Man in Women's Restroom (with kids)

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Saw the video yesterday…not sure if it's the same one as what's posted in the OP here but the version I saw continued for a brief moment with Man A trying to leave and Man B putting his hands on him….so there's more to it.

And Man A recording this was smart as hell. Without that it's just words against words….
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There was the case many years ago of a woman at a George Strait concert at The Summit. Fed up with the long line for the women's room, she snuck into the men's room to do her business and was arrested.

The way the law was written, a person could not go into the opposite sex bathroom with the intent of causing a commotion. The judge correctly determined she went in solely to pee and dismissed the charges.
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The Target in my city has had problems with a pervert exposing himself in the family restroom and waiting for families to open the unlocked door. I struggle with sending my two pre-teen daughters or young son to the restroom themselves and require at least pairs. The dad did nothing wrong.
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As to the firing, from the article I read the man was an "independent contractor" at a real estate brokerage. That tells me he was an agent. To my knowledge, every state treats real estate agents as independent contractors rather than employees.

I own my own real estate brokerage in Florida. The real estate business is build almost entirely on name recognition and reputation. If this had been on of my agents, I would have given him two options: issue an app where he acknowledges the error of his ways, or I terminate his contract. His name is associated with my brokerage. If he did something to damage his own name, I'm not letting him pull my name down as well.
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Always an awkward situation for a dad. I have 2 daughters and when they were quite little, I would take them to the men's. But before long at all, I was sending them to the women's, staying outside, but stalking the door so I could hear. But there really is no wrong answer here if you aren't being a creep. This B guy is nuts and deserves the fall-out he got
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torrid said:

There was the case many years ago of a woman at a George Strait concert at The Summit. Fed up with the long line for the women's room, she snuck into the men's room to do her business and was arrested.

The way the law was written, a person could not go into the opposite sex bathroom with the intent of causing a commotion. The judge correctly determined she went in solely to pee and dismissed the charges.

I guess, since this was the Summit and many years ago, there is no way for a Texags Rule #1 reference?

If not, assumptions will have to be made that she was at least minimally "hot". Thus, no commotion(s). It was a George Strait concert at least, so we can remove the hog-ring in the nose, fat, unkempt, odorous, green hair, acnefied, unstable, gender-confused, weeble-wobble shaped, feminazi type of "woman" in said men's room.

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GeorgiAg said:



Take your daughter to the mens restroom and put her in a stall if she's that young.




I was a single dad through all of my daughters young years and you never take them into a men's truck stop restroom.

But you do have options.

1. Use business with a family restroom like grocery store or Starbucks.

2. Hotel lobby restrooms are a godsend. Always clean. Never in use. Just walk in like you own the place, walk out when you're done.

3. If you must use a truck stop (I'd never stop at one traveling alone with my daughter) you gotta find a lady to go in the girls room with them, or hold down the door for you while you go in.

Dems the rules.
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ABattJudd said:

As to the firing, from the article I read the man was an "independent contractor" at a real estate brokerage. That tells me he was an agent. To my knowledge, every state treats real estate agents as independent contractors rather than employees.

I own my own real estate brokerage in Florida. The real estate business is build almost entirely on name recognition and reputation. If this had been on of my agents, I would have given him two options: issue an app where he acknowledges the error of his ways, or I terminate his contract. His name is associated with my brokerage. If he did something to damage his own name, I'm not letting him pull my name down as well.


Most brokerages have no idea what to do with free attention when it comes their way.
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infinity ag said:

EMY92 said:

infinity ag said:

Man B was a jerk but did NOT deserve to be fired. I hope he sues the pants off his former employer so he won't have to work again. No justification to being an a-hole but getting fired for that? No.

Man A, well that is hard. I have 1 daughter, I was never in this situation. I probably would have taken her into the men's bathroom into a stall and waited outside. Unlikely to have gone into a woman's restroom. But he was not being a perv or taking creepy pics so I would let it go.

Really, you become a national spectacle and don't think that gives your employer a right to fire you? If the guy is working on a loading dock, then I might have some sympathy, but he's in a public facing real estate job, that look does not help business prospects.


Stop being a snowflake. What's happened to the men of this country??

Man B wasn't attacking, perving or doing anything illegal or criminal. He was just being a jerk which we all do at one point or other in our daily lives. Does not justify getting fired over.

No one would have known unless Man A decided to film it. How is he a "national spectacle"? Man A slandered his rep. His employer's CEO is just virtue-signaling and pandering to women.

Man B is an independent contractor. When you're not an employee, you really shouldn't act like a jackass in public.

He made a little girl scared and made one cry. I have zero issue with his firing. Hopefully, he learns a lesson.
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Any of y'all defending Man B need to watch the video.

https://www.tiktok.com/@tylerbrodsky2/video/7651695974150049038

He's scaring the hell out of those girls. He also comes up to Man A when he is out of the bathroom back in the store section of the QT. He was completely out of line.

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When you're not an employee, you really shouldn't act like a jackass in public.


Even when you are an employee, you shouldn't. Some people don't like busybody Aholes working for them.
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itsyourboypookie said:

GeorgiAg said:



Take your daughter to the mens restroom and put her in a stall if she's that young.




I was a single dad through all of my daughters young years and you never take them into a men's truck stop restroom.

But you do have options.

1. Use business with a family restroom like grocery store or Starbucks.


2. Hotel lobby restrooms are a godsend. Always clean. Never in use. Just walk in like you own the place, walk out when you're done.

3. If you must use a truck stop (I'd never stop at one traveling alone with my daughter) you gotta find a lady to go in the girls room with them, or hold down the door for you while you go in.

Dems the rules.


There is a poster on this site that does just this for themselves as an adult. Not only that, but they also eat the complimentary breakfast in the overall process. All as a non-resident of said hotels. They admitted so in a post years ago.
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BMX Bandit said:

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When you're not an employee, you really shouldn't act like a jackass in public.


Even when you are an employee, you shouldn't. Some people don't like busybody Aholes working for them.

Exactly. The older guy is clearly a Tool. I would fire him also. Men's public restrooms often are disgusting and I would not want to take young girls into one either.
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In other news. When my daughter takes her young boys to the men's bathroom she announces "don't let anyone touch your weiner!" and stands outside the door waiting for them to come out.
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Girl dad here, man A showed great restraint. I have had to take my daughter to the women's restroom before. I didn't do it every time but sometimes the men's restrooms don't have the changing tables and stuff for baby's and kids in them like the ladies restroom does. One time we were at chic fila and my daughter had a blowout when she was very young and I had to take her to get her cleaned up and changed. Go to the guys bathroom and there is no changing table or anything. I was desperate so I made the unfortunate decision to lay her on the floor of the bathroom to change her. Luckily the restroom was clean but I felt terrible about it. I should've just gone to the ladies restroom to not put my kid on the floor. Man B is a jerk and deserved what he got
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Horn_in_Aggieland said:

https://www.fox7austin.com/news/man-fired-firm-after-viral-video-shows-him-scolding-dad-taking-young-daughters-womens-restroom

Lots to unpack here:

Man A takes his daughters into women's restroom

Man B flips his lid on Man A. Of course this is captured on video.

Man B gets fired from his job.

As the father of a girl, it would never have occurred to me to go into the women's restroom with her when she was a young kid even though men's restrooms are gross, especially in gas stations (except Buccees).

Does having a kid give you a free pass into the women's restroom? I can't tell in the video if this is a single stall restroom.

Should common sense prevail? Man A obviously wasn't being a perv.

Man B may have been a jerk but did he need to be fired?


I worked at a state park one summer when I was young. I cleaned a lot of restrooms. The women's was by far the most disgusting. It wasn't even close.
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Side bar issue: I had to clean both restrooms in a grocery store in highschool after close and in my experience having seen the conditions on both many times, men's rooms are often LESS gross than the women's room. Site, the men's room often has splatter issues from errant urination but both get kids on them and the women's room got far more issues with infant handling, feminine products, and attempts to not touch the toilet seat gone wrong.
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Someone should start a GoFundMe for the QT manager lady.

Also, I would LOVE to get the opinion of Man B's wife and mother-in-law who were waiting to use the bathroom.
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infinity ag said:

BrazosDog02 said:

My grandfather once punched a guy in the nose and shoved him down a flight of stares for popping off and saying something about my grandmother. You don't have that happen anymore and it shows in society.


Oh that's when men were real men and women were real women.

Today? Everyone is confused and in many cases women are more masculine than men and vice versa.


Cellphone cameras in everyone's hand makes it a lot more difficult these days to give someone the ass whipping they deserve. Forty years ago you could punch someone in their big fat mouth and walk away and deny deny if a cop came around. Now you punch someone and a dozen people have it on the net labeling you a bully Karen
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The real issue is the men's room has less privacy given the urinal situation. At a certain age, I don't want my daughter seeing that, but she still may not be old enough to venture in the women's room by herself.

As a dad of 3 girls- I think that window of time is fairly tight... I'm not sure if I ever had to bring one of my daughters in the men's room (and for sure never went into the ladies room, unless a single service type restroom)... But I understand that dad's dilemma...
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Old Sarge said:

torrid said:

There was the case many years ago of a woman at a George Strait concert at The Summit. Fed up with the long line for the women's room, she snuck into the men's room to do her business and was arrested.

The way the law was written, a person could not go into the opposite sex bathroom with the intent of causing a commotion. The judge correctly determined she went in solely to pee and dismissed the charges.

I guess, since this was the Summit and many years ago, there is no way for a Texags Rule #1 reference?

If not, assumptions will have to be made that she was at least minimally "hot". Thus, no commotion(s). It was a George Strait concert at least, so we can remove the hog-ring in the nose, fat, unkempt, odorous, green hair, acnefied, unstable, gender-confused, weeble-wobble shaped, feminazi type of "woman" in said men's room.



I think this was around 1990, so unfortunately no photo. However, my recollection was closer to biker chick than what you were hoping for.
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Old Sarge said:

torrid said:

There was the case many years ago of a woman at a George Strait concert at The Summit. Fed up with the long line for the women's room, she snuck into the men's room to do her business and was arrested.

The way the law was written, a person could not go into the opposite sex bathroom with the intent of causing a commotion. The judge correctly determined she went in solely to pee and dismissed the charges.

I guess, since this was the Summit and many years ago, there is no way for a Texags Rule #1 reference?

If not, assumptions will have to be made that she was at least minimally "hot". Thus, no commotion(s). It was a George Strait concert at least, so we can remove the hog-ring in the nose, fat, unkempt, odorous, green hair, acnefied, unstable, gender-confused, weeble-wobble shaped, feminazi type of "woman" in said men's room.




I went to one of the last concerts at The Summit before it became Joel Osteen's Temple. ZZ Top was playing, and 92.1 KTSR had a bus trip down. This was about 2003 or 2004. Imagine a bunch of aging boomers on a bus to see ZZ Top and a garbage bag full of jello shots. Hilarity ensued. Local celebrity Don Ganter (owner of the Dixie Chicken) was in the bus with us. After that two hour bus ride, everyone was ready to pee when we got to the Summit. Everyone headed for the bathrooms. I am standing at the urinal. Don pulls up to the urinal next to me, starts pissing, and says "I wish I had a shtter this nice in the Chicken."

It really makes you think.
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jopatura said:

The Target in my city has had problems with a pervert exposing himself in the family restroom and waiting for families to open the unlocked door. I struggle with sending my two pre-teen daughters or young son to the restroom themselves and require at least pairs. The dad did nothing wrong.


Can we go back to this? This in no way should have happened more than once. If this guy isn't in jail, please start a thread on the outdoors board with what town this is, so we can end this problem.

A pervert boxing himself into an area with no escape route is a stupid pervert that needs to be ended.
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bonfarr said:

infinity ag said:

BrazosDog02 said:

My grandfather once punched a guy in the nose and shoved him down a flight of stares for popping off and saying something about my grandmother. You don't have that happen anymore and it shows in society.


Oh that's when men were real men and women were real women.

Today? Everyone is confused and in many cases women are more masculine than men and vice versa.


Cellphone cameras in everyone's hand makes it a lot more difficult these days to give someone the ass whipping they deserve. Forty years ago you could punch someone in their big fat mouth and walk away and deny deny if a cop came around. Now you punch someone and a dozen people have it on the net labeling you a bully Karen


100%

cellphones and social media have combined to cause a lot of damage to society.

But I also believe that both many men and most women have degraded in quality in the last few decades.
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I always took my two girls into stalls in the men's restroom. I literally never gave that a second thought until I saw people on social media acting like that was weird. It never once occurred to me to take them into the women's bathroom.

Now they're both old enough to just go in the women's bathroom by themselves while I wait outside.
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riverrataggie said:

infinity ag said:

riverrataggie said:

infinity ag said:

EMY92 said:

infinity ag said:

Man B was a jerk but did NOT deserve to be fired. I hope he sues the pants off his former employer so he won't have to work again. No justification to being an a-hole but getting fired for that? No.

Man A, well that is hard. I have 1 daughter, I was never in this situation. I probably would have taken her into the men's bathroom into a stall and waited outside. Unlikely to have gone into a woman's restroom. But he was not being a perv or taking creepy pics so I would let it go.

Really, you become a national spectacle and don't think that gives your employer a right to fire you? If the guy is working on a loading dock, then I might have some sympathy, but he's in a public facing real estate job, that look does not help business prospects.


Stop being a snowflake. What's happened to the men of this country??

Man B wasn't attacking, perving or doing anything illegal or criminal. He was just being a jerk which we all do at one point or other in our daily lives. Does not justify getting fired over.

No one would have known unless Man A decided to film it. How is he a "national spectacle"? Man A slandered his rep. His employer's CEO is just virtue-signaling and pandering to women.


Man A didn't slander Man B's rep. Serious Clark? man A trying to wash his kids hands and Man B comes in and stats harassing. Don't make this more than it is and act like Man B.


Man A put Man B on camera and played the victim card and ultimately got him fired.

Man B's "mistake" was not worthy of getting fired. He was a jerk and an a-hole, no doubt.

I hope Man A can sleep at night thinking about how he caused someone to lose his house.


I'm not arguing about the firing. I don't think he should have been fired. But that's not my or your call. It's the employers end of day. I'm debating the slander.



We are not here on this board to make calls. We just share our opinions and go back to our days.

I am of the opinion that the employer did Man B a grave injustice for firing him over this. That may cause him other issues like becoming homeless so he should sue him and extract enough money that he won't need to work another day in his life. That is what I want.

As for slander, when you record someone and put it on the internet and set off a mob on someone, you are slandering that person. So Man A is at fault too and deserves punishment for causing Man B to lose his job and maybe his home, wife, car etc.

I am also sympathetic to Man A's predicament with his daughters, I can't think of a solution and Man B should have not made a big deal about it since Man A was not being a perv.
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Except that your definition of slander could not be further from the actual definition. Slander has to be false. An unedited video cannot be false. So far as filing suit against his former employer goes, he was an independent contractor, they ended the contract. There is no action to take.
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thinking someone deserves punishment for filming a Jackwagon accosting him and his children is next level insanity.
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BMX Bandit said:

thinking someone deserves punishment for filming a Jackwagon accosting him and his children is next level insanity.


Man A must have been a CEO

This guy posts some looney-ass **** that seems trolling but I think is actually just looney-ass ****
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didn't notice who posted it. Change "next level insanity" to "typical inane gibberish"
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Update to the story.

Mom and Dad are not together.

Mom not happy about her kids all over social media.

Mom alleges Man A is a deadbeat dad. Dad denies it.

Dad creates a GoFund for himself and the QT employee.

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Infection_Ag11 said:

I always took my two girls into stalls in the men's restroom. I literally never gave that a second thought until I saw people on social media acting like that was weird. It never once occurred to me to take them into the women's bathroom.

Now they're both old enough to just go in the women's bathroom by themselves while I wait outside.

Same. I've never taken my daughter into a women's restroom. I escorted her to the men's room stall, and posted up at the sink so there are no misunderstandings.

If there was a situation where the stalls were all occupied, and my wife was there, we would switch and my wife would take her to the women's.

I suppose, if my wife weren't there, and my daughter wasn't old enough to do it herself, I would contemplate what to do about entering a women's bathroom, but it never happened. There's only a small window of time where they are potty trained (2ish) to when they learn to use the restroom themselves (pre-k - kindergarten -- 4-5).

Now, I take my 7 year old, she goes into the women's and I just patiently wait outside and tell her to yell for me if she needs help, but she has never had to because if there are other women in there they have been happy to assist if she does need something.

The guy who filmed it kinda seems like an attention seeking person to me when he says stuff like "

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"I've personally been in men's restrooms. I just didn't feel like it was a good place to take two little girls."


Bro, your girls are now old enough to use the restroom by themselves for at least a year or two now, so which is it? You've never taken them into the men's room, or you dont trust them to be able to wash their hands by themselves? Either way, there isn't really a good reason for you to be in there with them. Doesn't mean you should be harassed by some old guy, but come on, now.
i'm sorry i dont laugh at the right times.
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Horn_in_Aggieland said:

Update to the story.

Mom and Dad are not together.

Mom not happy about her kids all over social media.

Mom alleges Man A is a deadbeat dad. Dad denies it.

Dad creates a GoFund for himself and the QT employee.



about what i expected. he sought attention with his behavior, received it (which clearly caused distress to his two girls, unfortunately), and is now trying to make money off of it.

what a loser.
i'm sorry i dont laugh at the right times.
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bonfarr said:

Old McDonald said:

gender neutral bathrooms solve this problem btw


Those are easy to do when you have a one hole bathroom like a Starbucks but if you need to provide a restroom large enough to accommodate multiple people at a time like a restaurant, convenience or grocery store you can't do that.

Yes, you can. I've been in several restaurants that operate this way. Same for many United Clubs. It is completely doable.
 
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