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I cannot wrap my brain around this. Ugh
Think about spacetime like a blanket stretched out between 4 people each holding a corner. Newton tells us that the shortest path between two points is a straight line. If the blanket is pulled taut, the shortest path is still a straight line.
Now imagine a softball placed in the middle of that blanket. If you can picture it, you can see how the blanket dimples where the softball is. Now, the straight line between 2 points (say, if you were to roll a matchbox car) on the blanket has to curve along the blanket because of the dimple. The closer to that dimple, the more exaggerated the curve. That dimple is the gravitational well.
Now imagine a bowling ball instead of a softball. The heavier object creates a deeper well, more gravitational pull for our curved line.
The black hole creates an "infinitely" deep dimple in the blanket such that the distance it takes to cross into the dimple and back out is also "infinite." The curved line then is "infinite."
Maybe that's a bad analogy...