62strat said:
Principal Uncertainty said:
So, you bought a smaller starter home and then after a few years decided to upgrade?
That brings up a rare piece of advice I once heard that would put Ramsey in the ICU; "Buy as much house as you can afford for your first home" The thought being that your tastes will grow, your stuff will grow, your family will grow and your income will grow, so that first home will look too small and you'll be trying to make that flip sooner than you realize. So, get that extra bedroom and 3rd car garage from the start and you won't feel like you have to make the move later. Obviously, this doesn't count job loss, transfer situations, divorces, etc (unexpected life changes) that might say otherwise.
also, market conditions.
But also;
We wouldn't be in our forever home if it weren't for the money we were able to get from our first home which became our deposit for second home.
Had we just rented that whole time (which was equivalent to our mortgage when we bought) we would have had no down payment 7 years later. Instead, when we sold we got a lot of those payments back plus the appreciation, giving us $40k to work with.
I think it makes more sense to simply get in a home as early as possible, so you're not wasting rent, have a chance at appreciation, and hopefully maybe in a decade, you can get that upgrade. If you can do this by your early 30s, then you're in a good spot. You can follow the payment schedule and still be paid off by early 60s.
This is not necessarily good advice. It can work out in times of rapid appreciation due to market conditions, but not all aspects are considered above. I know 62strat extrapolates his (or his parents) experience to his recommendations which is understandable, but consider this:
1. Rental rates are almost always lower than mortgage payments, which can be 15-20% cash flow savings.
If you have discipline and invest that savings in low/moderate-risk investments, you may come out a good bit ahead. Yes - it's not going to home equity, but in a side vehicle with much more flexibility (including for your next downpayment).
2. The operating costs of home ownership are MUCH higher than rentals (where you just call your landlord if anything breaks). One A/C system replacement and a water heater replacement can cut your "$40k equity" in half immediately, not to mention the small repairs that occur pretty frequently.
3. Transaction costs (both buying and selling) can easily amount to 6- 8% or more each time for commissions, closing costs, carrying costs and dual living expenses, fix-ups, decorating, etc. (cue 62strat saying his dad sold his own house for no commission, etc.). There goes another big chunk of equity (maybe the rest of it?).
4. Market conditions: "Over the past 50 years, US housing appreciation has averaged 4.3% to 4.7% annually", per the web. In Austin today, if you bought in 2018, you might have a 50% gain, but if you bought in 2022, you might have a 25% loss. Are you ready to take that risk? Maybe so, but if you rent, you just walk away if you don't want to renew your lease.
Just saying - it's not a slam dunk. Proceed with caution.