Sid Farkas said:
HTownAg98 said:

I was in Dublin in 2014 after Robin Williams' death. I've never forgotten this article in the Irish Times Sunday paper...
Why the death of Robin Williams triggers an unquestioned outpouring of grief The Irish Times
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The death of Robin Williams was a sad event...
I was sorry to hear the news, but I did not cry or experience anything like proper grief. After all, I am not related to Robin Williams. I have never met Robin Williams. I know nobody directly affected by his loss.
That all seems sane enough. Out there in the wider world, however, millions of strangers found themselves "devastated" and "bereft" at the news. A random sampling of Twitter drags up a surprising number of users who "can't stop crying".
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There were reports of women flinging themselves from windows when actor Rudolph Valentino croaked in 1926. But the princess of Wales's death [Diana] marked the point at which recreational grieving reached epidemic proportions.
'recreational grieving' is the takeaway phrase I still use all the time after mass shootings, untimely deaths of people from my TV, etc...like most people, I can barely manage my own emotional life, much less take on (at some minor level) the optional burden of having feelings for these unfortunate people.
I don't know about everyone but you have to realize that it's not always 'recreational'. For many of us growing up, these shows were in our family, in our living room, every day. They were part of our life. As such, these characters and actors are part of our family in a way. We didn't live in a time when we could just stream whatever. We had to force ourselves to allow a slot in life to watch TV and these shows/actors. I still get surprised when I see Alan Alda at his age, old, etc because I still know the very young and snarky Hawkeye from MASH. It is not unusual, in fact, I consider it
psychopathic, to not feel some level of sorrow or loss over things like this.