Cinco Ranch Aggie said:
TexAgs never fails when I need an eye-rolling belly laugh.
But I do take a bit of an exception to this, that I've seen posted twice now:
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gay-bashing religious zealots
Perhaps it's just me, but in my circle of Christian acquaintances and friends, I've seen no gay bashing of any kind. Exactly who are you referring to here? Religious could be anyone, even those who deny the existence of God, ie, government is their religion. Are you talking about those who shall not be named who throw gays from buildings?
I am not gay. I do not care for that lifestyle. I do find it to be forced into just about everything these days. It's in literally every thing that Disney produces. It's also in sports. Sitcoms have been doing this for a while now. Yes, I could turn off the media for that, but for the snippet here or there all I'd really be doing is denying myself the entertainment that I have always enjoyed. I don't complain much about it on here, if any, but I will defend my views and my religious beliefs. I don't see movies that are largely about this lifestyle, but up until recently, I also didn't expect to find it put into properties like Star Wars or Marvel (and spare me the "but it's been in the comics! I'm not a comics reader).
I will continue to post on both Politics and Entertainment. Why? Because it's a free country, and it is possible to have opinions on both topics.
In no way, shape, or form did I say or imply that all religious people or all Christians are gay-bashers, nor was I referring to you or your circle of Christian friends with that comment (obviously). I was very clearly talking about a specific type of religious zealot/Christian. And if you haven't seen them on F16, I don't know what to tell you. Because in literally every thread having to do with anything gay or trans, they show up, and the seething hatred with which they refer to the gay community/gay "agenda"/"groomers" is truly batsh*t. It's some of the most vile, disturbing hate I've ever seen, delivered with the confidence of zealots who believe their god shares their hate, and thus their hate is not only justified, but righteous.
I grew up extremely involved in the church (every Sunday morning, youth group every Sunday afternoon, church dinners every Wednesday, Young Life, the whole nine), I have tons of close Christians friends, my entire family is Christian, I love them all very much, and not a one of them hate gay people. In fact, my sisters have a number of close gay friends. In other words, I don't at all think that all Christians are "gay-basher." Which is *exactly* why the F16 breed stands out to me so much.
In the end, though, I'm sorry, but if your god/religion thinks that being gay is a "sin," I want nothing to do with your god/religion. And this is coming from a straight man, i.e. it's not a personal vendetta. But having been around and friends with countless gay people my entire life, especially here in LA, I'm utterly convinced that most (though not all, of course) gay people are born that way. If only because no one would actively choose that path, and to write them all off as simply being "mentally ill," as most of F16 does, is easy and abhorrent. So, any god that allows people to be born gay, but forbids them from not only marrying someone of the same sex, but having a loving, physical relationship with anyone of the same the sex, all the while telling the people who were lucky enough to be born heterosexual, "Sure, go right ahead!
Your physical expression of love (after marriage)
isn't a sin!" is about one of most f/cked up things I can imagine.
That's why when Christians use religious reasons to say they don't "agree" with the gay lifestyle - from the gay-bashing zealots all the way down to the "tolerant" folk who still think it's a sin - it *all* makes me want to scream just the same. Because it's such a cowardly, believe-as-you're-told copout, based on a book written 2000 years ago that you believe is right simply because *it* says it's right. And for the worst of the F16ers, it's a call to put virtual signaling to their god above treating a maligned community with love, empathy, and respect. An aspect of which has, as of late, evolved into endlessly complaining about the gay "agenda," gay "propaganda," groomers, and maligning the gay community even more. When, in reality, as a poster said earlier, *depiction* is not "forcing" anything. Sure, is some of it in bad faith and nothing more than an attempt to check a box?. No doubt. But, by and large, what it truly is is an attempt to offer representation, hope, an olive branch, etc to a group in the face of the increasingly loud and increasingly vile F16ers of the world. The irony, of course, is that the louder the F16ers of the world scream, the more the Disneys of the world want to represent, and round and round we go.