman in the real world? Church, the gym, a bar?
Church is the absolute worst.
The girls and women would only look for the "perfect" men because they have been raised under the delusion that God had already selected their husband and he will be "perfect for her." Often they'll use the stupid phrase "waiting for my Boaz" which really meant waiting for a rich guy. If I had a $ for every time I heard that, I'd be Boaz.
Also, if you ask a woman out at church, and she turns you down, you're done at that church when it comes to meeting someone. They all talk, and they all know you asked her out. Ask out another one a year later, and she'll remember and take offense to it because it means you see her as "second best."
TyHolden said:javajaws said:
All of us married guys over 45 that have never used dating apps should take a challenge. With our wives permission, we should have a contest to see who can get the most dates on one of these apps and check out the **** show for ourselves.
this sounds like a late-night Cinemax movie....
HollywoodBQ said:Deerdude said:Hogties said:
Whatever happened to finding a woman in the real world? Church, the gym, a bar?
There are no more good English singing dancing bars in America.
Time to embrace Reggaeton
javajaws said:
All of us married guys over 45 that have never used dating apps should take a challenge. With our wives permission, we should have a contest to see who can get the most dates on one of these apps and check out the **** show for ourselves.
bonfarr said:
It boils down to the fact she wasn't attracted to the guy. This is no different than the workplace sexual harassment hysteria of the 90s. Back then two different men could walk up to a female co-workers desk and chat them up and ask the out for drinks. The tall handsome guy makes the girl blush and she agrees to meet him up for drinks after work and she giddily tells all of her co-worker friends. The second guy is 5'6" tall with a receding hairline and he does the exact same thing as the first guy and he is immediately labeled a creep that won't leave her alone and she complains to all her co-worker friends about him.
tk111 said:TyHolden said:javajaws said:
All of us married guys over 45 that have never used dating apps should take a challenge. With our wives permission, we should have a contest to see who can get the most dates on one of these apps and check out the **** show for ourselves.
this sounds like a late-night Cinemax movie....
Yeah and there has been a story going around recently where a couple did exactly the above...it did not end well
Ramdiesel said:bonfarr said:
It isn't just the women filtering for 6' well built handsome men with salaries over $150 k a year that caused him to give up. His preferred dating age range was 38-50 and he was shocked at how many emotionally unbalanced women he encountered. He told me some crazy stories.
It was almost the same in the late 90's/ early 2000s dating women in their 20s. Now they are all grown up in the 38 to 50 yr old range with even more baggage and more unbalance.
I swear every chick I dated back then had had at least 1 abortion, or had a kid already, and had at least 1 abusive ex they were still hung up on that treated them like dirt for years. And, seemed like they all came from crazy broken homes. I felt like when I met my wife who was like a church girl with good morals and values and a great personality and family it was a miracle, like she was a unicorn.
Sweep4-2 said:
I've been off the market for years, and after reading this thread I'm hoping even more to stay off the market. It sounds brutal out there!
Going out to buy some flowers and expensive gifts right now!
tk111 said:TyHolden said:javajaws said:
All of us married guys over 45 that have never used dating apps should take a challenge. With our wives permission, we should have a contest to see who can get the most dates on one of these apps and check out the **** show for ourselves.
this sounds like a late-night Cinemax movie....
Yeah and there has been a story going around recently where a couple did exactly the above...it did not end well
IDaggie06 said:Hogties said:
Whatever happened to finding a woman in the real world? Church, the gym, a bar?
The gym? Maybe 20 plus yeas ago. Women at gyms now are not there to talk to random guys. And I've seen so many creepy gym bros try to talk to women at the gym, it's a train wreck and I feel bad for the lady as you can tell they just want to be left alone. .
YouBet said:
Have yall tried the General board? I can attest to the fact that you can meet women on there. At least you could 20 years ago.
YouBet said:
Have yall tried the General board? I can attest to the fact that you can meet women on there. At least you could 20 years ago.
YouBet said:
Have yall tried the General board? I can attest to the fact that you can meet women on there. At least you could 20 years ago.
bonfarr said:YouBet said:
Have yall tried the General board? I can attest to the fact that you can meet women on there. At least you could 20 years ago.
I have never posted on the GB but wouldn't dating posters expose you to potential ridicule on the forum? I remember Taylor Hamm always being accused of being a Minute Man.
Teslag said:
I was just about to mention Good Friday. That was back when trolling wasn't considered ban worthy and it was easy to do.
tk111 said:Rapier108 said:Hogties said:
Whatever happened to finding a woman in the real world? Church, the gym, a bar?
Church is the absolute worst.
The girls and women would only look for the "perfect" men because they have been raised under the delusion that God had already selected their husband and he will be "perfect for her." Often they'll use the stupid phrase "waiting for my Boaz" which really meant waiting for a rich guy. If I had a $ for every time I heard that, I'd be Boaz.
Also, if you ask a woman out at church, and she turns you down, you're done at that church when it comes to meeting someone. They all talk, and they all know you asked her out. Ask out another one a year later, and she'll remember and take offense to it because it means you see her as "second best."
Churches that let women preach look like this ^
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The strange part is that a number of married guys I know (in mid-50's) get approached by women who are interested
TikiBarrel said:Rapier108 said:Hogties said:
Whatever happened to finding a woman in the real world? Church, the gym, a bar?
Church is the absolute worst.
The girls and women would only look for the "perfect" men because they have been raised under the delusion that God had already selected their husband and he will be "perfect for her." Often they'll use the stupid phrase "waiting for my Boaz" which really meant waiting for a rich guy. If I had a $ for every time I heard that, I'd be Boaz.
Also, if you ask a woman out at church, and she turns you down, you're done at that church when it comes to meeting someone. They all talk, and they all know you asked her out. Ask out another one a year later, and she'll remember and take offense to it because it means you see her as "second best."
A lot of "church ladies"…especially in the 30yo+ range spent their 20's getting run through by Chad. Once they decided they wanted to quit the party life, settle down and have children they magically "found God". Jesus may forgive them but the Devil's in the details of their past, along with the associated trauma and baggage.
