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bigjag19 said:

I grew up in the "poor" neighborhood for my school, which was anything but. However we were next to Pasadena, grew up at an elementary school built on a toxic waste dump, and no other neighborhood was near us that fed the school. By 8 miles. We definitely had a chip on our shoulder.
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Memorial.
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Don't assume everyone at MHS is affluent. They are not. Spring Branch Middle School, which like Memorial Middle School, feeds MHS and it is more diverse. MMS is more like the high school.
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"Daddy can't buy you this one."
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But the Harris County side.
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12thAngryMan said:

My boss and her husband probably make at least 700k/yr, they live in a $2m+ house, and their kids think they are poor.
Why is this so bad? I'd rather my kids think that they are poor in Memorial than live in Katy and think they are rich and better than everyone else.


Out of touch with reality either way. Those kids need to spend a few weeks working in the sun on a mission trip somewhere, work at the food bank, push a mower for a few summers. Of course they're poor. They're kids. They need to be reminded of that, and they need to understand how little others have, so they don't spend their limited time on this ball trying to impress people in a t.u. sorority, or using their money as a substitute for character, intellect, or love.


I mean I mowed my family's yard all growing up. Worked summers. Grew up in hunters creek. Went to SBMS and memorial HS. Just moved to Wilchester and plan to have my kids do the same.

You didn't really answer my question honestly. Is your suggestion raising my kids and sending them to a lesser public school so that they can experience fights in the hallway, metal detectors to walk in, and the lot just so they can build character that really should be happening at home anyway?
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AndesAg92 said:

Serotonin said:

HeightsAg said:

12thAngryMan said:

My boss and her husband probably make at least 700k/yr, they live in a $2m+ house, and their kids think they are poor.
Why is this so bad? I'd rather my kids think that they are poor in Memorial than live in Katy and think they are rich and better than everyone else.

Have you ever been around wealthy kids (or wives for that matter) who are top 1% of wealth but complain like they are in the bottom 10%? This is THE drawback to a school like Memorial or private schools, and it's a big one.


So I shouldn't strive to earn as much as I can for my family while keeping the work/life balance and try send them to a public school I feel puts them in the best position to make the next move of their choice?

I'm confused with your logic? Should that guy make $700k/year and send them to northbrook or Westside just bc?

I think you are misreading my post. I'm not saying not to send your kids to private school or a great public school. You should, and I do too.

I was responding to a poster who was asking why it's bad for wealthy kids who live in a bubble not to have any grasp on reality with regards to wealth.
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pdawg10384 said:

For a typical conservative Aggie family, which high school do you think kids and parents would be happier at?
Proud Dad of 4 Frostwood Elem., MMS, & MHS grads. All of them had friends at SHS b/c of relationships started at MMS & common church attendance.

SHS has its fair share of extremely wealthy families so that imbalance is not as bad as some would believe. Both schools have their share of problems, but they had those same problems when I knew kids from there at A&M so that hasn't really changed.

If you goal is to go to Memorial, prepare to overpay for RE East of the Beltway. You will overpay to go to any SBISD high school simply because of SBISD's reputation for education.

Parent participation certainly helps keep your kids focused. I had 1 in the Flag corp, 1 played soccer, 1 did Track, & my last did football & baseball for 1 year. So we were on them to keep up their school work.

Oldest is a class of '17 grad(3.5 yrs). 2nd is '20 magna cum laude ChemE grad, 3rd is a 1st Batt Ranger(Sgt.), and 4th is in Construction Science entering his Junior Year.

We made sure they understood that living where we did was about timing as much as anything else. We bought our house in '94 from Mitsubishi, made a killing at close, & then busted our ass to give our kids more than we had.

A good education can be found, you have to be a participant.
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You don't need to do anything crazy like change schools. Just maybe like once a month, on a Friday afternoon/early evening, drop them off somewhere around Sims Bayou and let them get home on their own. Kids will probably see it as an adventure.
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Quote:

My mom was a Wranglerette in the early 70s
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Microwave Onions said:

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My mom was a Wranglerette in the early 70s



Sooo funny.
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pdawg10384 said:

For a typical conservative Aggie family, which high school do you think kids and parents would be happier at?


Solid pot stir, sir. Touch
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All I know is that Tully Stadium was awesome back in the day.
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I would really try to avoid sending your kids to Memorial if at all possible. Even if you lived in Hunter's Creek or Piney Point, i would make every effort to get them transferred over. While you have Northcrook on one extreme end of the spectrum, you have Memorial on the complete other end. Stratford strikes a healthy balance and is more heavily comprised of kids raised by down to earth, God fearing people. Too many psychopathic narcissists (the types that tend to be hyper successful/driven and in the top 1% of the top 1%) in the 024 for me.

If you have no choice and must send your kids to Memorial, spend a lot of time across I-10 and make sure to expose them to real life brown and black people from time to time. The 77024 bubble can suck you in and screw you up for life if you don't escape it every now and then.
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BG Knocc Out said:

I would really try to avoid sending your kids to Memorial if at all possible. Even if you lived in Hunter's Creek or Piney Point, i would make every effort to get them transferred over. While you have Northcrook on one extreme end of the spectrum, you have Memorial on the complete other end. Stratford strikes a healthy balance and is more heavily comprised of kids raised by down to earth, God fearing people. Too many psychopathic narcissists (the types that tend to be hyper successful/driven and in the top 1% of the top 1%) in the 024 for me.

If you have no choice and must send your kids to Memorial, spend a lot of time across I-10 and make sure to expose them to real life brown and black people from time to time. The 77024 bubble can suck you in and screw you up for life if you don't escape it every now and then.
Signed,

A Spring Woods parent.
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12thMan9 said:

BG Knocc Out said:

I would really try to avoid sending your kids to Memorial if at all possible. Even if you lived in Hunter's Creek or Piney Point, i would make every effort to get them transferred over. While you have Northcrook on one extreme end of the spectrum, you have Memorial on the complete other end. Stratford strikes a healthy balance and is more heavily comprised of kids raised by down to earth, God fearing people. Too many psychopathic narcissists (the types that tend to be hyper successful/driven and in the top 1% of the top 1%) in the 024 for me.

If you have no choice and must send your kids to Memorial, spend a lot of time across I-10 and make sure to expose them to real life brown and black people from time to time. The 77024 bubble can suck you in and screw you up for life if you don't escape it every now and then.
Signed,

A Spring Woods parent.
Why would a Spring Woods parent recommend Stratford? Spring Woods is still about a decade away from being respectable.
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BG Knocc Out said:

12thMan9 said:

BG Knocc Out said:

I would really try to avoid sending your kids to Memorial if at all possible. Even if you lived in Hunter's Creek or Piney Point, i would make every effort to get them transferred over. While you have Northcrook on one extreme end of the spectrum, you have Memorial on the complete other end. Stratford strikes a healthy balance and is more heavily comprised of kids raised by down to earth, God fearing people. Too many psychopathic narcissists (the types that tend to be hyper successful/driven and in the top 1% of the top 1%) in the 024 for me.

If you have no choice and must send your kids to Memorial, spend a lot of time across I-10 and make sure to expose them to real life brown and black people from time to time. The 77024 bubble can suck you in and screw you up for life if you don't escape it every now and then.
Signed,

A Spring Woods parent.
Why would a Spring Woods parent recommend Stratford? Spring Woods is still about a decade away from being respectable.
You are likely the typical envious SHS parent who is oblivious to the bubble you live in as well.

Maybe you haven't met the narcissist SHS parents, yet. Maybe your kids haven't crossed paths with the druggies at SHS, yet. Maybe you haven't heard the silence from parents/coaches as one of their students hurls racial slurs at the opposing team & refs during a sporting event, yet.

All of my down to earth MHS kids & parents friends understand where we live or lived, same as the SHS folks we are friends with, coach with, drink with, etc.

The demographics of both schools are almost the same, so maybe the SHS kids should take a bus to the north side of I-10 as well.

Memorial has a better student/teacher ratio, performs better on the key measures folks look at when deciding on where to possibly live.

So, if OP's selection criteria includes the better school and nothing else, MHS wins.
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12thMan9 said:

BG Knocc Out said:

12thMan9 said:

BG Knocc Out said:

I would really try to avoid sending your kids to Memorial if at all possible. Even if you lived in Hunter's Creek or Piney Point, i would make every effort to get them transferred over. While you have Northcrook on one extreme end of the spectrum, you have Memorial on the complete other end. Stratford strikes a healthy balance and is more heavily comprised of kids raised by down to earth, God fearing people. Too many psychopathic narcissists (the types that tend to be hyper successful/driven and in the top 1% of the top 1%) in the 024 for me.

If you have no choice and must send your kids to Memorial, spend a lot of time across I-10 and make sure to expose them to real life brown and black people from time to time. The 77024 bubble can suck you in and screw you up for life if you don't escape it every now and then.
Signed,

A Spring Woods parent.
Why would a Spring Woods parent recommend Stratford? Spring Woods is still about a decade away from being respectable.
You are likely the typical envious SHS parent who is oblivious to the bubble you live in as well.

Maybe you haven't met the narcissist SHS parents, yet. Maybe your kids haven't crossed paths with the druggies at SHS, yet. Maybe you haven't heard the silence from parents/coaches as one of their students hurls racial slurs at the opposing team & refs during a sporting event, yet.

All of my down to earth MHS kids & parents friends understand where we live or lived, same as the SHS folks we are friends with, coach with, drink with, etc.

The demographics of both schools are almost the same, so maybe the SHS kids should take a bus to the north side of I-10 as well.

Memorial has a better student/teacher ratio, performs better on the key measures folks look at when deciding on where to possibly live.

So, if OP's selection criteria includes the better school and nothing else, MHS wins.
This post oozes '024. Memorial people weren't always this way. It was a pretty respectable bunch growing up. Now if you point out the fact that there is a disproportionate amount of borderline psychopathic money worshipers who are more focused on money than their children in Memorial, you are "envious".

I wont even bring up the rampant adultery and known swingers' community prevalent in the '024.

Good luck, I hope your children turn out to be the exceptions to the norm.
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How do I make sure to avoid the rampant adultery and swinger community? Where do they meet?
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bigjag19 said:

How do I make sure to avoid the rampant adultery and swinger community? Where do they meet?
How attractive are you? If they haven't already reached out, they likely won't. And yes, I have deep ties to the area and those schools and am very well aware of those types of things in that community.
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When did The Woodlands enter this conversation?
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bigjag19 said:

How do I make sure to avoid the rampant adultery and swinger community? Where do they meet?
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bigjag19 said:

How do I make sure to avoid the rampant adultery and swinger community? Where do they meet?

I'm only telling you this because the gig is up, unfortunately:

https://www.har.com/homedetail/306-longwoods-ln-houston-tx-77024/3222929
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Have you met any Wilchester parents?
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BG Knocc Out said:

12thMan9 said:

BG Knocc Out said:

12thMan9 said:

BG Knocc Out said:

I would really try to avoid sending your kids to Memorial if at all possible. Even if you lived in Hunter's Creek or Piney Point, i would make every effort to get them transferred over. While you have Northcrook on one extreme end of the spectrum, you have Memorial on the complete other end. Stratford strikes a healthy balance and is more heavily comprised of kids raised by down to earth, God fearing people. Too many psychopathic narcissists (the types that tend to be hyper successful/driven and in the top 1% of the top 1%) in the 024 for me.

If you have no choice and must send your kids to Memorial, spend a lot of time across I-10 and make sure to expose them to real life brown and black people from time to time. The 77024 bubble can suck you in and screw you up for life if you don't escape it every now and then.
Signed,

A Spring Woods parent.
Why would a Spring Woods parent recommend Stratford? Spring Woods is still about a decade away from being respectable.
You are likely the typical envious SHS parent who is oblivious to the bubble you live in as well.

Maybe you haven't met the narcissist SHS parents, yet. Maybe your kids haven't crossed paths with the druggies at SHS, yet. Maybe you haven't heard the silence from parents/coaches as one of their students hurls racial slurs at the opposing team & refs during a sporting event, yet.

All of my down to earth MHS kids & parents friends understand where we live or lived, same as the SHS folks we are friends with, coach with, drink with, etc.

The demographics of both schools are almost the same, so maybe the SHS kids should take a bus to the north side of I-10 as well.

Memorial has a better student/teacher ratio, performs better on the key measures folks look at when deciding on where to possibly live.

So, if OP's selection criteria includes the better school and nothing else, MHS wins.
This post oozes '024. Memorial people weren't always this way. It was a pretty respectable bunch growing up. Now if you point out the fact that there is a disproportionate amount of borderline psychopathic money worshipers who are more focused on money than their children in Memorial, you are "envious".

I wont even bring up the rampant adultery and known swingers' community prevalent in the '024.

Good luck, I hope your children turn out to be the exceptions to the norm.
LOLZ

550-600 kids graduate that HS every year. Your attempt to pigeon hole and stereotype is comical at best. I live in the Stratford area now but went to MHS and you couldn't be more wrong. My whole wife's family went to and live around the 77079 area and our families are best friends and really don't see any difference. I grew up in Hunters Creek.

You're just being a keyboard ***** and might say these things when over served with your bloodshot face and not remembering it like a lot of my Coach O type neighbors, but that doesn't change you being a self righteous jack wagon to folks that are your same speed and pretty dang close demographically and culturally. Jeezus christ.

Come find me on Pinerock and discuss it with me.
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grimace07 said:

Have you met any Wilchester parents?


Yes, there is a rather sizeable swinger contingent there too, as we've discussed on this board before. There's a reason it's called M*lfchester. But pales in comparison to Memorial. Y'all aren't gonna win this one. Take the L and move on.
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AndesAg92 said:

BG Knocc Out said:

12thMan9 said:

BG Knocc Out said:

12thMan9 said:

BG Knocc Out said:

I would really try to avoid sending your kids to Memorial if at all possible. Even if you lived in Hunter's Creek or Piney Point, i would make every effort to get them transferred over. While you have Northcrook on one extreme end of the spectrum, you have Memorial on the complete other end. Stratford strikes a healthy balance and is more heavily comprised of kids raised by down to earth, God fearing people. Too many psychopathic narcissists (the types that tend to be hyper successful/driven and in the top 1% of the top 1%) in the 024 for me.

If you have no choice and must send your kids to Memorial, spend a lot of time across I-10 and make sure to expose them to real life brown and black people from time to time. The 77024 bubble can suck you in and screw you up for life if you don't escape it every now and then.
Signed,

A Spring Woods parent.
Why would a Spring Woods parent recommend Stratford? Spring Woods is still about a decade away from being respectable.
You are likely the typical envious SHS parent who is oblivious to the bubble you live in as well.

Maybe you haven't met the narcissist SHS parents, yet. Maybe your kids haven't crossed paths with the druggies at SHS, yet. Maybe you haven't heard the silence from parents/coaches as one of their students hurls racial slurs at the opposing team & refs during a sporting event, yet.

All of my down to earth MHS kids & parents friends understand where we live or lived, same as the SHS folks we are friends with, coach with, drink with, etc.

The demographics of both schools are almost the same, so maybe the SHS kids should take a bus to the north side of I-10 as well.

Memorial has a better student/teacher ratio, performs better on the key measures folks look at when deciding on where to possibly live.

So, if OP's selection criteria includes the better school and nothing else, MHS wins.
This post oozes '024. Memorial people weren't always this way. It was a pretty respectable bunch growing up. Now if you point out the fact that there is a disproportionate amount of borderline psychopathic money worshipers who are more focused on money than their children in Memorial, you are "envious".

I wont even bring up the rampant adultery and known swingers' community prevalent in the '024.

Good luck, I hope your children turn out to be the exceptions to the norm.
LOLZ

550-600 kids graduate that HS every year. Your attempt to pigeon hole and stereotype is comical at best. I live in the Stratford area now but went to MHS and you couldn't be more wrong. My whole wife's family went to and live around the 77079 area and our families are best friends and really don't see any difference. I grew up in Hunters Creek.

You're just being a keyboard ***** and might say these things when over served with your bloodshot face and not remembering it like a lot of my Coach O type neighbors, but that doesn't change you being a self righteous jack wagon to folks that are your same speed and pretty dang close demographically and culturally. Jeezus christ.

Come find me on Pinerock and discuss it with me.


Oh damn, PINEROCK? Sorry, I was jk bro.
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BG Knocc Out said:

AndesAg92 said:

BG Knocc Out said:

12thMan9 said:

BG Knocc Out said:

12thMan9 said:

BG Knocc Out said:

I would really try to avoid sending your kids to Memorial if at all possible. Even if you lived in Hunter's Creek or Piney Point, i would make every effort to get them transferred over. While you have Northcrook on one extreme end of the spectrum, you have Memorial on the complete other end. Stratford strikes a healthy balance and is more heavily comprised of kids raised by down to earth, God fearing people. Too many psychopathic narcissists (the types that tend to be hyper successful/driven and in the top 1% of the top 1%) in the 024 for me.

If you have no choice and must send your kids to Memorial, spend a lot of time across I-10 and make sure to expose them to real life brown and black people from time to time. The 77024 bubble can suck you in and screw you up for life if you don't escape it every now and then.
Signed,

A Spring Woods parent.
Why would a Spring Woods parent recommend Stratford? Spring Woods is still about a decade away from being respectable.
You are likely the typical envious SHS parent who is oblivious to the bubble you live in as well.

Maybe you haven't met the narcissist SHS parents, yet. Maybe your kids haven't crossed paths with the druggies at SHS, yet. Maybe you haven't heard the silence from parents/coaches as one of their students hurls racial slurs at the opposing team & refs during a sporting event, yet.

All of my down to earth MHS kids & parents friends understand where we live or lived, same as the SHS folks we are friends with, coach with, drink with, etc.

The demographics of both schools are almost the same, so maybe the SHS kids should take a bus to the north side of I-10 as well.

Memorial has a better student/teacher ratio, performs better on the key measures folks look at when deciding on where to possibly live.

So, if OP's selection criteria includes the better school and nothing else, MHS wins.
This post oozes '024. Memorial people weren't always this way. It was a pretty respectable bunch growing up. Now if you point out the fact that there is a disproportionate amount of borderline psychopathic money worshipers who are more focused on money than their children in Memorial, you are "envious".

I wont even bring up the rampant adultery and known swingers' community prevalent in the '024.

Good luck, I hope your children turn out to be the exceptions to the norm.
LOLZ

550-600 kids graduate that HS every year. Your attempt to pigeon hole and stereotype is comical at best. I live in the Stratford area now but went to MHS and you couldn't be more wrong. My whole wife's family went to and live around the 77079 area and our families are best friends and really don't see any difference. I grew up in Hunters Creek.

You're just being a keyboard ***** and might say these things when over served with your bloodshot face and not remembering it like a lot of my Coach O type neighbors, but that doesn't change you being a self righteous jack wagon to folks that are your same speed and pretty dang close demographically and culturally. Jeezus christ.

Come find me on Pinerock and discuss it with me.


Oh damn, PINEROCK? Sorry, I was jk bro.


Just saying since we're community neighbors we should get together and discuss this over a beer.

But you won't. You're a keyboard warrior.

Edit for spelling
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Are you okay?
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Both schools are excellent. I know a lot of great parents whose kids attended both Stratford and Memorial. My son was good friends with several kids who attended both. Every school in Houston has some knucklehead kids (and they eventually grow out of it)

As someone mentioned….be involved in your kids lives and all will be okay. Just make sure you stay away from the Skull and Bones Swingers Society.

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One more thing…..Coach Koch is awesome. But "Daddy can't buy you this one."
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National Merit Semifinalists 2022-23 by school (threw in some others for comparison purposes):

- St Johns: 32
- Memorial: 23
- Bellaire: 21
- Strake: 17
- Kinkaid: 15
- St Agnes: 9
- Episcopal: 6
- Awty: 4
- Lamar: 2
- Stratford: 2

Honestly surprised that Stratford is that low. Lots of great Katy, Sugar Land, etc schools with good numbers.

https://generalacademic.com/houstons-national-merit-semifinalists-for-2022-2023/
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BG Knocc Out said:

I would really try to avoid sending your kids to Memorial if at all possible. Even if you lived in Hunter's Creek or Piney Point, i would make every effort to get them transferred over. While you have Northcrook on one extreme end of the spectrum, you have Memorial on the complete other end. Stratford strikes a healthy balance and is more heavily comprised of kids raised by down to earth, God fearing people. Too many psychopathic narcissists (the types that tend to be hyper successful/driven and in the top 1% of the top 1%) in the 024 for me.

If you have no choice and must send your kids to Memorial, spend a lot of time across I-10 and make sure to expose them to real life brown and black people from time to time. The 77024 bubble can suck you in and screw you up for life if you don't escape it every now and then.
That's basically all bull*****
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Memorial clearly has the better average SAT scores and the better football program most years. Stratford has some nice neighborhoods zoned to it, but also some ghetto apartments. There is no doubt Memorial will rank higher overall - that's a reflection of the student demographics. That doesn't mean that Memorial is necessarily better for your specific kid. You need to visit both and decide which is a better personal fit. I know three people who graduated from Memorial - its not all rich coke-heads driving BMWs as some like to stereotype here.

I won't ever send my kids to public school because they are necessarily secular, but if I was forced to pick a public school in the Houston metro, Memorial would be at or near the top of my list.
 
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