Cliff.Booth said:
TCTTS said:
What's telling/hilarious about this whole ordeal is that the movie isn't even saying that men are keeping women down, or that women are oppressed or whatever. It's not at all that kind of movie. As evident of and outlined in America Ferrera's big speech, the whole argument is that, as a woman, it's simply a challenge at times to live up to society's many contradictory and conflicting expectations of who and what a woman should be.
That's it. That's the gist.
And so the theme of the movie is that in light of all those unattainable expectations, the best thing any of us can do is concentrate only on our own expectations of ourselves, and tune out all the other noise.
Basically, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.
Yet all these knuckleheads who still haven't seen the movie for themselves keep insisting that it's something it's not, and then they get angry about it based on their own, false/uninformed conclusions.
It's TexAgs Outrage 101. No matter what the truth is, create an outcome first - i.e. the thing you want to be outraged about - and then reverse engineer your argument to fit that outrage, facts and actually seeing the movie for yourself be damned.
So, going back to the tweet made by some feminist and then shared by some feminist group about how delightful it is that this movie degrades men in a way they've felt degraded traditionally...these people didn't see the same Barbie you saw, or what? Because what you described wouldn't give feminists such glee about seeing men degraded. Help that make sense.
First of all - again - "men" aren't being degraded in this movie. Rather, a very
specific breed of sh*tty, toxic men are being degraded in this movie. This is underlined over and over again. Basically, "assh*les," and for some reason you're mad that assh*les are being called out, which is such a weird position to take. "How dare women mock assh*les" is how your argument comes off.
The men I know who have seen the movie don't take offense to it all. Because A) the whole thing is clearly a joke, and B) they know they're not the assh*les in question, thus they know it's not them being targeted. The only men getting mad at this movie are the ones who either haven't seen it yet, or the ones who think it's okay to be the kind of man this movie is mocking. So when that random screenshot you posted says "watching men rant…" it's CLEARLY referring to the type of man who would take offense to the portrayal depicted in the movie, i.e. an assh*le.
It's really not that complicated.